Large penis thrusting causes involuntary panting?

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  1. Riven650

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    kittykat's response to CERVIX HITTING QUESTIONS (see
    http://www.lpsg.org/women-s-issues/33796-cervix-hitting-questions-2.html):

    "I think I can tell when one of my large lovers was pushing around my cervix and it seems to be a pretty neutral sensation. It just feels like pressure. But with these lovers, they also seem to be able to push past my cervix and hit a really sensitive area beyond that makes me pant and sweat and just go nuts!"

    As I said in my earlier post on that thread, I have been working quite hard at pe this year and my cock is now longer and thicker than it was. (Time will tell whether these changes are permanent.) I noticed recently that my wife now does that panting kittykat talks about. I was assuming it was just my wife's reaction, but perhaps it's an automatic reaction to being penetrated deeply (or with more girth?). My wife was screwing her eyes tight shut and panting; sort of quick shallow breathing, like blowing out candles. It reminded me of the way she panted during labour when she gave birth to our son. Perhaps this panting is triggered by having the vagina stretched more than usual. She said later that it didn't exactly hurt, but it was very intense. Does anyone else have experience of this 'panting'?
     
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    Yes, my gf once almost passed out from sex. No joke here.
     
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    Yup. My current FWB fellow is the largest I've had, about 8 in., and it drives me nuts. I like lots of g-spot attention too, but yeah, very deep penetration is something special :biggrin1: . The somewhat strange thing is that for me my cervix seems to work somewhat opposite of my g-spot. My g-spot starts out somewhat sensitive and gets more and more sensitive as we go. My cervix is super tender at the beginning and as he puts gentle pressure on it it becomes more and more pleasurable making way for harder thrusting. When those cervical orgasms hit I see god :tongue: . On a couple of occasions he was giving me a nice, thorough cervical workout and he made me cum so hard I actually teared up and cried a little. So my answer to your question is YES!!

     
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    Wow, and to think Pavlov wasted his time on dogs.
     
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    Yes, I do panting and go bananas too...
     
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    Looks like I might have hit upon something here:tongue:
     
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    what in the hell is panting - I never heard of it until now.....
     
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    to pant [verb, intransitive]: to breathe quickly or in a labored manner, as after exertion or from eagerness or excitement; to respire with heaving of the breast; to gasp.
     
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    Yes passing out, stomach pain, rib pain ect.:wink:
     
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    Wait, wait, wait, Pavlov screwed dogs instead of girls??? He was wierd.
     
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    Haha, this must have been a joke.
     
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    Well, thanks for quoting me, Riven. Yeah my panting is sometimes like gasping, but at times it's a little like panting when running but not really the same because I'm not straining like when I'm running.

    But I do have a question...maybe I'll start a thread. I think I must sweat more than most women during sex. When I get excited my bf's say they can see sweat on my forehead and then on my cheeks and my neck, esp. around the hollow. But if I get a really long intesne screwing and come I don't know how many times, the sheets are almost soaking with my sweat. I've got sweat all over my back and sides and abdomen. I find it a little embarrassing and almost all my bf's have commented: "god, you sure sweat a lot!" It's like I'm not too feminine because I sweat so much! Although I think a few might have liked it to some degree except for the inconvenience of changing sheets (which I ususally do if I'm able!) :confused:
     
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    Oh yes, and I think the panting is almost involuntary. I've never thought to try to NOT pant! It's also a VERY pleasant panting and gasping...not like running!
     
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    Don't get hung up about the sweating kittykat, I'm sure women sweat as much as men. It's just that in our society we like to see men working hard and sweating, whereas we like to protect women from breaking a sweat - you know, opening doors for them, etc. It probably stems from the idea of guys doing all the hunting, fighting and building etc. whilst the women give birth, look after small children, cook, etc. I guess thats where the idea comes from. But I think if you give a woman the same physical task as a man, she'll sweat just as as much as him. Personally, I like it when my woman breaks a sweat during sex - it shows she's getting involved. I'd say it's a good thing.
     
