I'm wondering something... I've been the top during anal sex with another guy (and a couple of girls whenjoy it), but have never taken the bottom position. I've got to be honest, I've wanted to have it done by a man with a large penis, but what's the best way to pull it off without literally ripping myself a new asshole in the process or running into other complications after the fact. I get the idea of lots of lube, but do any of you well-endowed gay or bi men (or straight men who have anal sex with your female partner) have tips to make the job easier? And of course, I wonder what it would feel like. I'm more used to playing the role of the top, so it baffles me a bit.