No not about masturbation, about actual do it yourself. Nj mentioning her toolbox in another thread made me think about this. The ladies on here who are living alone, how good are you at DIY and does your toolbox consist of a pair of tweezers and a nail file that doubles up as a screwdriver? I'm hopeless at DIY, when I was married my husband was a dab hand at any type of repair from electrical, decorating, plumbing to fixing the car, consequently I never learned to do any of that stuff, I can wire a plug that's about my limit. My tool box consists of a screw driver set, a hammer, and some bolt croppers I acquired somehow. Fortunately I have three brothers who are always willing to fix things for me, in return I cook them a meal and make them some cakes.