Large Size = Respect??

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I think penis size, more often than not, brings more respect...it doesn't always happen but, in many cases, that's the outcome. I was often picked on by friends and what not in middle school and high school for being so white though I'm Puerto Rican (most of my friends were white, anyway, and it was usually just friendly ribbing), as well as I was -- and kind of still am -- scrawny compared to some of my guy friends. My lack of masculinity was sometimes teased as well.

But a lot of that changed one night in eigth grade (last year of middle school) year when me and a couple of buddies went skinny-dipping in a pond by one of their houses. I was sort of aware that I was larger than average down there but back then, it wasn't as big (currently, I'm a little over nine inches)...ya know what I mean? But still. So I'm the last one to jump in the pond and...well...I take off my pants and they just stare and almost gawk, pretty silent, until one guy blurts out, "Was your father a fucking horse?". lmao

After that, things began to change...the jokes stopped, they sometimes seemed intimidated by me or whatever. I eventually got so uncomfortable that I began asking them to crack on me again, exchange insults or whatever...I was really shocked that my large penis would have such an effect.
 

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In high school and first of college, if someone had said something like, 'I respect you because your over endowed with that meaty piece of schlong you have hanging between your legs,' I would have thought they were making fun of me and run the other way. Now I just smile politely, thank them for the compliment and turn away to yawn. That doesn't mean that I wouldn't put the person on their back; IF s/he is attractive (goes beyond looks), of at least average intellect, and reasonably sober.

Having a stranger declare respect for me is only slightly more wonderful than being asked if I play basketball; a friend and I once decided that any one who asks a tall person if they play play basketball deserves to be asked if they play miniature golf. :tongue:
 

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I am not the type of guy that ever goes out bragging about his size, or finding excuses to tell his guy/girl friends about how big I am. A lot of my guy friends do, and I think that it is an insecurity thing, and even if its a lie or not, I think it makes them look stupid. But here is the thing, as I said I am not very vocal about my size, but my girlfriend is, she is a fiend and (its great in the bedroom) loves to talk me up to her girlfriends (and I do admit it turns me on to know that she is telling her friends about how big I am). The problem is that she doesn't always know the right times to keep her mouth shut, and has blabbed about how big I am in some situations that were kinda awkward for me. But some of them were exciting and I admit I have played some of those situations in my head over a few times.

Here is what I have noticed, when I am around a group of friends where the size of my penis has not come up yet, or is still a mystery, once they find out about how I am larger than average, people start treating me differently. Sometimes I have noticed that the result is more respect coming in my direction, from girls and from guys. The girls will look at me differently, and start making innuendos whenever I mention something about my girlfriend, and my guy friends start treating me like I am "meat" in porkys, almost flaunting me or showing me off as "hey this is my buddy, the guy with the big cock" rather than "hey this is my buddy, he is a great guy".
Once I had a different reaction, there was a girl I liked, and one of my guy friends told her about my size, one night at a party, I was talking to her friend and the topic of me hooking up with her friend came up, and she said, "sorry dude, she is afraid to do anything with you, cuz of how big you are"

When friends of mine find out about my size, they look at me differently, some times its in a flattering way, but sometimes not. Attention is nice sometimes, but when what you are getting attention for becomes your distinguishing characteristic, it can make you feel like thats all you have to give.

When my friends find out about my size, I think its safe to say that I notice I get more respect, but why? I don't have control over how big my penis is, I was born with what I was born with. Giving someone respect for an accomplishment, or for wearing a championship ring, or for being a good person is something I understand, but for the size of your penis? The size of your penis is not something earned, it is not something that makes you great, the size of your penis is earned or achieved with about as much skill as winning on a slot machine. I understand that larger penis's may feel better to women, (my girlfriend can testify) so I would expect that when it comes to choosing a good fuck, girls would pick a bigger guy over a smaller guy, but where does respect fall into the equation, why does a guy having a big cock qualify him for such a prestigious level of legendary respect, I just don't understand, maybe I am being naive.

Why is this surprising ? Women like cock. They talk about, or alude to it, all the time amongst themselves. They frig themselves thinking about it. Men wonder where they stand in the pecking order of money, dick-size, IQ.

It's no different that the somewhat arbitrary respect or attention given basketball and football players, good looking movie actors, natural musicians, olympians, tall people, the born wealthy all sorts of people get points for things they won in the genetic lottery.

But when looking for a life partner each physical attribute is ultimately only a relatively minor factor. If anything women are most programmed to respond to fame and status by opening their legs. Fame is fleeting, but status can be earned and improved.

