let's talk about CBT.

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by dolfette, Oct 28, 2009.

  1. dolfette

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    giving and/or receiving.

    what do you think about this little kink?

    for those not in the know, CBT: Cock and Ball Torture.
     
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    No way, no how. Not my cup of tea.
     
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    did you cross your legs and wince as you typed?
     
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    In theory, I like the idea of it, and find it stimulating. I just don't think I could really be sufficiently attracted to a man who was really into it. I'm not sure though. My thinking is that the man who is into it first had to regard himself so poorly that he was willing to find out if taking a ruler to his nuts, or slamming them in a book, or squirting toothpaste into his meatus (for examples) was pleasurable. I mean, how does one really get to that place? Then again, a long-time acquaintance of mine was working on his Westinghouse project when we were in high school when he tired and went to bed. Stumbling around naked in the dark when he awoke to pee in the middle of the night, he accidentally shocked himself in his penis, and his balls. After making the bathroom on time, he began shocking himself on purpose. He told me this years after the fact, while (I think) trying to figure out what he could say to me that would set himself apart from other guys trying (and failing) to fuck me at the time. I wish I had been more physically attracted to him. He's kind of an asshole, and I think I could conceive of enjoying hurting him, even if he liked it. I wonder if I could keep within his boundaries.

    Hmmm. Wasn't that circular and contradictory? Interesting topic, Dolfette.
     
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    Actually, I DID. :)

    I've seen some CBT videos with ladies in high heels stomping on the C and B and kicking the guy in the C and B. It was quite shocking.
     
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    This reminds me of a time when I went to a BDSM club and a guy begged me to step on his dick. Wanting to be absolutely sure what he wanted, I asked him if I could step on his balls too. He looked at me like that was outrageous! LOL What? Why is one reasonable if the other is outrageous? Anyway, I declined to do it. His erection was under 4", but his balls were massive. It would have been too much like work, and there was tons more fun stuff to try or to watch.
     
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    i was with someone who did like pain... and got off it.
     
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    And I was hoping it stood for Cock and Ball Teasing.

    No not interested, you gotta wonder though about a person who harbors this kind of fantasy in their avatars.

    Fair warning I suppose.
     
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    I don't get any type of torture. BCT?, NO WAY!
     
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    The closest I've come to CBT was during a lap-dance. The dancer kept slamming her butt into my C and B. :p

    I made sure to do a "kegel flex & hold" before each impact so she would be extra aware of what she was doing to me. :p

    Oh boy, I should never drink when I go to Vegas.
     
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    I did (am)

    It also reminded me of the torture scene from Casino Royale.
     
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    General pain is one thing. Genital pain is in its own category.
     
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    LOL, no thanks, not my thing. AT ALL
     
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    I have seen some extreme CBT vids that freaked me right out. I don't know why any man would want their genitals damaged to such an extent. Slapping and squeezing a guys big dangling balls on the other hand is something I love doing. :spankme:
     
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    yea i can get on board with some light slapping or tugging but going to extremes like kicking and stomping is beyond my understanding.im sure there is some extensive and irreversible damage that can occur if taken to far and i don't want to find out. :smile:
     
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    Yes I agree, have seen guys nailing their scrotums to planks of wood. That can't be good :eek:
     
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    Stuff that for a laugh!

    Getting hit by a football in the nutsack is bad enough for me....
     
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    Light slapping and tugging is far from stomping and kicking, LOL
     
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    My favorite position when fucking is face-to-face, with the bottom on his back. I find it more intimate and prefer having everything in such close proximity and CBT is easily facilitated (among other things).

    It can range from pulling with progressive firmness on the guy's nutsack or foreskin to slapping. Not every guy enjoys this, and most every guy has pretty sharp limits with it, so you need to be especially cautious and vigilant in watching his reactions. The fine line between pleasure and pain is prosciutto-thin when it comes to CBT, and not every guy will volunteer liking it, so you've gotta go slow and push to the limit (but not beyond).

    Guys who wear ball-stretchers aren't any more likely to enjoy CBT than anyone else, which I find odd but experience has shown to be true. Ball-stretchers would seem to invite extra attention, but in most cases the guys wearing them are pretty much at their limit right there.

    In addition to pulling (occasionally very hard) on foreskins, I have met a couple of guys who like to have their dicks chewed (not bitten) and many who like having their hardons pinched or slapped: it's all part of rough play.

    I, myself, have no interest in getting my balls hit, pinched, kicked or bitten, and my limit at pulling is pretty mild, though I understand the pleasure involved. Since my own tolerance for nipple-tugging, especially after a couple of hours, can reach extreme limits, too, I just see this as a natural progression from simpler passions to more complex ones and no less respectable or necessary.
     
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    No interest in either.

    Active avoidance of both.

    [shudders]
     
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