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Use your words, Dear. Numbers, letters, and shorter homophones do not count. I do not like stupidity, ignorance, or laziness. Unlike penis size, awareness of these traits in advance will influence my decision to date a man or not to date him.
 

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I was going to say the same thing as Altered Ego.

I am more impressed by how a guy speaks, and of course if there is written communication, he needs to KNOW the difference between KNOW and no.. and KNEW and new... :)

I'm not an English major but such things indicate at least one of the problems AE mentioned, that I'd rather not mess with. (Even if his penis is a foot long)
 

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Ladies I would like to no if u new the size of a mans cock when u met him would that influence your decision on dating him.

Well since this is not a English class either answer the question or do not. There is no need for rudeness here.

I don't think it's rude at all. Both posters are being honest about their thoughts in a nice way. I have to be honest that when I read your original post earlier all I could focus on was the bad spelling and I didn't care for the question being asked.

I used to use craigslist and I didn't reply to any ads with similar spelling. Posts such as 'is ther ene wimen who wanna fuk 2nite?'. The person who wrote it might be the best lay in the world, but I don't give them that chance because of my initial first impression. Just sayin'

Back to the original question: There aren't many guys who tell me their cock size before I've met them. Let's say I knew his cock size, I wouldn't just think of that if I was thinking of dating him. Personality, chemistry etc etc and lots of other things would come first.

If I'm buying a sex toy I choose a particular size; someone I want to date is not a toy and they are more to me than their cock size. It wouldn't be part of the decision for me. An amazing guy with a small cock would be someone I'd date; a douche bag with a huge cock would be someone I'd avoid.
 

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I know this isn't an English class, but text speak is for texting - not for forums, even if you might be posting from your phone. I know we're a picky bunch, but all that kind of stuff blocks clear communication.

There! Don't you feel better after a good spanking from a bunch of women? :biggrin1:

Now, onto your question. If I knew the size of a guy's cock by accident before I dated him, it wouldn't influence me. By that I mean, somebody was being 'helpful' and told me, or some girl said something. If the guy himself was either bragging or complaining about his cock size, then yes, it would influence me. I wouldn't go out with him. I find it a little desperate or pathetic when a man feels the need to talk about his dick before I've seen it.
 

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OK, Shavedcouple, I will admit right up front that it was difficult reading your original post. Because of the increased difficulty the emphasis of your message was lost. Does that matter to you because it does to me. This is not text messaging. It's a forum for communicating thoughts. No rudeness intended. I'm just telling you my side.

Now, what was the question again?
 

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Makes no difference to me, if I wanted nothing but a specific size, I'd buy a toy of that size!

Things that would make a difference to me:

Bragging about his size
Talking about his lack of size
Poor command of his particular language
Persistent references to his sexual prowess
Persistent references to his lack of experience
Asking me about my previous partners
Telling me about his previous partners
Randomly dropping comments about my breasts into the conversation (seriously guys, it isn't cute... "How are you today? You have amazing boobs btw!")
Trying to assign me a political group (Maybe they only do that to me?)
Mentioning 3-somes the second they find out I'm bisexual.
 

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Well since this is not a English class either answer the question or do not. There is no need for rudeness here.
I wasn't being rude to you. I was trying to help you get more women to give you a shot in the future. I wasn't calling you stupid, ignorant or lazy. I only meant to communicate that when presented with that kind of writing by adults, I can only conclude that the author doesn't have the capacity to understand the differences between the homophones used (is stupid), is unaware that the homophones do not have the same meaning/thinks alpha-numeric shortcuts make him seem cooler/is unaware that he might appear stupid (is ignorant), or has the capacity to understand basic communication, grammar and usage, does know the homophones are not interchangeable, and simply does not want to put in the slightly increased effort to write more appropriately (is lazy). Once I think these things about someone there is no interest in any kind of partnership. I am not alone in this. The better you present yourself, the better you will be received.

Thank you for being so honest.
She wasn't the only woman who was honest. Just the only one who would be more interested based on bigger dicks. This isn't a question, just a fishing expedition for validation. That's not attractive either, by the way.

Anything I find out about a penis, anything at all (minus obvious exceptions like disease and odor) makes a man I already like more interesting. But, if I don't like him for some other reason, I don't like him enough to care about penis factoids.
 

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I wasn't being rude to you. I was trying to help you get more women to give you a shot in the future. I wasn't calling you stupid, ignorant or lazy. I only meant to communicate that when presented with that kind of writing by adults, I can only conclude that the author doesn't have the capacity to understand the differences between the homophones used (is stupid), is unaware that the homophones do not have the same meaning/thinks alpha-numeric shortcuts make him seem cooler/is unaware that he might appear stupid (is ignorant), or has the capacity to understand basic communication, grammar and usage, does know the homophones are not interchangeable, and simply does not want to put in the slightly increased effort to write more appropriately (is lazy). Once I think these things about someone there is no interest in any kind of partnership. I am not alone in this. The better you present yourself, the better you will be received.

She wasn't the only woman who was honest. Just the only one who would be more interested based on bigger dicks. This isn't a question, just a fishing expedition for validation. That's not attractive either, by the way.

Anything I find out about a penis, anything at all (minus obvious exceptions like disease and odor) makes a man I already like more interesting. But, if I don't like him for some other reason, I don't like him enough to care about penis factoids.
To be honest I do not need your help in getting women. One I am married, two I actually turn down women all the time. So don't need your help. Ya I may be lazy when asking questions on a sex site, I didn't really think people were here for the grammar. I am actually very educated and own my own company that is very successful, and live in a 2 million dollar home. So thanks for the info I will try and use proper grammar for you ladies that are here on a sex site.
 

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To be honest I do not need your help in getting women. One I am married, two I actually turn down women all the time. So don't need your help. Ya I may be lazy when asking questions on a sex site, I didn't really think people were here for the grammar. I am actually very educated and own my own company that is very successful, and live in a 2 million dollar home. So thanks for the info I will try and use proper grammar for you ladies that are here on a sex site.

Yet... I'm smarter!
 

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To be honest I do not need your help in getting women. One I am married, two I actually turn down women all the time. So don't need your help. Ya I may be lazy when asking questions on a sex site, I didn't really think people were here for the grammar. I am actually very educated and own my own company that is very successful, and live in a 2 million dollar home. So thanks for the info I will try and use proper grammar for you ladies that are here on a sex site.

Hey Cool .. Just chill. While I also feel that the way you put your question brings teeny-weeny image about you, I also feel that the repeated remarks over your grammer, english and sentence formation was unwarranted.

Just for the sake of curiosity. If you had the option of 2 mn dollar home and 5 inch dick and 1/2 million dollar home and 10 inch penis, what would you choose :tongue:. Do answer.
 

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Hey Cool .. Just chill. While I also feel that the way you put your question brings teeny-weeny image about you, I also feel that the repeated remarks over your grammer, english and sentence formation was unwarranted.

Just for the sake of curiosity. If you had the option of 2 mn dollar home and 5 inch dick and 1/2 million dollar home and 10 inch penis, what would you choose :tongue:. Do answer.

That really isn't likely to happen...

He's banned :wink: