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Large penises nice to look at?

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Why do so many women say a big penis is nice to look at or a turn on but then also say they could care less about the size of their man. I mean, why is a big penis nice to look at? Wouldn't that mean that in some ways they do have a preference one way or another?
 

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It's difficult to understand why men don't get it. Haven't you ever been someplace and said, 'nice place to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there?' I think tigers are nice to look at, but I don't necessarily need one sleeping at the foot of my bed. Thinking something is nice to look at isn't necessarily expressing a preference for it.
 

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Lol, secretly wants to pet a tiger, but I'm not sure about letting it have a nibble. LaFemme, you are brilliant :)

When I see a picture of a naked, fit man and he has a large cock, I think WOW to myself. Doesn't really mean that I want to get close and personal to it or him.

Different women want different things. I want orgasms. I don't care if the penis is massive or normal. I just want to roll around with a man I love and make each other feel good. Struggling with some guys size might put a hitch in our love making process.
 

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Dunno, maybe how a penis looks might not be what gives her an orgasm or makes sex good.

Maybe some women care more about who the penis is attached to than how it looks?

Perhaps how a penis looks is unrelated to how passionate a man is in bed or good the sex turns out to be? After all, it's hard to look at a penis when it's inside you. I spend much more time looking at his face during sex.

That's been my experience.
 

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It's difficult to understand why men don't get it. Haven't you ever been someplace and said, 'nice place to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there?' I think tigers are nice to look at, but I don't necessarily need one sleeping at the foot of my bed. Thinking something is nice to look at isn't necessarily expressing a preference for it.

This. ^
 

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I don't get that analogy at all. A tiger can eat you alive, a penis can't. And what does living somewhere have to do with sex? A guy with a big penis can be gentle during lovemaking. I've seen John Holmes go balls deep in tons of women.

I understand what you are getting at. But why is a larger penis considered nice to look at?

Why isn't a smaller penis just as nice or impressive? You can look at a tiny sports car and be just as impressed as looking at a nice SUV or whatever.

Why do so many people, men and women, find looking at or sex with larger penises more erotic?
 

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I don't get that analogy at all. A tiger can eat you alive, a penis can't. And what does living somewhere have to do with sex? A guy with a big penis can be gentle during lovemaking. I've seen John Holmes go balls deep in tons of women.

I understand what you are getting at. But why is a larger penis considered nice to look at?

Why isn't a smaller penis just as nice or impressive? You can look at a tiny sports car and be just as impressed as looking at a nice SUV or whatever.

Why do so many people, men and women, find looking at or sex with larger penises more erotic?


Perhaps because it is more visually stimulating to them.
Perhaps it is more physically stimulating...

Some like to just look...
Some like to look AND touch...

It is a preference... just like everything else in the world.

And I'd think that b/c you are on a large penis site the numbers are going to greatly waver towards those who have a preference to larger "things" in general. But that is not representative of everyone... in this world, or the real world.

Why is it a big deal whether some ("so many") women find larger more attractive??

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Perhaps because it is more visually stimulating to them.
Perhaps it is more physically stimulating...

Some like to just look...
Some like to look AND touch...

It is a preference... just like everything else in the world.

And I'd think that b/c you are on a large penis site the numbers are going to greatly waver towards those who have a preference to larger "things" in general. But that is not representative of everyone... in this world, or the real world.

Oh- and just clarify, this isn't directed at the women on this site necessarily - just looking for female insight as to why some women might say this. Woman here generally know what they want and don't mix words.

Why is it a big deal whether some ("so many") women find larger more attractive??

♥fp

Its not that women like to look at or prefer bigger penises. Of course everyone has their preferences, especially on this site. But I've read and heard countless women say penis size doesn't matter at all or big ones are actually a hindrance to good sex, but a big penis is hot to look at. If a big penis caused pain or wasn't desirable, it wouldn't be "hot" to look at, would it?

Anything sexually that I find "hot" to look at, I would also enjoy in real life.


I know penis size isn't everything and very few woman have that weigh into their choice in a man, but why is bad to say would you choose a bigger penis if you could - all other things being equal.

If women said looking at a big penis doesn't turn me on as much as an average one, it would make more sense, that's all.

Oh, and just to clarify, this isn't necessarily directed at the women on this site. As it's a big penis site it kinda goes without saying what the preferences are here. Just some insight into why some women might say this. Women here generally know exactly what they want and don't mix words.
 
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Its not that women like to look at or prefer bigger penises. Of course everyone has their preferences, especially on this site. But I've read and heard countless women say penis size doesn't matter at all or big ones are actually a hindrance to good sex, but a big penis is hot to look at. If a big penis caused pain or wasn't desirable, it wouldn't be "hot" to look at, would it?

Anything sexually that I find "hot" to look at, I would also enjoy in real life.

