I love the sex -- I never, ever want to go back to a man with a smaller cock (not to mention I'm deeply, totally in love with AW and want to be with him forever)...but sometimes I do get very sore, even to the point of bleeding, and have to take a few days off of vaginal sex.
In addition, anal with him (while extremely pleasurable along with the pain) usually makes my ass quite sore for a day or two. Shockingly, the part of me that gets the least sore is my throat, and yes, I can DT him in spite of his size.
But I get frustrated that we can't fuck as much as we want, as often as we want, for as long as we want. Sometimes I feel like my body is failing me...the spirit is willing, but...
Of course, it helps that I'm a masochist and enjoy a certain level of pain. But there is also a point of soreness where injury is possible and/or pain eclipses pleasure. I hate that!
To put a more positive spin on it, though, at least I have three orifices, so even if two are out of commission, one is usually still functional. :redface:
AW tells me not to worry about not being able to be everything to him that I could possibly want to be. But as a submissive, and in other ways, it's just my nature to want to be my ultimate best for him. Being unfuckable because of soreness really makes me frustrated, and I don't see that there's any real solution.
I'm more than lubricated enough, aroused enough, etc. The fact is, he's thick, I'm tight, and we both love and need to fuck hard to get off.
I am reassured that Artful cherishes me so much he is willing to wait if I have to close an entrance for repairs. I don't even have to use the safe word. He knows how physically tough I am, so if I say I'm too sore, then I'm damned sore.
He also says he'd much rather have a tight pussy like mine that goes out of commission sometimes than one that is looser and always available. So I'm glad of that.
Anyway, having experienced the intense, overwhelming sensations of being fucked with his thick cock, I don't ever want anyone else.
You two are very lucky. Very compatible on so many levels and in love!
But I can see how this type of thing could be a problem for many well-endowed couples, especially if the woman is not into pain. Even when my soreness is at a minimum, there's always a shock of pain when he first enters me, and it takes a minute or two for the balance to shift to incredible pleasure. I would guess some women wouldn't be able to make that shift.
Precisely our problem.
Knowing the ins and outs of that (no pun intended), I really feel for the sexual issues some people must experience, and I've wondered how many people on this site came here looking for solutions or at least sympathy.
I was looking for help which I found and received understanding from many. We continue to experience difficulties with penetration and we still can't have successful vaginal sex mostle we don't even try because she is still trying to dilate to match my girth.
