It doesn't bother me that much and it's never done me any harm, but I take bloody ages to cum! (I'm trying to think of a time when I've cum in less than 20 minutes and I honestly can't rememeber a single time.) When masturbating, I usually take between 1 and 2 hours to cum. When having sex, 3, 4, 5 and more hours! (The longest was last year; we got to bed at 2300 and I didn't cum until 1730 the next day! The main problem in this is that partners think they must be doing somethin wrong if I don't cum in five minutes...on the contrary, I'm loving every minute of it! But I have to reassure them that what they are doing is great. I now realise, thanks to this site, that this has much to do with 'edging'. (I never even knew it had a name! The thing is, is that I just do it (edging) without thinking. I just do it naturally. Anyone got any comments??