I know penis size isn't everything and very few woman have that weigh into their choice in a man, but why is bad to say would you choose a bigger penis if you could - all other things being equal.

If women said looking at a big penis doesn't turn me on as much as an average one, it would make more sense, that's all.

Oh, and just to clarify, this isn't necessarily directed at the women on this site. As it's a big penis site it kinda goes without saying what the preferences are here. Just some insight into why some women might say this. Women here generally know exactly what they want and don't mix words.


Yes, I understand what you are getting at... and I will be the first to admit that I have said before that size is not everything.... (not everything, but IS important!) I won't say it doesn't matter at all... b/c it is def different with bigger. But being that I live with a guy with a just below avg size... I'd not trade him in a million years for one of the big guys. But I do enjoy a big one... if that makes sense.

Larger penises seem to be more defined, cut or uncut, and just overall more aesthetically attractive (IMO) .. If you love tomatoes, its kind of like comparing a cherry tomato (called "tommy toes" in my parts) to a big boy or beefeater tomato... You love them both and they both taste delicious, but the big boy or beefeater is just prettier sitting on the table...

If a girl finds larger ones attractive to look at, but prefers the smaller ones to fuck? Well, I can understand that too... The larger ones are just nice to look at. Period. And I thoght LeFemme's explanation was pretty much spot on .. I think you took the tiger thing a bit too literal. Tigers are pretty... and beautiful to look at... but for my home, I prefer a calico cat... :smile:

Hope this helps... but IDK... we women... sometimes we can be bit difficult to understand... LOL

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Yes, I understand what you are getting at... and I will be the first to admit that I have said before that size is not everything.... (not everything, but IS important!) I won't say it doesn't matter at all... b/c it is def different with bigger. But being that I live with a guy with a just below avg size... I'd not trade him in a million years for one of the big guys. But I do enjoy a big one... if that makes sense.

Larger penises seem to be more defined, cut or uncut, and just overall more aesthetically attractive (IMO) .. If you love tomatoes, its kind of like comparing a cherry tomato (called "tommy toes" in my parts) to a big boy or beefeater tomato... You love them both and they both taste delicious, but the big boy or beefeater is just prettier sitting on the table...

If a girl finds larger ones attractive to look at, but prefers the smaller ones to fuck? Well, I can understand that too... The larger ones are just nice to look at. Period. And I thoght LeFemme's explanation was pretty much spot on .. I think you took the tiger thing a bit too literal. Tigers are pretty... and beautiful to look at... but for my home, I prefer a calico cat... :smile:

Hope this helps... but IDK... we women... sometimes we can be bit difficult to understand... LOL

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It does make sense, thanks for your thoughts.
 

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Ok, I'll try to explain how I think about this as good as I can with my limited english:
I have seen quite a few dicks in my life and most of them were average. But when I see one that's really big, maybe thick as well, has a nice curve or just looks nice in general it really catches my attention.
I think maybe big penises are nice to look at because we don't get to look at them all that often, cause well, outside of this site big penises (really big ones) are a rare find.
But I have to agree that having been on this site for some time now and having seen so many big and beautiful penises, it's not as exciting anymore as it used to be.
It gets a little boring after a while, that's why I haven't checked out the galleries in a while.
And I'd like to add one thing in the end:
There are 2 or 3 members here who's penises I find really..........sexy? hot? what's the right word for a penis? lol
Those members.........their penises aren't the biggest ones on here but I think, at least to me and for my taste, they are aesthetically pleasing. I have to admit that I try to imagine what they'd feel like inside of me, but that's just a fantasy and doesn't mean that it would really ever happen or that I'd really want to have sex with them, cause there's more to wanting sex with a guy than just his penis.
 

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Why do so many women say a big penis is nice to look at or a turn on but then also say they could care less about the size of their man. I mean, why is a big penis nice to look at? Wouldn't that mean that in some ways they do have a preference one way or another?

I can't speak for all women, but I enjoy viewing cock pics/hung porn and, like Pandora, size doesn't matter as much as my aesthetic preferences (is it just big or is it big and pretty? :biggrin1:).

Does that mean I have a type? Yes. But I remain flexible because not every man I'll find desirable will have stuff that matches my ideal penis.
 

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Lol, secretly wants to pet a tiger, but I'm not sure about letting it have a nibble. LaFemme, you are brilliant :)

When I see a picture of a naked, fit man and he has a large cock, I think WOW to myself. Doesn't really mean that I want to get close and personal to it or him.

Different women want different things. I want orgasms. I don't care if the penis is massive or normal. I just want to roll around with a man I love and make each other feel good. Struggling with some guys size might put a hitch in our love making process.

^ this exactly. Larger penises are just sexy to look at, they are more powerful and masculine looking than smaller ones but it's only how it looks, so what? I guess it's like a lot of things that look nice but aren't practical.
 

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I do not care to look a penis longer than necessary before getting down to business. I've always said that the male member is not very attractive to me.