Less Ejaculate With Age?

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I'm just curious how many of you older guys...I guess 45+...are experiencing less ejaculate when you cum? Either with sex or jerking off?

I'm not looking for secret potions or supplements to take, but curious if this is a common occurrence? Do you think associated with the old "use it or lose it" phrase they talk about? I think we all can agree "most" of us have less sex as we age. So should I just accept this is the new way my dick performs? And just FYI...I was a HUGE shooter in my 20s/30s. Like across the room. So now that I hit 50...its kinda shocking I'm even the same person.
 

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I'm ten years older than you and also found that the volume started to drop in my fifties. I tend to compensate for this by cumming less often than I did when younger, and edging for longer. I still wake up every morning with a raging boner and enjoy sex so a little loss in volume is not a worry for me.
 

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Lower volume and less force is what I’ve experienced. I used to be able to hit my face when jerking off and now I’m lucky if I hit my navel. Working up to it and taking a longer time makes a difference.
 

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Yes, ejaculate has tapered off. But only marginally, and it took quite a while for it to happen. I'm likely @goldscorpguy's age, but could probably out-volume a good many young men. One thing that has changed is distance and force. A slender risk of hitting the headboard nowadays.
 
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in my early thirties so fair bit younger than you guys but compared to my teens/20s, i do produce less.

I would produce a very heavy amount, so much so first time with a new woman that wanted to swallow i'd warn them and they'd brush it off then find out i was being honest, the blowjob was usually followed by a question like when was the last time i came or do i always cum that much. Or i'd cum inside them and it wasn't uncommon for it to ooze out while i was still inside them.

I still produce a fairly good amount but not like i did back then
 

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I’ve always been a heavy cummer. As someone else mentuoned, when I reached my my mid 40s, I didn’t cum less but I am cumming differently. Less long shots and ropes and more oozing. The feeling is exactly the same, though. Which is what I care about.
 
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As I noted I'm producing a lot less...and it seems to be thicker than before and sometimes I get the ooze effect rather than solid shots. Why does this happen..even if testosterone levels are the same? Unlike many here...it doesn't feel as great as it used to for me. Or at least as I remember...which might be a reason why I dont just jerk off all the time like I used to. It feels ok, sure. But its nothing like it was in my youth. Aging sucks.
 

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my volume started dropping at 50, I used to shoot a pretty good amount, now it's very small and just water :( Mrs loves it, as she's not a big fan of big loads, I however hate it, sucks but guess it is what it is. :( Orgasms are still great, same release and "feels" just no volume.
 
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i'm 56 and it does depend on circumstances, how long since the last sex or wank (which is usually daily) with the bf and how tired, turned on, relaxed, etc i am.

relaxed at the weekend just having a lie in with no hassles and just enjoying being with the bf i can cum a good amount several times.

the time i cum a real amount is when we've built up over the day teasing each other - the sending texts, pix, making comments, touching as we pass stuff so kinda 'building' the excitement up over the day, then when we have sex i cum a bucket load and so does my (much younger) bf.

so yeah i guess generally it has tailed off a bit but not completely in the right circumstances.
 

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Interestingly mine seems to have increased over the last year or so. I would have a few spurts or just oozing and now I seem to be shooting again and a lot more volume. There were times when my wife would ask if I shot it was so little. 65 now so would expect less. My frequency has lessened but even when I don’t have a long time between cums the volume seem to be more. Maybe less stress since I am now retired.
 
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Interestingly mine seems to have increased over the last year or so. I would have a few spurts or just oozing and now I seem to be shooting again and a lot more volume. There were times when my wife would ask if I shot it was so little. 65 now so would expect less. My frequency has lessened but even when I don’t have a long time between cums the volume seem to be more. Maybe less stress since I am now retired.
Good for you. That doesnt seem like the norm. Maybe you have a secret or something has changed other than just less stress. Hmm.
 

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Very likely due to the decrease in hormones over time. I think there is a thread to increase volume with supplements in the Healthy Penis section. Zinc, lecithin, fennel seeds, MACA, loading up on water etc. were mentioned to help.
 
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45 here. I haven’t really seen a drop off in volume. Perhaps a small drop in force of ejaculation. Where I have seen a pretty major difference is in the amount of pre-cum. I used to spring a leak early as soon as aroused. Now, I barely produce a drop or two well into stimulation all the way to ejaculation.
 
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I would assume it is related to testosterone levels. It is natural for it to decline. I've always been a small cummer... some may say tiny. I am in my 50s and there seems to be an increase, just due to all of the porn, taking a multi vitamin, etc. The volume is still small relative to average cummers and round 2 is just a couple of drops and dry beyond, the same as when I was young. As a younger cat, I dry came often. My belief is my seminal vesicles are inoperative. Eh. You might want to have your testosterone level checked via a blood sample. The doc will ask you if you are tired, if there is a reduced sex drive, etc.
 
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I would assume it is related to testosterone levels. It is natural for it to decline. I've always been a small cummer... some may say tiny. I am in my 50s and there seems to be an increase, just due to all of the porn, taking a multi vitamin, etc. The volume is still small relative to average cummers and round 2 is just a couple of drops and dry beyond, the same as when I was young. As a younger cat, I dry came often. My belief is my seminal vesicles are inoperative. Eh. You might want to have your testosterone level checked via a blood sample. The doc will ask you if you are tired, if there is a reduced sex drive, etc.
Been there. Done that. While its lower than I think is normal for someone in my age range...its still within lab range as normal so no one will do anything about it.
 
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I definitely cum less now. I have even tried going weeks without cumming, and when I did it wasn't anything like the amount I used to. Was never a shooter, and my shit was/is very thick, but the volume is way down. Orgasms are fine. I'm sure my wife is fine with it because she's the one swallowing it!!!
 

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I would assume it is related to testosterone levels. It is natural for it to decline. I've always been a small cummer... some may say tiny. I am in my 50s and there seems to be an increase, just due to all of the porn, taking a multi vitamin, etc. The volume is still small relative to average cummers and round 2 is just a couple of drops and dry beyond, the same as when I was young. As a younger cat, I dry came often. My belief is my seminal vesicles are inoperative. Eh. You might want to have your testosterone level checked via a blood sample. The doc will ask you if you are tired, if there is a reduced sex drive, etc.
Not saying it isn't possibly a factor but I had really low testosterone. Like so low an 80 year old man would have issues low. And I would cum a big load.