large penis is it just a physiological win or ignorance of simple medical facts?

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by asadz, Nov 5, 2010.

  1. asadz

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    What i want to bring to this forum is actually nothing new. Yes you have probably guessed it right it has to do something related to 'large penis size'. The site is doing its share in promoting the whole deal where one is just to compelled to say that yes indeed 'size does actually matter'.But then again there are people like me who feel that injustice is being done whenever a popular opinion is formed. What is abundant is not always largely true.

    I did my small part of research and what i found is not even something which is like unknown fact or something completely new and i would not call it a ground breaking research.But When we talk about penis sizes we always have this exact same male version of a story; and its all mistaken by the fact that when the OMG expression on these women faces faces is termed as a victory flag like a war has just been won over. This is where it all goes shamelessly wrong the thumbs up expression is to the "size" ALONE and has no connection to what this size would do in actually increasing their sexual pleasure. No doubt a large penis would increase the sexual excitement like just in the case of seeing large tits has the same effect on us (guys). Like its all hearsay evidence as for me because when you read a poll for e.g where it says like 70% of women say YES to size dose matter question. What they are actually saying? What is it actually implying?Well for one that it doesn't say in any case that a smaller size penis(average) is incapable of make them orgasm .... its just their preferences which has no direct 1-1 correspondence to level of sexual satisfactions the large penis grantees. Research shows that this is mostly is physiological and not has much to do with true physiological reality. Whats more interesting the only medial explanation was given in research supported large girth over large penis size as larger girth give a more complete feeling to a women and helps stimulate the wall of her inner vagina more. What a large penis would do is just to promote their sex drive more quickly and they would perhaps attempt to approach the whole matter of sex with a large penis with whole lot more adventuresome. I'm not saying that guys with smaller penis are not creative at all<3. Its just English language..

    Anyhow, medically there is nothing splendid or genius like thing a big penis can do what a smaller one ( average). Here is why?

    There are only nerve endings in the first the of the vagina. She doesn't have any feeling in the top two thirds. And a females vagina on average is only about 5-6 inches deep. There are only nerve endings in the first two inches. So automatically size doesn't matter because what does it matter if you are 6 inches or 12 inches.

    You are welcome to confirm this finding from any medical journal all would agree on this fact.

    Now the interesting thing is that why you don't get to read facts more often that you really should. With all respect sites like LPSG and others on web...with like more than 1000+ member all boasting and sharing stories,news,articles and what not on how large penis is such a great thing and stuff which makes a guy a depressed guy to just chop off his 5 inch penis with a kitchen knife and a stitch with donkey size dick? really this is what it is. I mean just see the level of propaganda that is being marketed around the whole matter is hilarious and also very humiliating.When it comes to real facts all such sites are void of this critical and vital factual information such as this. I would love to see that there should be a similar peer / support group that should be established for people advocating support for SPSG ; like with the simple fact i narrated above they can win over more audience and most importantly appreciation for coming all honest about stuff which has indiscriminately left hidden by others. I DO Wonder if by research alone these groups like LPSG would be to formed all would get a early grave in the cyber world. Most definitely.

    Technically what is big stands out there is no two opinion on that.But i sometimes thing when you have like a big machine gun and you use it in field to kill your enemies but the bullets are capable of doing as much as damage as what a 9mm pistol would do?? You would have some trouble boasting / advertising such a big machine gun.

    What more damaging and hurting for me that all the topic discussion regarding big penis versus a small one gets smaller guys caught up in this self-conscious / low self - esteem crisis where he doesn't not know where to go? Either to enroll himself in some hounded thousand dollars 3 months penis enlargement program where all he would be doing is (stretching ,jelging) day in day out until he tears every muscle that exist in his penis or in worst cases have a penis enlargement operation done on him just to give him the pseudo and short lived assurance that what he has done is the right thing. Well as you now know that the reality is all very different . Size never mattered and never has. Thats the bottom line.

    The only time it mattered is in XXX movies no-ones want to see a girl on sucking on a 6 inch cock? Its what is more visually pleasing the same reason its more impact full to have a rider knocked by a 12-14 wheeler than by 4-by-4 vehicle.Its all about money so ofcourse there size does matter coz size equal money NOT pleasure. If its pleasure just read what some of the ex-/ retired born again porn stars have to say to this. Start with shelley lubben and listen to her what she has to say on the subject..