Your strengths(and we all have something) will help you get in the door/pussy. But your skills are what will keep you there and keep the girls hanging around with an appropriate doggy-dinner-bowl look.
 

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why does a guy having a big cock qualify him for such a prestigious level of legendary respect, I just don't understand, maybe I am being naive.

Cos most guys are hung like insects. And I would tell your gf to shut her trap, cos one of her gf's is certain to try to lure you down the cheating path. If it's one thing she needs to learn NOW it is to DOWNPLAY your sex life. Hell, she should tell her gf's you're a 3-3; 3 inches long and lasting the same amount in minutes. That will keep the bitches at bay.
 

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I remeber when I found out an old housemate was horse hung -

It had always been alluded to, by him hand his girlfriend, but I didn't realise the extent he was hung, until one morning he proudly walked down the hallway with a semi-on (quite deliberately to show off)

I have to admit, my attitude did change towards him after seeing he was massive, mostly on a sexual level, as I just couldn't get the image out of my head especially as I had never seen one that big before.

I had no doubts he was straight and in a ltr, but I just kept thinking he might let me have a play with it one day, or at least I hoped for another look, but I certainly started viewing him in a sexual way, when I never had before

I can't say I respected him any more - probably less for being a show-off tbh,

I guess as he's straight and I'm gay, I didn't see him as a direct threat, and we were never that close freinds anyway
 

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I am not the type of guy that ever goes out bragging about his size, or finding excuses to tell his guy/girl friends about how big I am. A lot of my guy friends do, and I think that it is an insecurity thing, and even if its a lie or not, I think it makes them look stupid. But here is the thing, as I said I am not very vocal about my size, but my girlfriend is, she is a fiend and (its great in the bedroom) loves to talk me up to her girlfriends (and I do admit it turns me on to know that she is telling her friends about how big I am). The problem is that she doesn't always know the right times to keep her mouth shut, and has blabbed about how big I am in some situations that were kinda awkward for me. But some of them were exciting and I admit I have played some of those situations in my head over a few times.

Here is what I have noticed, when I am around a group of friends where the size of my penis has not come up yet, or is still a mystery, once they find out about how I am larger than average, people start treating me differently. Sometimes I have noticed that the result is more respect coming in my direction, from girls and from guys. The girls will look at me differently, and start making innuendos whenever I mention something about my girlfriend, and my guy friends start treating me like I am "meat" in porkys, almost flaunting me or showing me off as "hey this is my buddy, the guy with the big cock" rather than "hey this is my buddy, he is a great guy".
Once I had a different reaction, there was a girl I liked, and one of my guy friends told her about my size, one night at a party, I was talking to her friend and the topic of me hooking up with her friend came up, and she said, "sorry dude, she is afraid to do anything with you, cuz of how big you are"

When friends of mine find out about my size, they look at me differently, some times its in a flattering way, but sometimes not. Attention is nice sometimes, but when what you are getting attention for becomes your distinguishing characteristic, it can make you feel like thats all you have to give.

When my friends find out about my size, I think its safe to say that I notice I get more respect, but why? I don't have control over how big my penis is, I was born with what I was born with. Giving someone respect for an accomplishment, or for wearing a championship ring, or for being a good person is something I understand, but for the size of your penis? The size of your penis is not something earned, it is not something that makes you great, the size of your penis is earned or achieved with about as much skill as winning on a slot machine. I understand that larger penis's may feel better to women, (my girlfriend can testify) so I would expect that when it comes to choosing a good fuck, girls would pick a bigger guy over a smaller guy, but where does respect fall into the equation, why does a guy having a big cock qualify him for such a prestigious level of legendary respect, I just don't understand, maybe I am being naive.

I think you are right, especially as far as the women is concerned.
 

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I don't think that I'd respect someone simply because of his endowment. It's the total person that gets my respect for them. Now, a large size will get my attention. As others have said before me, I am one of those who would love to be hung like many of you - so, there's some jealousy and envy there.
 

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I think what is going on here is the same recpect that tall men get. E.g. why are most men at boardrooms tall ? Does this make them better leaders, directors? Clearly No. The same goes for other male characteristics such as strong jutting jaws, large muscles etc. They are also overly presented in leadership positions.
While at militiary strong male characteristics can be beneficial in combat, attitude, sense of 3d etc , in business boardrooms it is clearly the respect that they get from others that is most important for them attaining leadership, not the actual achievments. (They even found that men with lots of testosterone are more easely fooled by pretty flaunting women into making incorrect decisions. )

Beeing tall , having jutting jaw lines or a big penises gives respect that
is not earned but just acquired . Why humans follow tall leaders I am not sure about.

Peace