It's difficult to understand why men don't get it. Haven't you ever been someplace and said, 'nice place to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there?' I think tigers are nice to look at, but I don't necessarily need one sleeping at the foot of my bed. Thinking something is nice to look at isn't necessarily expressing a preference for it.
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I don't get that analogy at all. A tiger can eat you alive, a penis can't. And what does living somewhere have to do with sex? A guy with a big penis can be gentle during lovemaking. I've seen John Holmes go balls deep in tons of women.
I understand what you are getting at. But why is a larger penis considered nice to look at?
Why isn't a smaller penis just as nice or impressive? You can look at a tiny sports car and be just as impressed as looking at a nice SUV or whatever.
Why do so many people, men and women, find looking at or sex with larger penises more erotic?
Perhaps because it is more visually stimulating to them.
Perhaps it is more physically stimulating...
Some like to just look...
Some like to look AND touch...
It is a preference... just like everything else in the world.
And I'd think that b/c you are on a large penis site the numbers are going to greatly waver towards those who have a preference to larger "things" in general. But that is not representative of everyone... in this world, or the real world.
Oh- and just clarify, this isn't directed at the women on this site necessarily - just looking for female insight as to why some women might say this. Woman here generally know what they want and don't mix words.
Why is it a big deal whether some ("so many") women find larger more attractive??
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Its not that women like to look at or prefer bigger penises. Of course everyone has their preferences, especially on this site. But I've read and heard countless women say penis size doesn't matter at all or big ones are actually a hindrance to good sex, but a big penis is hot to look at. If a big penis caused pain or wasn't desirable, it wouldn't be "hot" to look at, would it?
Anything sexually that I find "hot" to look at, I would also enjoy in real life.
I know penis size isn't everything and very few woman have that weigh into their choice in a man, but why is bad to say would you choose a bigger penis if you could - all other things being equal.
If women said looking at a big penis doesn't turn me on as much as an average one, it would make more sense, that's all.
Oh, and just to clarify, this isn't necessarily directed at the women on this site. As it's a big penis site it kinda goes without saying what the preferences are here. Just some insight into why some women might say this. Women here generally know exactly what they want and don't mix words.
Yes, I understand what you are getting at... and I will be the first to admit that I have said before that size is not everything.... (not everything, but IS important!) I won't say it doesn't matter at all... b/c it is def different with bigger. But being that I live with a guy with a just below avg size... I'd not trade him in a million years for one of the big guys. But I do enjoy a big one... if that makes sense.
Larger penises seem to be more defined, cut or uncut, and just overall more aesthetically attractive (IMO) .. If you love tomatoes, its kind of like comparing a cherry tomato (called "tommy toes" in my parts) to a big boy or beefeater tomato... You love them both and they both taste delicious, but the big boy or beefeater is just prettier sitting on the table...
If a girl finds larger ones attractive to look at, but prefers the smaller ones to fuck? Well, I can understand that too... The larger ones are just nice to look at. Period. And I thoght LeFemme's explanation was pretty much spot on .. I think you took the tiger thing a bit too literal. Tigers are pretty... and beautiful to look at... but for my home, I prefer a calico cat... :smile:
Hope this helps... but IDK... we women... sometimes we can be bit difficult to understand... LOL
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Why do so many women say a big penis is nice to look at or a turn on but then also say they could care less about the size of their man. I mean, why is a big penis nice to look at? Wouldn't that mean that in some ways they do have a preference one way or another?
Lol, secretly wants to pet a tiger, but I'm not sure about letting it have a nibble. LaFemme, you are brilliant
When I see a picture of a naked, fit man and he has a large cock, I think WOW to myself. Doesn't really mean that I want to get close and personal to it or him.
Different women want different things. I want orgasms. I don't care if the penis is massive or normal. I just want to roll around with a man I love and make each other feel good. Struggling with some guys size might put a hitch in our love making process.