Let's say you have a straight friend and you start blowing him

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Please imagine this situation:

You have a straight friend, and you guys have been friends for a very long time. You came out to him not too long ago.
You get very close, and one night you both get drunk, and you perform oral sex on him.
The friendship just stays the same, and sometimes you meet up with him for oral sex, so blowjobs become a regular thing.
The question is: What are the chances of this "only blowjobs" situation escalating to involve anal sex too?
And what are the boundaries for sex between a guy and his "straight" friend?
 
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Depends. In my experience the chances are best if oral sex is reciprocal.

Chances are lowest if not, ie he only wants to give you head or receive head. Nothing more.

So @dreamer20 said it: ask him. If you and your friend are already communicating about blowing each other it should be an easy next step.

BTW I'm the "straight" friend in these scenarios who becomes top if/when it goes further.
 

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Depends. In my experience the chances are best if oral sex is reciprocal.

Chances are lowest if not, ie he only wants to give you head or receive head. Nothing more.

So @dreamer20 said it: ask him. If you and your friend are already communicating about blowing each other it should be an easy next step.

BTW I'm the "straight" friend in these scenarios who becomes top if/when it goes further.
Oral sex is not reciprocal
 
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The answer is quite simple: if your friend gets blown by another man, and then fucks another man, he isn’t straight. He could be married to a woman, house and kids, goes to church, but if he’s fucking/sucking/getting sucked with other men, the guy isn’t straight. Nothing working with that obviously, but facts are facts.

And I’m willing to bet he knew he fucked you. He just isn’t willing to admit he isn’t a straight guy. In his mind, getting a BJ isn’t gay, but fucking a guy in the ass pretty much seals the deal to being un-straight.
 

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I figured he knew he fucked me as well .. and if he is “in the closet” still then I understand why he is ..
I never considered myself in the closet.. anyone asked me if I was gay ( or back then it was are you are queer ) I said yes … plus other than a few new friends that I would make over the years would ask if I was .. and I’d tell them yes ..
Other than that everyone around me knew I was gay



And if a guy lets another guy suck his dick that’s not being 100 percent straight.. blowjobs are still a part of sex

Not that I’m complaining .. I’ve enjoyed sucking a few straight cocks in my life
 
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Please imagine this situation:

You have a straight friend, and you guys have been friends for a very long time. You came out to him not too long ago.
You get very close, and one night you both get drunk, and you perform oral sex on him.
The friendship just stays the same, and sometimes you meet up with him for oral sex, so blowjobs become a regular thing.
The question is: What are the chances of this "only blowjobs" situation escalating to involve anal sex too?
And what are the boundaries for sex between a guy and his "straight" friend?
Well you already been intimate with him, next time put on a dress and show him what you need…
 

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I figured he knew he fucked me as well .. and if he is “in the closet” still then I understand why he is ..
I never considered myself in the closet.. anyone asked me if I was gay ( or back then it was are you are queer ) I said yes … plus other than a few new friends that I would make over the years would ask if I was .. and I’d tell them yes ..
Other than that everyone around me knew I was gay



And if a guy lets another guy suck his dick that’s not being 100 percent straight.. blowjobs are still a part of sex

Not that I’m complaining .. I’ve enjoyed sucking a few straight cocks in my life
99.9% of the sick’s you’ve sucked werent straight. Save the possible few that weren’t sure and experimenting, they were not straight. The infatuation with gay men wanting to fuck “straight” men is both ridiculous and absurd. Same goes for straight guys that think they can “convert” a lesbian because “they just haven’t had the right dick (ie theirs)”. It’s some sad ego stroking faux power trip, and every rational person should know it’s disingenuous and fake.
 

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Just because you think it’s absurd doesn’t mean everyone else does .. I am sure you do things that other people think is absurd but you still do it..

We all do.. it’s only human
Speaking on a biological level, and a human level (being honest), it’s silly. If words mean anything to anyone, then the premise is flawed, and occasionally predatory. It’s a guarantee that I do things considered absurd, but that’s entirely irrelevant to this thread. If I said I was fucking lesbians on the regular, I would be laughed at and called a liar (the “lesbian” would be a liar as well). And they’d be correct, if we were all honest about it.
 

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Please imagine this situation:

You have a straight friend, and you guys have been friends for a very long time. You came out to him not too long ago.
You get very close, and one night you both get drunk, and you perform oral sex on him.
The friendship just stays the same, and sometimes you meet up with him for oral sex, so blowjobs become a regular thing.
The question is: What are the chances of this "only blowjobs" situation escalating to involve anal sex too?
And what are the boundaries for sex between a guy and his "straight" friend?
Le me be the party pooper: I don't think the friendship stayed the same. I think, he uses you to get a bj when he is horny and you justify it by telling yourself that's ok because you like it too. If it escalates, he will only top you, never look you in the face while doing so and he will never care if you came or not.
 
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How you know if things will get to the anal sex stage is ideally that the intensity of your relationship deepens and you spend more time fooling about together, things are reciprocated and it develops from there, he may or may not be interested in anal.
Otherwise, you are just a hole and can expect to be fucked when he needs a release.
Your friend may consider himself straight and that's ok, but if these things are being reciprocated time will come where he realises he is gay or bisexual, and likely well after the facts are established.
Boundaries- this all changes and becomes muddy when you start fooling around with your friend, the "friend" boundaries are ignored as your relationship becomes closer (and sexual).