Large Guys...Would You Be As Happy If You Were Avg/Small ??

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  1. Crosz

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    A question for large/endowed guys: Do you think that you would be a happy/confident sexually if you were average or small ?? Would your level of self-esteem be the same ?(I know, a man is more than his genitals and no one should tie their self worth to how big or small they are)

    How would your sexual experiences have been different ? Would they have been as satisfying for you ? your partners ?

    Would the view you hold of your body be different if you hadn't received all the postive feedback that you received from partners about your size ?

    Do you think that you would be able to satisfy your partners as much if you were smaller ?

    Just wondering...
     
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    man, sometimes I feel like a motherless child...
     
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    I have never heard of that large guys are not happy and confident because of the size of their tools. Interesting !!!
     
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    Pff, if I don't know how it is to be a bit bigger then I don't think I wouldn't have a problem. You can have great sex with a smaller dick too so don't see the problem or issue. But I like my dick :rolleyes:
    So maybe less confident.
     
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    I'd like to be able to say that I think I'd be as happy and sexually confident if I were less well-endowed. I think that is the "right answer." But I think that would be a dishonest response.

    I'm not a guy whose entire self-image is wrapped up in the size of his genitalia ... but I have often thought that it's one less thing I have to worry about in life. :smile:

    Steve
     
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    i'd still be me dick or no dick. b4 i fuck a chick she never knows what size i am so i think id get the same amount of pussy
     
  7. Crosz

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    THE Richard Mann ?? Here on LPSG ?? If it is
    you...it is indeed an honor.

    No doubt,you'd still be who you are but you are
    getting a lot of love because you are Richard Mann.I think that you're more well known than you think.

    Much respect and Continued success to you,bro.
    I am definitely a fan.
     
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    Would I be as happy, yeah, probably. I have a nice girlfriend who seems to enjoy sex and isn't with my for my dick.

    Would I be as confident...probably not, at least sexually. I'm a relatively shy guy, but at least when it comes down to actually having sex I'm pretty cocksure. I'm not huge by any means, ~6.5x5.5, but I know I have enough that for the average girl at least, I'm giving them something they don't have everyday (or at least I would hope.) I know that you can be as good a lover, and even better with an average size penis...but it's nice knowing that I have a headstart, even if it's just psychological.
     
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    Lol, It could be the case for some of us (who r big but not so well known), but I'm not sure it's always yr case!
    Being popular porn actor as you are, and chicks dont know about your size...
    Well, perhaps they don't really know your exact size, (is it 9", 10" or 12", as it's not easy always to guess based on pics and vids), but they pretty much know what to expect, lol!
     
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    ... And to answer the question - I think I prefer myself like this, lol! Wouldn't like to be smaller, thats for sure!
     
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    Well the way I see it....

    I was pretty shy and unconfident when I left school and was around 18/19. Once I lost my virginity and everyone started going on about me having a big dick my personality blossomed at the same time and I became less and less shy to the point that now everyone thinks I am one of the most confident people in the world. But I have always put that down to my "You only have 1 life" attitude over my also useful "Girls are gonna love this big dick!" attitude ;)
     
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    But, from the way you explain it, it seems that you got a big confidence boost from women complementing you on your large dick. How do you think things would have turned out differently if they had not reacted at all to your dick or just told you it was small?
     
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    As a person who does PE, I would say it has a huge impact. I love my dick more everyday and therefore yes!
     
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    I know for a fact I would not be as confident sexually if I was average or small. I used to think I was average. I only got head once and never had sex. Ever since I found out I was big - it has given me a new found confidence to attract women. Now I have a girlfriend and I'm going to have sex on Saturday.

    My self esteem (about my dick at least) wasn't low. I didn't think I was small. But now that I know I'm big - my self esteem has risen higher. I still feel like a total nerd...but now I'm a nerd with a girlfriend and going to be sexually active, so it doesn't bother me as much when people think low about me anymore.

    Well - positive feedback does make me feel better about myself. I always knew I was intelligent. Lately hearing positive feedback about my endowment (as well as my creativity with my poetry) has made me feel like a true gem.

    Well - yeah - I know I'd be able to satisfy my partner even if I was average or a little below because she is very tight. Still, I wouldn't want to be any smaller.
     
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    I like that response. I think it mirrors my own, and is well put.

    Id like to think that if I was average I would be as happy and confident as I am. People tend to make physical excuses for their sense of self being higher or lower. Maybe if I was average cock sized, Id take more pride in being in good shape, or having sexual stamina and oral skils.

    I think things tend to level out emotionally, regardless of physical attributes. People are born into and learn certain dispositions, and they grow into them using whatever physical characteristics they have. If I had a small cock, Id be just as confident, just for different reasons.
     
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    More interesting question i think - Imagine you had your current large size and it has had the same effect on girls/guys that it has....but the average cock size was bigger than first thought and you were low average on the scale? So you may be packing 8 x 6 but this is seen as below average.
     
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    There is more to me than my penis size, but without my size I wouldn't have the same high level of sexual confidence. I probably wouldn't have the same confidence in other aspects of my life either, and confidence results in success, which gives more confidence and so on.

    Sexual confidence is where it's at though: I don't fantasize my wife with another man, and I never felt anything other than 100% confident with a new sexual partner either. I never fretted about her past boyfriends, or whether she was going to enjoy it, or anything along those lines. I knew it was going to be good, and today I know my wife enjoys each and every time we are together, and she is satisfied by what we share. We share more than size, we share confidence created by size, which pleases us both.
     
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    I have never carried myself in a manner that was like "I'm gonna get laid cause of the size of my cock." I never actually thought it was that big to begin with - some girls comment and some don't. As one guy said, if they don't know going in, you'd expect to get just as many girls. Most girls that I chat with say they prefer average to a little above average but more so on how it's used. I'm happy with what I have but I think it's more important to work on the stroke and making her feel better.

    Cock size is just that, it doesn't change the man.
     
  19. D_Beau Nerr

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    I love my cock and the every essence of me as a man. Happiness is really relative and is proportional to contentment. If guys are taught to be confident to be proud of their bodies regardless of shape or size then we wouldn't be awkward to relate sexually with women. If my dick would be smaller, I'm sure I'd find ways to make myself contented. Feeling sorry for what I have is just a waste of time.
     
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    Be happy and proud of what you have! I know I am!
     
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