Huh -- this is a big issue, mainly because no matter how slowly I go, no matter how lubed up, I have a feeling it hurts for most girls (in fact, the last ex even discussed the issue with her gyno, who was rather amazed by the stretch marks). In fact, any help anyone can offer in terms of the best lubes, techniques, etc., would be greatly appreciated -- I HATE the idea that sex is painful (in a not fun way), and want to do everything to make sure it's not.
That said...
That said...