This didn't quite seem right for the relationships forum. A close friend of mine was abandoned by her fiance four days ago. Today was to be their wedding, but last night, our investigation into his disappearance (since the police refused to help) revealed that despite seeking her father's permission, despite 17 years of history he never intended to go through with this wedding. She'd never caught him in a lie (to her, anyway) before this. She may be pregnant, too, by about 6 weeks. The worst part is that none of us trusted him. We all told her to get rid of him (though none of us is handing out any 'I-told-you-so' vouchers. I helped investigate, I called in the cheerleaders. I'm going over there now, armed with rice, beans, ice cream, and fried chicken. I'm going to download some movies from Netflix at her house, and hang out for a while every day this week, since she's off work for her honeymoon. I'm doing plenty. But what can I say?