Less attractive girl gets nervous/flustered...suddenly becomes more attractive.

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  1. B_FatMushroomHead

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    So, I'm at the drive through for some food and this girl...not ugly and you can tell she has a decent, if thick body at the window...I pull up and she gets really flustered and laughy and starts spilling the soda and shit but is super chatty.

    For some reason, suddenly I wanted to nail her when I hadn't given it a second thought before this display.

    Was it because it was obvious that she thought I was hot? Or because I found it hot that she became so girly and adorable?

    Also, so it belongs in women's issues...does the opposite turn you on as chicks? If a guy is clearly nervous and you know why...is it a turn off or a turn on?
     
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    If they are tall and skinny, preferably with a lot of body hair, i dont care how they act, im sold.
     
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    I have been completely charmed before when a man is flustered around me, but they have always been men that I was attracted to. If I'm not attracted, then it's just amusing to me.

    The bf was clearly a little nervous and trying hard to get my attention the first time we met. I was totally charmed, but I tried not to seem like I was because I wasn't available. I was trying to just be nice and polite without flirting, which was difficult tightrope for me to walk given how much attention he was paying me and how incredibly hot, sweet, intelligent, nice, charming, and funny I thought he was. If he had acted too cool and confident around me, I don't think I would have been as interested in him. He would have seemed too much like a player.

    Three months later, at the very beginning of our first date when we hugged for the first time, I could feel that he was so nervous that he was shaking. We hadn't seen one another in person in a month and there was a lot of anticipation built up over our first date. I was relieved that he was just as nervous as I was and it made it a lot hotter for me, knowing that he felt as excited and nervous as I did. If he hadn't been nervous and excited to see me, I would have been disappointed that he didn't share my feelings about him. I would have been crestfallen and it wouldn't have been nearly as romantic.
     
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    I only get worried if the guy gets nervous when he's paying for dinner.
     
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    Actually let me take back the not giving it a second thought....I check out almost any chick in my age range and at least think about it. But she wasn't a beauty queen by a long shot.
     
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    LOL!
     
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    Yeah it doesnt matter how hot he is if he has to do dishes to pay for the dinner. Well a guy who can do dishes is priceless, just not on the first date when you aren't at home/
     
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    The girl always does the dishes, only because I am a fucking awesome cook.


    I know what you're thinking...

    ...Smart, witty, handsome, single, gorgeous cock...AND he COOKS?!?

    I know I know ladies. There's plenty of sweet mushy to go around.
     
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    I'm sure my husband could cook, if i let him. But im so damn good at it, i can't imagine he's better than i am. I'm the Wok Master
     
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    I'll wash dishes if chica is a shredder in the kitch. Never had a long term that was. It's either they know how to make one dish really well, or they're vegetarian or something.
     
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    Plus I like grabbin handfuls of ass when she's standing over the hot stove.

    Then she gets rooted and we forget about dinner and just want gatorade.
     
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    No picture of your face, haven't showed much intelligence (or maturity, for that matter,) and your cock is small and nasty looking. Get the fuck over yourself. That girl was probably laughing cause you're uglier than her. Douche.
     
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    Hahahah you really picked "kissesdownbelow" for your name? Dingledong.

    And yeah, gonna show my face on this site. I am obviously smarter than you.
     
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    If the ladies show their face on lpsg, why would a guy have a problem with it? Women have a lot more to lose showing herself on a sex website. You think a guy who is a teacher would be excommunicated for making a video on xtube? Hardly, but a female teacher would never hear the end of it, if she keeps her job.

    I show my face all over the place, i can venture to say that more people would want to stalk me or use my photos than your photos or stalk you. It hasnt happened in 14 years of being on the internet for me. I hardly imagine some guy pretending to be you, using your photos or someone in your regular life holding it against you the way a woman could get it from those around her.

    I live in a SMALL town. There is some definitely recognizable characteristics to my face and personality....still havent had problems.
     
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    As someone who had photos posted here, and not only found it necessary to remove them, but then to subsequently also change my user-name I can understand why anyone would decline to post personally identifying images of themselves here, or in fact anywhere on the web. I see nothing wrong with people who don't have those objections, and I'm very happy for them regarding their sense of freedom. However, to not be able to understand the opposite view seems myopic, naive, ignorant, and completely removed from any empathic ability. I just cannot fathom this. One person's avoidance of negative repercussions does not translate automatically to anyone else.

    "The ladies" do not show their faces on LPSG. Some ladies do, and some ladies don't. I do not, and will not post publicly available photos of myself, and I'm not alone. The only images of me here are in a private album only certain people can see.
     
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    lol we got ourselves a cat fight
     
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    I'm comparing his risk as a normal looking guy in society compared to any female on the internet. Females risk more doing it.
     
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    Hardly
     
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    I will never have the courage to show my face or photos of my body on LPSG.

    I think my past experiences have made me very threat aware regarding attracting unwanted sexual attention. My concerns may be exaggerated or excessively paranoid, but I would rather err on the side of caution for my own comfort. These are my own issues, and I know other people don't share them. I don't expect anyone else to do what I do and I don't judge anyone for making different choices than me.

    What works for me may not work for someone else because we're all different. I think those differences are interesting and I enjoy seeing the viewpoints of others here on LPSG.
     
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    I think my opinion comes from someone who wants to cam, i have the cam on my face and when i say, are you uncomfortable showing your face if i am showing mine to you in here? And they are like, uhhhhh, no i dont want to, just look at my dick instead.

    I dont know if it is an excuse to just show dick or if they really have anything to be worried about in a private cam 2 cam situation where you are just talking about normal stuff and the female is showing her face, so she isnt asking you without obviously taking the risk also. I don't really care much anymore but if i get into good conversations, i kind of like to know what the person looks like and NEVER ask unless im willing to show mine as a white flag to not be worried.

    I have some family members who are seriously into porn and some incestuous ideas, when i cant see the guys face, i totally fear they know me and i dont know they do.
     
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