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If at the age of 40, you have never kissed anyone, man or woman, and had virtually no experience of adult intimacy or sex to speak of, is the use of a prostitute something you would consider?
I am a timid and rather unappealing looking guy, and have spent my whole life unable to approach women for fear that having a smaller cock will be ridiculed and unable to approach men, because of a fucked up sense of self loathing and shame over my sexuality. I also developed a unsightly dermatological condition in my early 20's, all be it thankfully mild, it successfully destroyed my self confidence.
I fear I have become a hopeless case and of late, it's all just getting too much to cope with and the lack of an intimate adult life is crushing me to death. Physically, emotionally, mentally and even spiritually, I feel wounded. Generally, if not completely, the guys I find attractive will find me unappealing, gay apps are hopeless in such a small city, and I'm so clueless about women that I couldn't approach one if I wanted to.
A slightly promiscuous friend has recently been teasing me with the idea of going to a brothel and visiting a prostitute. He's a complete hetroalpha with no issue over women and sex. He knows i'm shy, possibly bi and perhaps inept, though hopefully not by how much, if he did, I really would die of shame.
If push comes to shove, I would have to go, but am so inexperience, I don't know if I could cope.
Anyone else out there experienced anything similar? What did you do?
But open to anyone really, what would you do?
40 year old virgin or ask a hooker for your first kiss? Decisions, decisions.
Pup.
I am a timid and rather unappealing looking guy, and have spent my whole life unable to approach women for fear that having a smaller cock will be ridiculed and unable to approach men, because of a fucked up sense of self loathing and shame over my sexuality. I also developed a unsightly dermatological condition in my early 20's, all be it thankfully mild, it successfully destroyed my self confidence.
I fear I have become a hopeless case and of late, it's all just getting too much to cope with and the lack of an intimate adult life is crushing me to death. Physically, emotionally, mentally and even spiritually, I feel wounded. Generally, if not completely, the guys I find attractive will find me unappealing, gay apps are hopeless in such a small city, and I'm so clueless about women that I couldn't approach one if I wanted to.
A slightly promiscuous friend has recently been teasing me with the idea of going to a brothel and visiting a prostitute. He's a complete hetroalpha with no issue over women and sex. He knows i'm shy, possibly bi and perhaps inept, though hopefully not by how much, if he did, I really would die of shame.
If push comes to shove, I would have to go, but am so inexperience, I don't know if I could cope.
Anyone else out there experienced anything similar? What did you do?
But open to anyone really, what would you do?
40 year old virgin or ask a hooker for your first kiss? Decisions, decisions.
Pup.