Tachnuk: Hey there all. I came across this site while surfing for help for large penised guys. I'm 9 inches long and 7inches in circumference. It's been very frustrating for me sexually. I've had many girfriends that couldn't handle either my length, girth, or both in some or all positions. I've recently gotten married, and it's really gotten bad. My wife must be smaller than average in the vagina. It's very difficult for her to handle my penis in her. Insertion takes much foreplay and LOT'S of lubricant. And even then I have to firmly grasp the base and slowly stuff it into her. This is painful to her, but the little angel suffers through it until I can get it all in and get things going. Then I have to move in and out very slowly, and carefully so I don't hurt her. One wrong move and she gasps in pain. After much patience and lots of pushing in slowly, pulling most of the way out, applying more lube to the exposed shaft and sliding back in slowly, I can usually get things going ok. But I still have to be careful of the force and angle to avoid hurting her. All this can be very difficult for me to maintain an erection through. It's really a mood killer to have her yell in pain as I feel more guilty and sympathetic than horny. On top of it I'll she has suffered tearing on occassion and this aside from being very painful, takes 2-3 weeks to heal. which means long periods without intercourse. It's also taken it's toll on my wife. It's starting to give her negative associations with intercourse and having a negative psychological effect. We're both at wit's end. What can we do?