Large Penis and "generosity"

[13788]

stephaneparis: LP just turn me crazy.
I am gay.
Some meets are just huge... but not as generous as I would expect them to be with me in sex acting.

Are LP just selfish?

 

[Pecker]

Maybe it is not they who are selfish - perhaps you expect your partners to know what you want automatically?

Nobody can read your mind, stephaneparis.

Communication being the key to good sex, tell your partner what you like and ask him what he likes. It'll make all the difference in your satisfaction.

 

[jonb]

Pecker's right. First rule of sex: No one's responsible for your orgasm but you. Men aren't mind-readers.

 

[13788]

stephaneparis: Thank-you for your reading.

It is a fact I am too discreet in showing my needs or request in sex matter.

I am just respecting my partners and leave them the decision to act, meet and ask.
I do not want to disturb or perturbate.

I am quite available...
Most of my partners are bi or straight.
(I am gay).

I am "don't ask", "don't show"...
But my partners know how much they can rely on me.

Chat helps!

 

[jonb]

Well, that's your problem: Their only experience is with women.

Oh, a bit of advice: Don't be overly promiscuous. HIV and all.

 

[13788]

stephaneparis: Hi!

Thks for advice.

Yes, I defenitly care about protection.
Keep in mind I am the first concerned and I know all about my sex live around.
Who really knows about partner's former pratice?
Even for someone you love and trust in much, you are not behind him always.

But I also care about my partner and know where up I can go...
Curiously, when travelling throughout US I notices guys would be less cary about sex security.
I sometimes test them and feel they would accept over the limit of safety acts.

This side of the Atlantic (I am from Paris-France) it seems we have been more aware or in any minute alarm about this point.

My partners are mainly straight or bi guys and I am extremmly vigilant for them as they might be sometimes overtaken by exitment.
You know, when you are in action...
All is under control all the time my side, once again for me but also for them.

Wish everyone behave the same.
But sex is good and go on having as much as you can!!!

Best from Paris.

 

[jonb]

Okay, here are some rules I've developed about AIDS:

• Don't have sex* with anyone who has had a blood transfusion in six months.
• Don't have sex with anyone who has had sex with anyone else in the last six months.
• Don't have sex with drug addicts.
• Don't have sex with anyone who has been in an African hospital and has been in the country (in your case, France) less than six months.

*For our purposes, "sex" is defined as penetrative. Ejaculation on healthy skin doesn't spread AIDS.

The last rule is because of the poor medical equipment in much of Africa. It's responsible for high HIV seroprevalence rates.

 

[13788]

stephaneparis: thank-you for this medical topic

you also have safer sex practice
and codon use!

 

[jonb]

I forgot: Don't have sex with hemophiliacs.