Ladies (or men if you can offer some advice) - how do you prefer a man to go about letting you know he's not interested in you? There is a girl in one of my classes who keeps flirting with me. She always sits next to me and she'll always try to find ways to touch me, push her foot up next to mine, etc. It's all very childish and this girl is a theater major - loves to be the center of attention. We were actually friends on facebook until I deleted my account, and she'd always send me these stupid "I THINK UR HOT" application invitations and I'm flattered, honestly but just not interested in this girl. She comes on way too strong and I happen to not like that. I know a lot of guys would be all over it, but not I. I like to be the one who does the chasing and pursuing - IF I am interested. She's not horrible looking, but she just seems very high maintenance and she's just freakin' annoying. So how would you go about handling this? I mean, I have to deal with her a whole semester. I'd rather not be mean about it but sometimes I guess you have to be cruel to be kind? I don't want to just come out and say "I'm not interested" and embarrass her. I was thinking about casually mentioning that I have a girlfriend somehow, but I don't right now and I'd rather not have to lie. I don't know, maybe I should. Anybody?