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Have any of you guys become less attracted to “straight” men? I feel like I have.
(And this is referring to real life not straight labeled adult content).
Lately when I’m in public spaces and I find a guy that I find attractive, as soon as I determine the guy is indeed straight and not interested in guys at all my attraction goes away. I feel like I’m finally at the age where the chase and the effort is just not worth it for me. The ratio of attractive men who like other men is just to large nowadays and not worth the trouble. Even the overly touchy playful cryptic dudes (i.e. Jacob Elordi character in Saltburn lol) are just not worth the headache and blueballs.
And this idea that “straight” guys have a different vibe is just a lie imo. You can be fully gay and be “masc” or not into typical gay stuff (and too be clear there’s a lot of full gay fem dudes out there who are hot .
DL guys… meh… if one pursued me I might be down but if u aren’t giving the game amount of interest or effort it’s a pass for me.
Thoughts?
(And this is referring to real life not straight labeled adult content).
Lately when I’m in public spaces and I find a guy that I find attractive, as soon as I determine the guy is indeed straight and not interested in guys at all my attraction goes away. I feel like I’m finally at the age where the chase and the effort is just not worth it for me. The ratio of attractive men who like other men is just to large nowadays and not worth the trouble. Even the overly touchy playful cryptic dudes (i.e. Jacob Elordi character in Saltburn lol) are just not worth the headache and blueballs.
And this idea that “straight” guys have a different vibe is just a lie imo. You can be fully gay and be “masc” or not into typical gay stuff (and too be clear there’s a lot of full gay fem dudes out there who are hot .
DL guys… meh… if one pursued me I might be down but if u aren’t giving the game amount of interest or effort it’s a pass for me.
Thoughts?