lasting too long on sex- delayed eyaculation

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  1. pierceplace

    pierceplace New Member

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    Welll I dont know if its a problem... but certainly its exausting having sex for about 2 hours and being unable to cum.
    I say its not a problem coz I stay on hard-on mood all the time lol, but theres a way to make your penis more sensitive? i dont know... a cream or something... extra thin condoms dont make a difference, anyone?
    by the way jerking off is the same :/
     
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    thanks for all the help guys! wow
     
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    I also have delayed ejaculation due to a number of factors. I'm diabetic and that reduces the sensation in the penis. In fact often I cannot have an orgasm. However, I still find sex the best experience of life: the tenderness, the closeness, the pleasure, the act of intercoarse. Oh boy, it the best. But for that reason I don't use condoms.

    All the best.
     
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    If you ever need to use a willing btm for those two hours look me up.
     
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    I've got the same problem.
    the problem is masturbation...
    as more as you're masturbating your ejaculation will be delayed.
    another problem is that your partner could be in pains from the rubbing part.
    the solution is a bit difficult -at first you should stop masturbating so much, and dont stay inside for more than 30 mins +- as it can cause pains.
    and the last thing is see a sexologist who would help you go through this.

    i hope i helped and that this problem will be resolved
     
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    Your dick can callous in certain parts too. It took me a month of being married for my wife to take the hour pounding to get me to come. With time it has slacked. I can now lose it in about 20 mins or so if I am seriously needing it. I presume you are a young guy, grower, not shower? likely the same situation I faced. Be patient.
     
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    woof thank you sir


    anyways, I dont masturbate THAT much... I thought that masturbation made you sum faster... thats what I've read from some on this site : S
     
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    Im 22, you choose the other part! thanks for the advice, Im quite patient, but I think if I dont move as fast as I can It would last forever, does that make sence?
     
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    Well, I used to jack so it would last longer til I learned that it was better if it didn't! LOL! Now If I wait about three to four days, she can have cummed real good after about 15 mins and I will pop at about 20-25. If we do it a second night, I don't get to cum unless she lasts an hour. I wish I could help more.
     
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    fuckkk I cant stop jerking >.<
     
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    Well I've kind of got this problem, although sometimes I can cum in about 5 minutes where other times it can never happen. It is quite annoying, especially as, if I stop myself from cumming that is usually a point of no return for some reason.

    Still looking for a solution myself lol, but it certainly has its advantages.
     
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    Try more foreplay, perhaps? Or, just fuck for two hours and consider it your cardio for the day...you know, kill two birds with one stone ;D It's good to be exhausted at least once a day.
     
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    done with that :D
     
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    if you my sex partner i will make you cum faster maybe in 15minutes or less ;)
     
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    woof you must be hot :p
     
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    I can literally have sex three nights in a row with my GF and NEVER cum during anyone of the multi-hour marathons. Thank the dear Lord she loves sex as much as I do but when we first started dating she thought I didn't like her so much because I didn't cum. I don't jerk off all that often and even when I do it takes me forever even then. As for foreplay she thankfully loves to suck on me for a very long time and even then it takes me forever. She'll cum two or three times a night and I won't bust once. It's annoying to say the least but thankfully she understands.
     
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