I may help him find someone to achieve his goal but as far as playing surrogate mother to his baby, no. If I'm going to destroy my body, be miserable, and carry around that weight for 9 months than that little monster is mine, end of.
It isn't the kind of sacrifice I think I can make. I would help him with the adoption process, help him find a surrogate, but I'm not sure I could let go of a baby I hosted.
Would depend on the circumstances. Assuming the guy met all of my requirements for being a good father, and assuming I were in a position to be pregnant (I couldn't right now for health reasons) then yes.... under one condition. I would want to be in that kids life somehow. I could be his/her aunt! I'd be down with that. If I knew from the get-go that the kid was never going to be mine, I think I could handle it emotionally, but I'd still want to be around.
Only one person I ever considered carryig a baby for... my younger sister who tried 7 years before she finally got pregnant (with twins!) ... I talked about it with her and my husband....
Gave it serious consideration. I only have one child but had a fairly uneventful pregnancy so I really thought this was something I could do.
A friend? Probably not as surrogate, but def help in finding the right way to accomplish the goal.
There is only 1 gay friend i ever had that i would have had a child for. We talked about it a lot. I already have a son and at the time i thought he would make an excellent parent. The joy of having a baby is so wonderful, i couldn't deny that for someone i loved. I hate being pregnant but the end result would be worth it.
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