    So yeah that pretty much i have to say on the topic. I would love to read your comments on the topic (unless the mods have plan to delete the post).

    Take care.
     
  2. CynFully

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    tl;dr, can you summarize or give me the readers digest version? Because i am also perplexed by the issue "bigger is better".
     
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    Okay, let me first say that I agree with a lot of what you wrote. I also feel that most men are too concerned about the size of their penises when they really shouldn't be so obsessed about it. It really doesn't matter as much as most men think it does.

    However, there is one small point that is incorrect in what you wrote...

    Have you tried asking a woman if she only has nerves in the first 2" of her vagina? Because that isn't correct. I've heard that myth before and I don't know why it persists, but it's simply untrue.
     
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    Care to share that popcorn?
     
  6. hsarge

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    Do you read any of the posts by the women here? Women are not physiological duplicates run off some assembly line. Not all vaginas are cast from the same mold. Not all nerve endings are in the same place. Have you read the topic 'Anterior/Posterior Fornix'? Why do men think they are the experts on women's bodies? Find a woman that likes your 'package'; don't expect that to be every woman. Knowledge is not a bad thing; the quote says 'A little knowledge is a bad thing.'
     
  7. asadz

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    Well i said most women not ALL..Well i don''t think calling a medically proven fact a myth is polite ....why not you just do google search it and find it your ownself....or better let a girl answer this for you like with similar discussion on yahoo answers someone asked the same question About penis size? tHIs is what another user has to say about the topic.....anyhow Her name is nicole she has this to say...

    "The top two-thirds of the vagina has no nerve endings. Really. We only have a couple of inches that can feel what&#8217;s going on (that&#8217;s why you can&#8217;t feel a properly inserted tampon). If you&#8217;re only going to be feeling 3 inches, what difference would a 5-inch penis or a 9-inch penis make?

    &#8220;It&#8217;s not the size of the boat&#8230;&#8221; Plenty of well-endowed men have no skill, and many men with smaller equipment know the right things to do. It&#8217;s not fair to generalize either way, really. There are plenty of men who are larger who think that just because they&#8217;re big they don&#8217;t need to try &#8211; well, that&#8217;s not the case . And many men who are aware and possibly self-conscious of their smaller penises will try extra-hard to make it that much better . Everyone is different, it&#8217;s not just size that determines a good sexual partner .

    A big penis is more likely to hurt you than an average sized one. Ripping, tearing and general discomfort are more likely the bigger you go. If you are with a guy who&#8217;s on the bigger side &#8211; use lube, and lots of it.

    most women don&#8217;t orgasm through intercourse alone. Clitoral stimulation is what does it for most ladies, and the size of his member doesn&#8217;t really matter much when he&#8217;s going down on you. Smaller guys still have tongues, fingers, and forearms, so unless you can&#8217;t orgasm unless your partner is 8 inches or larger and you can only finish during intercourse, there&#8217;s no reason a smaller guy can&#8217;t do as well (if not better) than a guy who is more well endowed.


    Smaller guys, you can thank me later
    ." ..

    here is the complete link
    http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100630041020AA4oJrw
    http://collegecandy.com/2010/06/24/sexy-time-why-size-doesnt-matter/
     
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    Well, I guess Nicole from Yahoo answers speaks for all women. I stand corrected.

    I agree that a large penis hurts. I have written about that particular problem many times, however, repeating that women don't have nerves inside their vaginas doesn't make it true, even if one woman said it was. I would take hsarge's advice and actually read what other women also have to say about it.

    How on earth would a large penis hurt if there aren't any nerves in the cul-de-sac? That doesn't make a bit of sense.
     
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  10. hsarge

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    Have you satisfactorily pacified you own insecure ego by finding one person's comments that fit what you want to hear? There are women out there that will want you just the way you are;and there are many who won't. That's just how the world works.Get over it.
     
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    How about another female on this site that disagrees. We've discussed this before in the womens issues.
     
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    GOSh !! you comparing an opinion of just 1 dozen girls to a research which talks about women perceived level of sexual satisfaction, which might differ from actual physiological arousal and satisfaction. So an 10 inch cock doesn't cock guarantees like 10/10 sexual satisfaction the reason is the same medical fact about nerve ending i explained earlier. Its not about little or more knowledge you are not even attempting to understand what the whole discussion is about which is kinda depressing.

