Lasting too long?

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  1. B_HappyHammer1977

    B_HappyHammer1977 New Member

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    It doesn't bother me that much and it's never done me any harm, but I take bloody ages to cum!

    (I'm trying to think of a time when I've cum in less than 20 minutes and I honestly can't rememeber a single time.)

    When masturbating, I usually take between 1 and 2 hours to cum. When having sex, 3, 4, 5 and more hours! (The longest was last year; we got to bed at 2300 and I didn't cum until 1730 the next day!)

    The main problem in this is that partners think they must be doing somethin wrong if I don't cum in five minutes...on the contrary, I'm loving every minute of it! But I have to reassure them that what they are doing is great.

    I now realise, thanks to this site, that this has much to do with 'edging'. (I never even knew it had a name!)
    The thing is, is that I just do it (edging) without thinking. I just do it naturally.

    Anyone got any comments??
     
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    When someone edges its usually because they want to cum, but just "hold back" from cumming. From what you describe, it sounds like you want to cum, but are unable to. When you finally do come is it really intense? Have you ever been able to cum in less then an hour?

    I would be so raw if it took me over an hour to cum every time :p
     
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    It's not a case of me deliberately holding back, neither is it a case of wanting to cum. I think (and I'm free to be corrected on this) that it's just what I've always done. I suppose I've always tried to impress in the bedroom, and it's just what I'm used to doing.

    Yes, when I do cum, it's bloody incredible! - Ah! That is probably it; subliminally, I must be looking forward to this amazing orgasm, so I put it off for ages! (*psycologists flick through their sex maunals!*)
     
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    It's not a case of me deliberately holding back, neither is it a case of wanting to cum. I think (and I'm free to be corrected on this) that it's just what I've always done. I suppose I've always tried to impress in the bedroom, and it's just what I'm used to doing.

    Yes, when I do cum, it's bloody incredible! - Ah! That is probably it; subliminally, I must be looking forward to this amazing orgasm, so I put it off for ages! (*psycologists flick through their sex maunals!*)
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    Oh, and yes, I have cum plenty of times in less than an hour, but not that often. Maybe 1 in 20 at a guess.
     
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    Oh, and yes, I have cum plenty of times in less than an hour, but not that often. Maybe 1 in 20 at a guess.
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    Edging is deliberately holding back. What I mean when I say that is, you feel "your on the edge of cumming" (hence: "edging") and you hold back from doing this. Is that what your doing? If so, then I guess your edging.
    If your masturbating or having sex for over an hour because your having "trouble getting to the point of ejaculation" this is not edging.
    By the way, if you don't mind me asking, how old are you? Alot of times age has bearing on this.
     
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    Edging is deliberately holding back. What I mean when I say that is, you feel "your on the edge of cumming" (hence: "edging") and you hold back from doing this. Is that what your doing? If so, then I guess your edging.
    If your masturbating or having sex for over an hour because your having "trouble getting to the point of ejaculation" this is not edging.
    By the way, if you don't mind me asking, how old are you? Alot of times age has bearing on this.
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    I suppose it is more a case of edging, but I've never deliberatley done it. (Until recently after reading the recommendations on here!!)
    (Oh yeah, I'm 28...so the piping is still working!)
     
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    I more often than not take more than an hour to cum and can take the whole session; my GF loves it as she knows she can get anything she wants before I need to fill her.

    Oral is crap though cos I never get to cum in her mouth ... takes to long ... and she gets sore if I'm up her cunt for too long ...

    I often dry cum ... i.e. orgasm but don't ejaculate ... but my one splash is normally very very big ...

    I really don't wank as it takes too long .. time i could b fucking ... and my hands get tired.

    Dij
     
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    The nearest I've 'dry cum' is when I was wanking years ago, and my dad came in the room right at the point I was climaxing! I was just able to stifle it and didn't ejaculate, but had all the thrills of orgasm!
    (Before you ask, light was off and he didn't see anything!!)
     
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    Maybe you still have hang up about your father bursting in on you while you was about to climax and it still imprint in your brain that he could be coming in your room at anytime even now when you are not living a home. I think it did something to your brain waves and cumming my unqualified opinion. :shrug:
     
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    "I think it did something to your brain waves and cumming"....lolololol

    "my unqualified opinion"....all opinions are unqualifed

    and for everything else you said.....yeah...ditto...maybe.
     
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    "I think it did something to your brain waves and cumming"....lolololol

    "my unqualified opinion"....all opinions are unqualifed

    and for everything else you said.....yeah...ditto...maybe.
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    Not really, it took a proverbial lifetime back then!
     
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    **Takes hat off and bows to Alley Blue**
     
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    This has been on here for a good week now...so no one else has this??
     
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    At least your not a premature ejaculator.....which some would say is worse.
     
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    Nothing to do last night, so, knocked one out - three and a half hours!
     
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    At least you measure the time in hours. An ex of mine was like that, but he measured it in TV shows.

    "Yeah, it takes me all of Must-See-TV Thursday."
    Gah, he was such a Twonk.


    But were those 3.5 hours worth it in the end? ;)
     
  18. B_HappyHammer1977

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    At least you measure the time in hours. An ex of mine was like that, but he measured it in TV shows.

    "Yeah, it takes me all of Must-See-TV Thursday."
    Gah, he was such a Twonk.


    But were those 3.5 hours worth it in the end? ;)
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    Always worth it baby!!!
     
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    Here's the thread if you're interested...not much here mind you!
     
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    the only time i can cum under 30minutes is when fucking a girl at full speed. so it almost never happens. most times it takes me 60-90minutes. the girls are fine with it because they will cum 2-3 times and i will shoot a huge load.
     
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