Lets talk about sexual fetishes

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  1. Gisella

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    :cool: LOL...I was at YouTube when I discovered fetish vids about 'hairy arms women' and I thought: wow...never heard about this one...:tongue:

    People, I thought fetish was something- but it is something else too.

    In common people usage "sexual fetish is not something that prevents a normal sex life, but rather something that enhances it"..ok, that is 'my' kind of fetishes...(bit of skirt, shoes, stockings,heights,stepladders,medical,male muscles,neck,looking man pee,very tall males, very wet sex,kitchen,sofa and tables,'danger' sex and the list goes on.)

    But there are a technical usage for "sexual fetishes is often a problem that prevents a person from having a anything like a normal life".

    Fetishes are aroused by inanimate objects or specific body parts and etc...

    There are a fetish list bellow:

    http://www.sexual-fetishes.info/

    And about you? Do you have sexual fetishes?
     
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    as the old joke goes: using feathers sexually is erotic, using the whole chicken is kinky.

    True fetishes: I think they are so compelling for those people that sex is not completely satisfying without it or in some extreme cases it's just not possible to perform at all.

    Tourists: many tend to dabble with fetishes as with role-playing, they are like recipes to add interest and provide variations.

    I'm on the tourist side in that I enjoy forms of play, but don't depend on it in any way.
     
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    I've never known whether or not to classify this as a fetish... but... one thing I particularly enjoy is watching a woman's face/mouth while she is giving oral... to another man, or object, or finger, etc.

    I enjoy kissing her while being inside her and have her move her mouth to the other cock/object/finger... never ceases to turn up the heat for me, or make me explode...

    what do you think?
     
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    Che!

    Those expressions, did you made up or is already made public? True and Tourists...:biggrin1:

    I'm always a tourist travelling around...and spice it here and there is interesting.
     
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    I dont know too..my own I had no classification not long ago, I just fancy somethings...but in the middle of the road we find that they may be already classified by some experts..but in the end does not really matter, we enjoy to do our own things...:wink:

    I like to stare at men eyes while doing it and like he stares to mine, plus give me naughty hot looks too.:wink:
     
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    those are my personal opinions Gisella.

    In senior year at high school I once convinced a brunette girlfriend to wear a blonde wig (her mom's platinum blonde number) and we went to a bar frequented by our friends. We said hi to people and took a booth by ourselves — and NO ONE recognized her! We had drinks and enjoyed the intriguing glances and furtive conversations going on on the other side of the lounge. When we got home we kept the disguise on and had pretty wild sex. It was strangely exciting for both of us. Cheating with her blonde evil double! Raging hot times.

    The looks and wild gossip at school the next day was hilarious! Absolutely priceless!
    I actually had a female acquaintance pull me aside to scold me and tear a strip off me! LOL :biggrin1:

    I like that kind of novelty, seeing my lover in another guise.
     
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    :eek:

    I love you ideia and its nice to pretend to be strange and wear clothes to match our new person..but I would do little different..he would be already there and we pretend we do not know each other! And the end results would be the same: wild sex. :cool:

    Are you Fench Canadian, Che?:confused:

    PS: I did not mean to imply your expressions was not yours, I just found the term 'touristic' very cute, ok? You are an original guy as you know already.
     
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    I'm completely Scottish heritage Canadian (as far back as I know). My girlfriend was French Canadian.

    I love your idea. That is a more grown up way to play it. :salook:
     
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    Wow..:eek: would never ever have imagine that..thought you were somewhere a bit Cuban...maybe bcause of your Che face. But he was Argetinian...

    Very nice pair a Scott Canadian and a French Canadian..it was hot...:wink:

    But Che! mine ideia sounds grown up bcause you were younger when you played it..maybe in late teens and very early 20's..well, well, but we would have the same results!!!:cool: Dont forget!!!:wink:
     
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    I love that idea too!
    Though if I had a partner wear a platinum blonde wig to a bar or restaurant, that would certainly get the gossip going round here. :biggrin1: (It would not happen though, I have no transvestism fetish whatsoever.)
    But back to the actual topic: I have been fascinated with the 'posing as a stranger' idea, and it also just struck me that this actually a great way of combining sexual intimacy with a more objectifying approach to it.
    I think now I've finally decided I wanna give it a try - given the opportunity...
     
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    I noticed the hairy arms thing a while back and I was shocked... but yeah.

    Ummm, a lot of girls Ive dated seem to have had the same 2 fetishes, Rose pedals and biting lol.
     
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    :biggrin1: Its hot!!