    Here read this research. BioMed Central | Full text | Penis size: Survey of female perceptions of sexual satisfaction
     
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    Again, I agree with you about penis size and sexual satisfaction, however, you've got to drop that entire part of the argument where you claim that women don't feel things inside their vaginas past 2", because it's undermining the validity of the rest of your argument.

    How about this for an argument? Most women's vaginas aren't as deep as a lot of men assume they are, so they make themselves unnecessarily paranoid about how long they need to be. That's a good argument and it's true.
     
  14. hsarge

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    I don't know why you come to this site to tell the women here that they don't know their own bodies. what you cite could be true of any percentage of women, but not the women here. Start a ' Small Penis Satisfaction' forum. Many there will agree with you. Many women will agree with you. Your feeling of inferiority, while not warranted, is causing you to cast the women here as liars. They know their bodies, they know what they like; they consistently state that is not the priority for their relationship. they say it is what they prefer or have had to accommodate. Go somewhere else. I don't need to hear you try to justify yourself.
     
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    For our next debate, let's compare clittoral and vaginal orgasms.

    Hand me the popcorn.
     
  16. asadz

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    Well let me first correct you on two points.

    First, nicole over here is not speaking for her own self. In fact if you have done what i call some decent level of research into the topic. She is only saying what is medically and factually right. Since you and others keep on asking for references and did you asked her. Like i have to go interview 6 millions girls in this world before i could write another post. Why not i open your eyes to the world you have ignored for so long. What so surprising is that most women over here are absolute ignorant of simple medical facts about their bodies ... like calling it a myth like is a shear crime. Anyhow, i would not try to give you 101 course of women sexual anatomy but i try to do what i can do and do it as peacefully as i can <3


    1. The vagina itself, especially past the first, front 1/3rd of it, has hardly any sensory nerve endings at all. The sensations people feel inside the vagina are often more about the external and internal clitoris, including the G-spot, than the vagina itself.

    ref:http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/anatomy_pink_parts_female_sexual_anatomy

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    So an 10 inch cock is indeed doing is anything special but just stimulating the sensation of the penis interacting with clitoris 8000 nerve endings with over 15,000 additional nerve endings throughout the pelvis. Unless a MRI or some electrodes are attached to your inner vagina you wouldn't know the exact source of this sensation. We only like to think that this is all because of a large size cock but i don't blame you or anyone for that matter PORN is like de-facto standards when it comes to sexual pleasure practices. And you can stimulate any pain or biggest moan in the world with a 100 dollar / hour bill in your pocket. Its all in your head....

    2. the The cervix considered the roof the vagina has far less nerve cells/endings than the rest of women sexual system. This is why a large penis could be a cause of pain and discomfort but if you are porn star you can change this fact too. Don't get too confused. Any news on subject of The Cervix and Sexual Pleasure is termed inconclusive here is the link

    http://www.rhtp.org/fertility/cervix/documents/RoleofCervixinReproductiveHealthMRUpdates.pdf

    2.1. The deep spot stimulation method in regard to the cervix both the AFE zone and the Rectouterine pouch) or the Frisbee has no mention of 10 inch monster to pull of this intense cervix orgasm.The Malaysian sex doctor who discovered this second G-SPOT / AFE used the technique which involves applying pressure to the area, making a scooping motion, and stimulating other parts of the vagina. HE DIDN'T USED HIS 10 INCHES COCK??? Saying this this doesn't eliminate the possibility of stimulation from a large penis its just i haven't seen any documentary video on youtube or discovery for that...and even this being said it remains highly inconclusive as mentioned. I mean just consider the percentage of women who are even able to orgasm with normal sex scenario and then speak of a technique which involves cervix stimulation (the very fact was exposed like 12 years after its discovery). I doubt this should be the reason why big penis get such big promotion.
     
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    Blah Blah Blah Blah. Are you impressed with yourself? Compensating?
     
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    Gosh..you mean everything I read on the Internet isnt true?

    Dang
    Yes....more popcorn, please.
     
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  20. asadz

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    you are taking this all too literally 2 or 3 inches mean that you don't need a monster cock like in XXX movies an average size penis can just do the trick. If you need to boast about large penises at least there should be better ground for it..


    and its not about me claiming anything try to understand its studies / research by doctors/sexologist who have got better time than us to research and understand these things giving it more of technical / medical / scientific response on the subject. Its not ' hyped' up !
     
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