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    Thanks, Riven...but I think I sweat quite a big more than any of my BF's. Some of them have told me some of their GF's have not sweated very much!
     
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    I'm sure some people sweat a little more freely than others, but I don't suppose there's much you can do about it. I have found that when I've been unfit and I go for a jog round the village I sweat for ages after, but when I'm fit I can do the same run in less time and bearly break a sweat. So obviously your state of fitness makes a difference, but otherwise I don't know what excess sweating is about. If you're bothered about it you could ask your doctor. But I don't suppose you're any sweatier than the average girl. I'll bet its because you're an enthusiastic lover. If a girl just lies there when she's being fucked and lets the guy do all the work, she'll never break a sweat. If, on the other hand, she grips his cock with her pussy and meets his thrusts with hers she'll burn a good few calories. I know which feels better to me! I love it when my partner joins in and seems eager for my cock. If she breaks a good sweat that shows she's really getting excited. Your guys should take it as a compliment - I would. Honestly kittykat, the best sex sessions I've experienced have aways ended in a sweaty heap, and I've always assumed that my partner's sweat mingling with my own is a good thing. Having to change the sheets is a sign that you've REALLY been getting it on.
     
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    I've noticed this too... and usually accompanied by the eyes tightly shut and the open mouth. One of my favorite things to see is this shudder that is very visible all through the body, any of you ladies ever feel that? I'm hoping it's a very good thing :cool: It happens when I'm in deep, and it's not an orgasm, I've asked, that comes later...
     
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    That's the stuff: Eyes tight shut; hands clawing at the sheets, sweat breaking out; low grunts from deep in her chest "Ahhh, fuck me" etc. You know your hitting the spot when you get that kind of reaction. It usually inspires me to go on a lot longer. It's a kind of feedback loop. ie. If she's not giving me much feedback I'll finish quickly, but if she's really liking it I find I can (and want to) carry on for ages and take her to the edge of orgasm more than once and keep her there by thrusting deep, but ever so slow. That's when the shudders start. I was in my late 30s when I discovered I could take that much control. It gave me a great sence of well being. My wife, and several girlfriends before her, said I was the first guy to make them come through intercourse alone. I suppose it's a knack, like riding a bicycle: Once you can do it, it's easy.

    Going back to the shudders you mention capcraz: I think girls do that shuddering when they are relaxed and not trying to come. Sadly, I think most people never experience this. They're too anxious about their sexual performance (men and women) and are too tense. I think the shuddering is a kind of pre-shock of muscular contractions sent out by the uterus. I honestly think it's designed to make the man come and therefore impregnate the woman, but I have found that if I stay relaxed and slow the motion down, I and keep my woman in that zone of shuddering (and panting) and quaking for quite a while. That's when she forgets all about orgasm chacing, her name, which way is up, etc. and goes into herself in a kind of sexual trance where only what's happening in her pussy matters at all. I like being there. It's the best place in all the world.
     
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    I know it's a bit sad to quote yourself, but I realise I added 'panting' in brackets - probably because I'm not sure that I did cause women to pant before I got larger. I'm absolutely certain that a large cock is not necessary for great sex - I experienced great sex long before I got serious about pe (I was approx. 6"x5") - I'm just curious to know if the panting is something I simply haven't noticed before, or if women only pant like that when they're being stretched during sex.
     
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    You get that kind of reaction and you know you're doing something right.
    If I'm getting it really hard I make a kind of purring noise, I didn't even realise I was doing it until my partner pointed it out. He says that if he can get that noise out of me he knows I'll be in a good mood for at least the next 24-hours. And I can only orgasm through intercourse and usually the only way is with my legs high up and around his neck so I'm getting ever last bit of it.
    I like it hard and fast, makes me sound like a car.
    As for the sweating unless at the end of it I can barely stand up and am a quivering sweaty wreck then you haven't really put your back into it!
     
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