    Tygrrr, you have to give a try...me too!!!:tongue:

    I am imagining my as a commercial and topgun pilot uniform, firefighter, doctor, and with atlectic uniforms, gangster...and the list go one..plus we speak different languages too...well, is already true in my case but we would not understand much eachother and etc..:cool:
     
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    Hmmm..they seem they are mix of romantic and wild cats on the making...:wink:

    Nice!
     
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    Hi Gisella Sweetie,
    I'd guess the most popular fetish around here should be a big penis fetish:biggrin1: That would be one of yours Gisella, yes? I imagine you're more a big penis 'tourist'. I like that expression too. I suppose a girl with a true fetish for big penis would be unable to get excited with a guy she didn't consider to be big enough. I wonder if there's anyone here with that problem?

    Where do I start? I don't have a true fetish as I really enjoy straightforward sex, however.... Ever since I can remember, I have been turned on (don't know why) by attractive feet. Lots of people don't get that one. I have other kinks (tourisms ?? :rolleyes:) but more about those later. Anyone here get the sexual appeal of pretty feet?
     
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    I actually DO have a bit of a uniform (and leather) fetish to begin with, so I could well imagine that type of scenario! I guess I am also what can be called a tourist fetishist by rawbone8's definitions.
    I agree there are endless possibilities to that type of role-play. The thought of bringing it into a very public kind of setting like a bar etc. will add a lot to it for sure!
     
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    While not a full-blown fetish my ultimate must have is to watch a man masturbate..i just can not get enough of it. And if he can self-suck and lets me watch i am instant putty in his hands.

    To be honest if a guy said he was to shy or wouldnt masturbate in front of me for any reason, then i dont know if i could stay with him..
     
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    All aboard the yellow submarine of sexual discovery.

    I checked the list and I'll pass on snot and fart fetishes.

    I am not a fetishest in their definition of needing the "object/body part" for sexual gratification, but I am very oral and scent sensitive.

    A woman's neck does it for me - the smell feel and response, the ability to hold the hair quite firmly and passionately whilst softly caressing the neck with kisses.

    I think this thread should have a

    "Likely to cause masterbation" Warning.
     
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    All this stuff is very...conventional. I'd say the thing that most excites me in pornography is an anal creampie, or just anything anal in general.

    I love watching the cum ooze out of a nice asshole. I'm picky about assholes, it has to be a pretty one, and not destroyed from the sex itself. Assholes (the body part) turn me on too when they meet my standards.

    Plus, I've been known to get more than a little excited from girls peeing... and would like to be urinated on by a girl as well as urinate on her ass cheeks or something.

    I find nipple piercing and girls in bondage hot too.

    I also get a very kinky thrill out of wearing women's clothing and looking androgenous.

    I love mirrors...REALLY love them.

    When I was a young teen I used to hide my dick between my legs and pretend I had a vulva and then get hard from the sight and masturbate from the thought. I get turned on from viewing myself posing like a woman in the mirror and from seeing my own penis. I guess its narcissism, but I think a lot my homosexuality urges stem from the desire to fuck myself, suck myself, etc. I guess you can call it some kind of ass-backwards penis envy that girls get to play with penises on other people and I don't.

    I used to indulge in some very sadistic acts with a previous lover who was a crazy masochist. She was so insane (and dangerous) about being hurt that I lost a taste for it.

    I dunno, what you guys call fetishes seem so mainstream and conventional to me... Or am I just in the freak minority?
     
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    If you have a look at the link in the OP Nitro - you may be surprised to find that sexual-fetishes.info lists almost all of your fetishes in the mainstream, common list.
     
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    I guess I have some fetishes, but none of them is so special and high-ranking on my list that it blocks my sex life.

    For starters, I love the sight of really tight, atheltic male buns. Yes, I really do. Especially I love watching a humping male ass, too bad it isn't visible unless you use a mirror, or a camera set to record a guy fucking you. It is a fetish for me, but not a compulsive one.

    Another fetish is men in uniforms. It's really just a small fetish, other things about men attract me a lot more, but especially sports gear, and football gear in particular has its effects on me, one of the main reasons why I enjoy watching football. Ha, sometimes I even get wet doing so.

    Sweaty sex is the third on this list. The smell and the feeling of a man's or my skin, when it's sweaty right after a hot sex session, is one of the things that get me tuned for a second tour, really. Some sweat licking is also on my program, yet I don't go long ways to do so, nor do I lick it from the last accessable spots.

    There are more things that get me "tuned", but these are really the top things. Still, they are not so hard to find or fulfill that they seriously inflict my sex life. Ok, the football gear, maybe, but really a man wearing a jersey can do the trick ;-).
     
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