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So we have all heard the claims that a large penis generally has little to do with how much a woman enjoys sex and that it really is more about what a guy can do with it, that if anything matters it is thickness, etc. I know the statistics about the depth of a vagina where the nerve endings run, etc, and this makes sense.
And yet.
You can go to the thread about reactions to your size, and it's pretty clear a LOT of women get excited about large cocks. I've been toying around with explanations for this discrepancy from my own experience, and it occurs to me that most of the girls who have been the most consistently interested in my penis -- the ones who keep talking about it even a couple of months after dating -- have been the most submissive as well. I don't mean this in a kink sense, I just mean in a general sense of where power is distributed in the relationship and bedroom.
So could I be onto something? I'm 6'3", broad shouldered with a jawline, and I think that's part of why I tend to attract more submissive women in general. Could large penises be turn-ons for some women just as a general expression of masculinity, even if they don't directly translate to sexual pleasure as such?
Or maybe the compliments are just ego stroking (in which case . . . it works!).
And yet.
You can go to the thread about reactions to your size, and it's pretty clear a LOT of women get excited about large cocks. I've been toying around with explanations for this discrepancy from my own experience, and it occurs to me that most of the girls who have been the most consistently interested in my penis -- the ones who keep talking about it even a couple of months after dating -- have been the most submissive as well. I don't mean this in a kink sense, I just mean in a general sense of where power is distributed in the relationship and bedroom.
So could I be onto something? I'm 6'3", broad shouldered with a jawline, and I think that's part of why I tend to attract more submissive women in general. Could large penises be turn-ons for some women just as a general expression of masculinity, even if they don't directly translate to sexual pleasure as such?
Or maybe the compliments are just ego stroking (in which case . . . it works!).