Less attractive girl gets nervous/flustered...suddenly becomes more attractive.

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I think my opinion comes from someone who wants to cam, i have the cam on my face and when i say, are you uncomfortable showing your face if i am showing mine to you in here? And they are like, uhhhhh, no i dont want to, just look at my dick instead.

I dont know if it is an excuse to just show dick or if they really have anything to be worried about in a private cam 2 cam situation where you are just talking about normal stuff and the female is showing her face, so she isnt asking you without obviously taking the risk also. I don't really care much anymore but if i get into good conversations, i kind of like to know what the person looks like and NEVER ask unless im willing to show mine as a white flag to not be worried.

I have some family members who are seriously into porn and some incestuous ideas, when i cant see the guys face, i totally fear they know me and i dont know they do.

Yeah, that doesn't make any sense if you show your face and they don't want to show theirs! It doesn't make any sense!

It's so creepy that you know you have family members into incest fantasy. Blech!!!
 

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Yeah, that doesn't make any sense if you show your face and they don't want to show theirs! It doesn't make any sense!

It's so creepy that you know you have family members into incest fantasy. Blech!!!

Oh god, there are more families out there with incest lovers. I've had a couple of guys i had to look at very closely to ensure they weren't a relative. Thankfully they werent....but if the guy wont show his face...i do get a little paranoid thinking SHIT i know he has something to hide- is he that creepy cousin or uncle? Seriously, its odd if a real female shows her face to you that you'd hide yours. It makes you look suspicious and in my experience, i dont want to show up at the next family reunion worrying you've seen more of me than i'd like.
 

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If I made some friends here and one asked via PM what I looked like, I'd have no problem linking them to a picture of myself on another website (Facebook or whatnot).

But staying anonymous here gives me full freedom to be honest in replies. Never have to worry about anyone at work giving me a hard time over my secret Pokemon fetish (Oh Squirtle, how you torment me with your coy glances!)

I should put somethin up in that profile box though. The mystery man icon is a little lame.

As for the topic: There are things men and women can do, conciously or subconciously, that make others find them more (or less) attractive. Little things like fixing your hair (brushing it out of your face when talking to someone) can signal that you're concerned about how you appear to them (which in turn can make them more attracted to you). Finding yourself more attracted to someone after discovering they're attracted to you is perfectly normal (and part of how we get together)
 
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If I made some friends here and one asked via PM what I looked like, I'd have no problem linking them to a picture of myself on another website (Facebook or whatnot).

But staying anonymous here gives me full freedom to be honest in replies. Never have to worry about anyone at work giving me a hard time over my secret Pokemon fetish (Oh Squirtle, how you torment me with your coy glances!)

I should put somethin up in that profile box though. The mystery man icon is a little lame.

As for the topic: There are things men and women can do, conciously or subconciously, that make others find them more (or less) attractive. Little things like fixing your hair (brushing it out of your face when talking to someone) can signal that you're concerned about how you appear to them (which in turn can make them more attracted to you). Finding yourself more attracted to someone after discovering they're attracted to you is perfectly normal (and part of how we get together)

Come over here so i can sit on your lap, i love you already!
 

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Well, did you get her phone number? Sounds like there was some chemistry happening at the drive through window. :)
Or because I found it hot that she became so girly and adorable?

Also, so it belongs in women's issues...does the opposite turn you on as chicks? If a guy is clearly nervous and you know why...is it a turn off or a turn on?

It depends upon if he is just nervous or creepy nervous. Just nervous is no big deal, but confidence is where it's at for me. Just being comfy in his own skin.
 

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See ladies, FMH has a romantical side to him!



Romantical - yeah, we've got a real genius on our hands here. Nice Bush-ism, pal. Our former president would be proud.

I didn't say it was wise or unwise to put a picture of your face on this site. Just that you can't brag about how hot you are when you refuse to prove it.

And btw, the name is reference to my desire to go down on a woman. You might know much about women, but they like that. Your dick is disgusting as your attitude. Good luck in life.
 

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Romantical - yeah, we've got a real genius on our hands here. Nice Bush-ism, pal. Our former president would be proud.

I didn't say it was wise or unwise to put a picture of your face on this site. Just that you can't brag about how hot you are when you refuse to prove it.

