This is a topic that has really been on my mind since my first sexual encounter with a new woman this weekend. Basically, the issue of the variations among vaginas has come to the forefront. The woman in question is an attractive blonde, medium build, Scandanavian decent. We had a sufficient amount of foreplay, including the revalation that she gave amazing head. From the exterior, her opening looked quite petite with small labia and a small orfice. Unfortunately, once I penetrated her it was quite a different story. Basically, the canal was quite large (though probably falling short of the infamous "cow pussy") and completely lacked muscle tone. Honestly, it felt like fucking a bowl of Jello. Neglible friction. With some effort and a lot of concentration, we were both able to get off. I will admit, the amount of freedom of movement that her box gave me made it possible to approach her clit from a variety of angles during intercourse. This experience stands in stark contrast to that with the most "significant vagina" in my life to date - that of my ex-wife. Even after two kids and 12 years of marriage, she was tight as a pair of vise grips. It was a process for me to penetrate her every time we had sex. We had it down, though and this was never an obstacle. She also had amazing control and was even able to grip down to the point I couldn't move or milk me once I came. While I don't miss most of the marriage, I certainly look back pretty fondly on the prize that my little Korean bride carried around. The first woman I was in a relationship with after my marriage was somewhat of a mixed bag. She was on the large size and could easily accomodate my entry without a lot of preparation. She did, however, have amazing muscle tone. The walls were firm and she could grip down hard when she needed. She also had an interesting array of ridges and bumps inside that increased the friction I felt. Overall, a pretty solid organ. I guess since I was spoiled for so long, I had never really put a lot of thought into this topic. If I am being honest though, the poor quality of this most recent woman's vagina has had a negative impact on my feelings for her. I just can't see having intimate relations with her over an extended time, as the physical sensations of intercourse are less than satisfying. I don't know if that makes me shallow or, possibly, a "size king," but my reaction is real. I guess it is the reverse of what every guy with a small penis is worried about. Size matters in both directions. I guess I'd like to throw this out for discussion. What have been your experiences in this area? How wide is the variety that you have experienced? Do you find it to be a determining factor in the pleasure you reap from sex? I'm sure I am not alone in having an opinion in this area.