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no is the short, and honest answer. As I have stated in other posts and topics, I am so into the man that even were he 5 inches- (I dont even know how big/small that is tbh) it just wouldn't matter- it is all about whether he is desirable to me in the areas that really attract me and turn me on- and penis size has very little to do with that.:smile:
Very comforting thoughts.
5" is just about the statistical average. The real "median" length (which is different from average) is probably less...more like 4.75" in my opinion.
Just find some amateur porn and you will see many 4-5&6" ones.
Amen to that! I think a lot of women do, but us guys just will not believe it.
If even, say, 30% of women really feel this way that is still a lot of women!
There are so many women out there looking for nice guys-- you just have to be patient enough to both be the person that you want your future wife to marry and to find her. You really can meet the woman of your dreams, she's out there. And she doesn't care what size your penis is, whether you look like a movie star, or it you're independently wealthy.
Mr. Snakey
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You got it right. Love rules over everything. 5 inches is fine to please a woman. Everybody has different tastes. Some like them big,small and average.:smile:
No matter what size the penis is it really is such a small part of a man. His soul, heart and character are so much more imprtant. Thats what i think about when im with a man that i really like not if he is going to fill me
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I just read an interesting article in Psychology Today, One thing caught my eye in relation to this thread- regarding mens and womens perceptions of opposite sex interest, and how they often depend on their own gender specific need:"men scan for sexiness and availability, women scavenge for clues to personality and commitment readiness".
I can't say I agree 100%, because I don't believe men always scan for sexiness and availability EXCLUSIVELY, but that said- it does make sense that men may think penis size would have as much importance to a woman as it seems to do for themselves.
Lee, i totally agree. Though I honestly have never met a man who didn't "fill me"- whether that says something about his size, or mine, I don't really know. I do know I have incredible muscles, I can squeeze my finger awfully tightly, though again, I am a real dumb ass about numbers, I mean bad- and I can't even tell you the size of my finger unless I get a measuring tape, which isn't something I carry around.
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See? I wake up in the middle of the night, here I am, if not reading my Psych Today- then I'm reading and posting here. I'm trying to remember what I did before Yorkie pointed me to this site! I'm sure he'd say I made more videos- lol:biggrin1:
I can't say I agree 100%, because I don't believe men always scan for sexiness and availability EXCLUSIVELY, but that said- it does make sense that men may think penis size would have as much importance to a woman as it seems to do for themselves.
Lee, i totally agree. Though I honestly have never met a man who didn't "fill me"- whether that says something about his size, or mine, I don't really know. I do know I have incredible muscles, I can squeeze my finger awfully tightly, though again, I am a real dumb ass about numbers, I mean bad- and I can't even tell you the size of my finger unless I get a measuring tape, which isn't something I carry around.
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See? I wake up in the middle of the night, here I am, if not reading my Psych Today- then I'm reading and posting here. I'm trying to remember what I did before Yorkie pointed me to this site! I'm sure he'd say I made more videos- lol:biggrin1:
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Viking, what do you think good about yourself? Have you any attractive qualities, in your opinion? I don't even mean attractive in the physical sense- I know all the things I find attractive about you and I don't know you, so surely you know some?
But I also know your self depreciating demeanor reaches out to me, a dangerous thing, that!:kiss:
I know...I don't have a very good outlook on myself. I is a bit dangerous.
Some of these comments are in jest and not meant too seriously.
I like to make people laugh and be happy.
Good qualities about me...hmmm...deep thought required.
Well maybe if she wants her car fixed I would be a good choice or most anything else fixed. I take care of everything around the house here.
I have had some that were interested in these abilities but I wrote them off as "gold diggers". May that a big mistake. Those interested in what I can do rather in me are kind of worriesome.
Maybe you meant intellectual qualities. I don't really know on that.
I really do think of myself as an "average Joe" and nothing special.
I am also very curious as to what qualities you find attractive about me.
I am just interested to know what the ladies might think from what I have said on hear. I will welcome any and all comments...good or bad.
Ok, I am going to get blasted for this one.......I have never been with a man who has an average size penis( 5-6 inches) I guess I have made it a habit to only date hung guys. Given that if a guy is an ass and is hung, I wouldn't date him either. Visually the guy has to have a giagantic cock for me to get aroused sexually ( 9+ inches) .....
Mr. Snakey
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Nothing wrong with that. Like i said everyone has different tastes.I love woman who like huge cocks. You wont get blasted from me.....
I doubt you will get blasted for that...not on here anyway. I give you credit for be honest.
I would like to know (this is not a smart alec comment either) where you have found all these huge guys. I am not into guys but I have never in real life even seen anything like the 9+ you are talking about.
Kinda makes me glad I do not live in Canada...:redface:
See, I read that and my immediate thought was, "ooooh, that's a great quality to have, I wish my husband had that." Alas he is not perfect. It says a lot more about you than you think, and this is how I see a man that's handy, apart from the fact that I'll never have to get my oil changed at Wal-mart again or he'll help me get that crown molding up in the dining room:
A man who is handy is intelligent. Being able fix means being able to solve problems. Fixing something is a creative and logical process that requires thought and patience.
A man who is handy is persistent. Many times a project may look daunting or difficult, but getting them done shows a man willing to see something through to the end.
A man who is handy is considerate. He cares enough about his home, car, and surroundings to take the time to notice and then fix any problems that may arise. His help in caring for things means he cares for those who use those things.
A man who is handy is dependable. If he keeps things in working order, it means he has to stay attentive as well as do things consistently as they come up.
In my mind, all of these things generalize, and therefore tell me things about your personality. It makes you attractive because actions say so much about who you are. So liking you for your handiness may not just be golddigging.
You seem like a really nice guy. I truly hope you find your special someone.
Snooz
This confuses me. Do you screen all of your men for penis size before you date them? Over 9 inches is incredibly large, and not something you're going to happen upon every other guy. It's large enough to be somewhat rare.
One thing I always wonder is that when people say they have only been with guys of a certain number of inches, are they measuring every time? People aren't very good at estimating the size of things from just looking-- our brains are just not built that way, which is why optical illusions work so well.
B_Think_Kink
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No... I'm pretty sure when I am looking at whats in my hand.. I'm not thinking about another guy, or a larger cock. I would probably thinking "Hey! this is much better"... bigger is not better all the time. I am not a size queen, and I would never flood my mind with visions of someone else, that is just rude.