And btw, the name is reference to my desire to go down on a woman. You might know much about women, but they like that. Your dick is disgusting as your attitude. Good luck in life.


Hahahah You Maaaaaad! Settle down, wilbur. Why are you such a barn? I don't listen to music I don't like. Don't listen to me then, kook. Bail barney.

BTW Romantical was as much of a joke as it was my humor, fuckstick. You don't get it. You're slow.

I know I have a gross cock, but every photo I have has nothing but a 10.00 rating fartface. Plus, well...girls like me, man. Sorry.
 
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As someone who had photos posted here, and not only found it necessary to remove them, but then to subsequently also change my user-name I can understand why anyone would decline to post personally identifying images of themselves here, or in fact anywhere on the web. I see nothing wrong with people who don't have those objections, and I'm very happy for them regarding their sense of freedom. However, to not be able to understand the opposite view seems myopic, naive, ignorant, and completely removed from any empathic ability. I just cannot fathom this. One person's avoidance of negative repercussions does not translate automatically to anyone else.

"The ladies" do not show their faces on LPSG. Some ladies do, and some ladies don't. I do not, and will not post publicly available photos of myself, and I'm not alone. The only images of me here are in a private album only certain people can see.

at first i was real nervious to show my face considering its mostly guys and idk nobody on here but then i started think well maybe i can show some kind of picture and i only got one picture on here but never said who i am for all you know i could be the batman guy
 

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at first i was real nervious to show my face considering its mostly guys and idk nobody on here but then i started think well maybe i can show some kind of picture and i only got one picture on here but never said who i am for all you know i could be the batman guy

I'm a face girl, you can show it to me if you are ever in the chat and I'm there.
 

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So, I'm at the drive through for some food and this girl...not ugly and you can tell she has a decent, if thick body at the window...I pull up and she gets really flustered and laughy and starts spilling the soda and shit but is super chatty.

For some reason, suddenly I wanted to nail her when I hadn't given it a second thought before this display.

Was it because it was obvious that she thought I was hot? Or because I found it hot that she became so girly and adorable?

Also, so it belongs in women's issues...does the opposite turn you on as chicks? If a guy is clearly nervous and you know why...is it a turn off or a turn on?

great thread! people will have to actually think in order to respond to this one. kudos... whoever u r who wrote this. i wish people would ask questions like this more often. these are the ones that aren't written in a book or printed on 1million websites already and not totally obvious.
 

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great thread! people will have to actually think in order to respond to this one. kudos... whoever u r who wrote this. i wish people would ask questions like this more often. these are the ones that aren't written in a book or printed on 1million websites already and not totally obvious.


I agree! I liked it also! I wish it hadn't ended up being another FMH vs. Everyone thread like all the other threads lately. Not that FMH vs Everyone isn't incredibly funny. It is! It's just unfortunate when it kills an interesting thread. This was a good question and an interesting topic.

It seems that for me, too cool and too confident around me says "this guy might be a player" to me, and I am turned off by the idea of just being another conquest, whereas a lot of other women have said that they are really attracted to lots and lots of confidence.

I didn't intend to imply that TheBoyfriend isn't a confident person. He oozes lots of confidence. He's hot and he knows it. He's brilliant and he knows it. He's got a great job. Women adore him. That's why I was so flattered that he was a bit flustered around me. That's extremely flattering when a guy like that seems a little nervous when he's around you, and only you, and I thought it revealed a sweet sensitivity that I found extremely appealing.
 
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I get asked by the mods to tone it down a bit on the stupid threads and I complied.

Then some Barney Kookameyer I've never even heard of comes in and personally attacks me. Of course the FMH is going to address it and proceed to give him a good tongue lashing because I happen to be very good at it.

I honestly didn't intend for this to be another FMH versus everyone else thread.

I can't win I suppose. Whatevs.
 

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I get asked by the mods to tone it down a bit on the stupid threads and I complied.

Then some Barney Kookameyer I've never even heard of comes in and personally attacks me. Of course the FMH is going to address it and proceed to give him a good tongue lashing because I happen to be very good at it.

I honestly didn't intend for this to be another FMH versus everyone else thread.

I can't win I suppose. Whatevs.


I want you to know that I did notice that you had toned down the tongue lashings and other FMH antics. It didn't go unnoticed with me.

Now back to the thread topic?