Bbucko
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I thought that may happen. I tend to over-use commas and over-extend sentences.
What houtx48 accused me of was being a snotty know-it-all and that my thoughts on the matter would likely change in a few years. I countered by saying that I am observing the current attitudes of my peers. Their opinions in this time (~2004-now) will not change down the road (barring the invention of time travel:biggrin1. This really isn't a matter in which opinion can have much of an influence, especially when their statements regarding education and the value thereof are often very straightforward.
I always despised it when people over 30 would pontificate on how I was bound to "grow up" from whatever "phase" I was going through. And it's completely true that the mind-set and various eccentricities that I formulated (or just became accustomed to) by the age of 17 have largely informed my adulthood. In many ways, I'm still the gay Anarchist punk who stomped and prowled around Boston in 1980.
But I have evolved as I became more aware of and involved with larger chunks of society. Independence meant economic self-sufficiency which led to compromise which led to whole new challenges and rewards I could never have imagined as a teen on his own in a big city. At various times I've found myself making corrections when I'd found that I'd compromised something much more vital than I'd previously figured.
There's a very cynical quality to suggesting, as many older people will, that life has a way of compromising all youthful ideals. This cynicism is not to be confused with sophistication: it's an artifact of bitterness. I have struggled all my life to avoid bitterness and to remain as optimistic as I possibly could. To many, this accounts for a strange youthfulness in my affect and appearance; to many others it signals a sign of never having grown up. As I've never put much stock in the opinions of those who don't know me well, it's always been easy enough for me to pursue my own agenda without being unduly detained by such considerations.
I have heard people around my own age (plus-or-minus 2 years, or so) say that they don't really give a rat's ass about their education. I've also had a number of teachers (including two of my cousins) make remarks about how, on the whole, public schools students tend to be less motivated to do well in academia than students in private schools. (That last sentence was similar to the statement I originally made that started houtx48's inane posts against me.)
Know-it-all-ism can't really come into play when I am referencing direct, blunt statements made by my peers and teachers.
In summary:
-I used logic against houtx48's post.
-Houtx48 called me (in so many words) a know-it-all.
-I replied with the above-quoted, overly-long, convoluted sentence.
-I better explained my point here.
I've always said that generalizations are generally wrong. That doesn't mean that I'm necessarily "right" in seeking the exceptional rather than the standard or "normal" <shudder>, rather that's what's right for me. In the end, I'm the one who lives with the consequences of every decision made to reach this point: no one else.