larger guys view of smaller guys

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ORCABOMBER: [quote author=Tender link=board=relationships;num=1042784044;start=160#179 date=10/02/03 at 10:46:19]well i am obviously not well endowed in uh this area, so feel free allow my thoughts to enter one ear and flow out the other....
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Hey, your point is as valid as everyone elses in my opinion on the subject, heck, I'm no expert.

I think what you wrote is a really good point y'know. I was talking to a female friend about it, and I think something like your experience with your husband did come up. Penis size is an issue, sadly, personally I'm happy because only queens would need anything bigger and I'm comfortable with it, but would I be happier smaller? I couldn't say yes, it's that ingrained.

 

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lomejorhombre: Well this my first post and it feels like a good subject to start on. My first experience with this occurred in the 8th grade locker room. I am a very shy and self conscious person to begin with, and having started puberty around the age of 9 made things even worse. Anyway, in the locker room I always tried to not have to take a shower and display myself at all, but as it turns out sometimes you just have to. I felt real bad about this because some of good friends were there and they had just started puberty and looked barely older than little boys, so when I got into the shower I had to turn away and not look them in the eyes or rather at their down cast eyes. Even at this age I was already 5 inches or so soft and farely hairy. Once I was done I had to get dressed next to a friend from church who hadn't even started puberty and I had trouble facing him for a long time. I don't know about most other guys but for me my penis has been the source of many problems and frustrations. Growing up I have often envied my "normal" friends. I don't strut, show off or even brag about my situation.
Any help?

 

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awellhungboi: Welcome, lomejorhombre. Glad you decided to post. You know, it's not uncommon for larger guys to be embarassed sometimes--especially if you're the center of unwanted attention, or feeling like you're different. A lot of us have experienced that at one time or another. You are who you are. You have no control over what other people might think or say when they see or learn about your size. But what you do have control over is learning to accept yourself as you are, and to be proud of yourself, regardless of your cock size.

I'll get off the soap box now. Hope you enjoy the boards!

 

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009_and_a_half: I'm big -- all over. Because of how I'm built, I walk a certain way -- I don't try to strut, but when I walk into a room, down the street, or in the locker room, I get stares. Most of the time, it's my chest that attracts attention -- or the chest-waist differential. I've always had a big chest and a slender waist. People notice -- how could they not? In summer, I like to wear muscle shirts with a light cotton short-sleeved shirt worn over top like a jacket, undone.

I have big legs too, and fair-sized butt. It's the way I've always been built, even before I ever touched a weight. I can't do too much in the legs department or I'd never find pants with legs big enough.

And when I take off my towel at the showers, or in the hot pool, that gets people's attention, too. I don't try for it, it just happens. I'm not hairy, but I wear a full beard, and that attracts attention, too.

When I was a kid nothing ever fit right. If I buy suits off the rack, I get them tailored. Otherwise I look shapeless in a suit, because in my size, suits are made assuming that your bigness is from being overweight. I weigh a lot, but I'm not "fat" -- no offence meant to those who have a weight problem -- I sympathize.

 

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meathose10: I can guarantee you,lomejorhombre, that many of those 'normal' friends wish they had the size you do dangling between their thighs....The older you get the more c omfortble you will become with your exceptional endowment. It is most assuredly an asset. I too felt awkward and freakish as a young man - I did not know that the stares were based on a natural curiosity and envy.But then I started to learn......Appreciate yourself!

 

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lomejorhombre: Thanks for the support guys!!

 

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awellhungboi: you're definitely welcome, LJH. Reading some of your other posts it does sound like dealing with a classroom full of students could be challenging. How you doing? Hope everything's going well for you.

 

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I think, regardless of penis size, guys with hot bodies are more likely to strut around the locker room than guys who don't have hot bodies. I think that you're more likely to show off the buff body that you've earned than the big penis that you've inherited.