Lasting TOO Long

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Murci, does a blowjob feel great to you? I just ask because lots of guys have said the same thing and I find it hard to understand. A good blowjob makes my cock feel so good, that holding off from cumming quickly is difficult. I guess I'm trying to understand how something that feels so great can not lead to an orgasm in a short time. I personally would love to last longer when I get head.

Maybe it me that's wired weird..lol


Head is usually ok........I'm thick so a lot of the time people have trouble sucking it so it's not as pleasurable as I'd like.
 

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Head is usually ok........I'm thick so a lot of the time people have trouble sucking it so it's not as pleasurable as I'd like.

Wow, I just looked at your pics and can understand your problem. I always wanted to be bigger, but I can see why you have trouble getting swallowed.
 

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Wow, I just looked at your pics and can understand your problem. I always wanted to be bigger, but I can see why you have trouble getting swallowed.

I've come to realize being big aint all that since I can barely use it how I'd like to......my current partner takes it quite well though, so that makes me happy :smile:
 

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The other thing is some women like when you last a real long time, especially the ones who get multiples. Not a lot of guys can last a real long time so if you find a woman who likes it, she will really appreaciate you for it.

Amen, brother! :smile:
 

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try to spice up foreplay...it helps for me so that the action does not last too long for my partner !
 

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So I know you've all heard about a person that just doesnt last long enough during sex.....my problem is I last too long. Because I have a fairly large penis, my partner usually can't take me for a long time...so I usually get "are you close?" and of course I feel bad because I'm fucking the poor guy's brain out that I take it out and we jerk off together........but even then I still can't get myself to bust. Only after a bunch of jerking can I finally cum, does anybody else have this problem and perhaps does anybody have any solutions as to how to cum faster?

Damn BC, I love long-lasting tops! Hate it when I'm on all fours and my partner gives a couple strokes and that's it, he cums, lol. Although I can't imagine "lasting too long" being a problem, I suppose it depends on the situation.
 

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So I know you've all heard about a person that just doesnt last long enough during sex.....my problem is I last too long. Because I have a fairly large penis, my partner usually can't take me for a long time...so I usually get "are you close?" and of course I feel bad because I'm fucking the poor guy's brain out that I take it out and we jerk off together........but even then I still can't get myself to bust. Only after a bunch of jerking can I finally cum, does anybody else have this problem and perhaps does anybody have any solutions as to how to cum faster?

I have this same problem.... though.... usually (unless a condom is involved) I can climax whenever I want to. I just choose not to, because I enjoy the act of penetration. I can hold off my own orgasm almost indefinitely and can keep fucking almost indefinitely. I do wish my partners would give me more warning when they are starting to get sore or whatever. Once in a while I'll find someone that likes going as long as I do... then it's usually a week or two for both of us to recover afterward.

If you want to make yourself cum faster... focus more on yourself and less on your partner. Find a rythm that works for you. Really focus on the sensation and how everything feels, that usually does it for me. I'm usually primarily focused on my partner... I think that's why I don't cum myself until I'm ready to.
 

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I've had this problem for a while and quite often find myself faking it with the girl so that we can go to sleep... (How often do you hear of a guy faking coming so that the girl can feel happy that he's satisfied?!?!)
 

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That's interesting. I'm now in my early fifties and still have to pace myself from cumming too soon. Have any of you guys ever discussed this with your doctor?

I think there's the key piece of advice: see your doctor. I recently was in bed several times with a guy, late 20s, 8", who never came with me. Joked that he could if we "had all morning"! I asked him later if he could get himself off faster than when he was with someone else, and he said not by much. I've been with a few other guys like that over the past 20 years, and I have friends and acquaintances who say the same thing, like, "I sucked on him, tried everything I could think of, for half an hour and he didn't come." If you're a healthy guy, especially in 20s, 30s, or 40s and you're trying to come, and you're still taking half an hour, then I think you need medical advice.
 

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I'm sorry, but if a young guy has to watch porn to ejaculate while he's fucking, there's something wrong with that picture.

Swede82, I agree in a way. But the guy is looking for help and adding porn might just ratchet up the sexiness another notch and help. It certainly can't hurt.
 

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Swede82, I agree in a way. But the guy is looking for help and adding porn might just ratchet up the sexiness another notch and help. It certainly can't hurt.

There will be no porno in the bedroom....plus he doesnt have a tv in there anyways lol. I cum just fine when I'm jerking off by myself, perhaps my problem is I'm too self conscience.
 

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another solution... stop all the self-gratification possibly... I read this once a while ago and it has always seemed true and it usually works: the human hand stroking cock hits a lot more nerve endings since usually the grip is tighter over more surface area which stimulates more nerve endings along the cock and is often a much faster way to cum. If you were to give your hand a break, your cock will, after some time, become more sensitive. Same thing if you just don't cum for a few days, you'll usualy be ready to shoot your stored up load in a lot less time. Happy shooting!
 

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PS: I think this advice was from "Dr. Ruth" I can still hear her voice asking the caller "do you MASTERBATE a lot!!???"
 

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I have the same problem. It doesn't seem to matter whether I'm topping, bottoming or getting head. I stay rock hard the whole time, but after awhile I give up on getting off and concentrate on my partner. I used to be proud of my stamina, but now it's just frustrating and I get more than a little self conscious about it. Hadn't thought about talking to a doctor about it. Like most guys, I despise going to the dr.
 

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A bit like krashdown, I've turned to accepting it as a minor niggle and turning my energy to helping the other person having a great time... Which surprises most girls so they seem happy enough. :)