Letting Women Know You Are Hung

[AtYourCervix10]

ok. where do you meet all these girls whose sole purpose is huge cocks?

i've been meeting the hiking and brunch obsessed girls on OKCUPID, Match.com, Bumble, Tinder, virtually every dating app created.

So where do all the huge cock obsessed girls hang out, since you know so many of them?

 

[wyldcdn]

really? where are the right women? i've been single for over 20 years. never met a woman who cared. they DO love hiking, brunch and shopping.

agree with you cervix

 

[AtYourCervix10]

i'm bummed to hear that. I always hoped that canadian girls were different than american women. they seemed so much more down to earth, beautiful, authentic and less pretentious. sad that they don't care about size too. i wish i was wrong

agree with you cervix

 

[deleted136887]

Free pussy access because you have a big cock is a myth.
Just like a free lunch, A bargain, too good to be true.
In my long years, one's cock is a wellcome addition to the party AFTER she has decided to open her legs and share her innermost self with you.
One has to earn the right to sleep with her.
with us guys, we view our cocks as seperate entities, like a fast bike to be admired regardless of the person ownkng it.
I find women are far more interested in how you behave, how you treat her, others, animals, elderly people, etc.
One's personality gets you noticed, one's cock is wellcomed after.

 

[AtYourCervix10]

i totally, sadly and regretfully agree.

Free pussy access because you have a big cock is a myth.
Just like a free lunch, A bargain, too good to be true.
In my long years, one's cock is a wellcome addition to the party AFTER she has decided to open her legs and share her innermost self with you.
One has to earn the right to sleep with her.
with us guys, we view our cocks as seperate entities, like a fast bike to be admired regardless of the person ownkng it.
I find women are far more interested in how you behave, how you treat her, others, animals, elderly people, etc.
One's personality gets you noticed, one's cock is wellcomed after.

 

[Bigone3333]

I sometimes hint at the fact I'm big when joking around or flirting over text but usually just let them find out naturally

 

[AtYourCervix10]

right because they really don't care. they're more concerned with the size of your wallet.

I sometimes hint at the fact I'm big when joking around or flirting over text but usually just let them find out naturally

 

[zeropointthree]

To be honest we should end up with the stupid myth that women prefer them big, aesthetically or as a mean to get pleasure. That is just not true.

Every time I overheard men joking about size, I get angry and frustrated, but I never dare to say something. We men will be more happy with our bodies and have a better sexual life if we stop believing that lie, and that is true for people with big and with small dicks. And probably women will also enjoy that we finally got over it.

 

[RandyStrotter]

I'm pretty sure the majority of hung guys aren't particularly focused on making partners aware of their big dicks in advance. There are always those that brag about it, or use it as a 'selling point'. And it's not weird to take advantage of an opportunity to indicate size as part of a relevant discussion. But most big dick dudes aren't really thinking in terms of 'preemptive dick size disclosure'.

 

[AtYourCervix10]

speak for yourself.

as a guy who has NO interest in a long term relationship (which all women want), comprised of hiking, yoga, dinner dates, brunches and shopping, I must speak for the minority then.

I love letting women know what they're getting because it filters out ALL the women who want long term relationships. And that is how I learned that most women DO NOT CARE about size. Most women HATE dick pics and are turned off by it all. why? they ALL say "if i wanted to get laid i could just go to any bar." Women do NOT care about sex because they can get it anywhere.

So what do they care about? shopping, hiking, yoga, travel, going out and doing things, staring at their phones.

I'm pretty sure the majority of hung guys aren't particularly focused on making partners aware of their big dicks in advance. There are always those that brag about it, or use it as a 'selling point'. And it's not weird to take advantage of an opportunity to indicate size as part of a relevant discussion. But most big dick dudes aren't really thinking in terms of 'preemptive dick size disclosure'.

 

[deleted136887]

Having a smaller penis, i have always wondered what it would be like to be hung. Just curious, when you met a girl you like, do you hint you are hung, do you warn her or do you just let her find out naturally.

NEVER try to showcase your cock when meeting 1st time.
creepy.
let her find out herself.

 

[Stu311]

The discussion will never be about my penis size, unless she brings it up, which almost never happens. Telling her I am hung or implying it in any way seems creepy.

 

[AtYourCervix10]

"creepy" is such an entertaining word that has been overused and consequently lost its meaning, but to be more precise, yes, if you even hint at size, women will view that as a red flag, because it implies you just want sex.

"creepy" now is used to mean "pervert", who is only after sex. and women use the term "creepy" to imply that you're a guy who drives a carpeted van and if she goes back to your place, she'll end up on the 5 o'clock news.

women do not want sex, they want loving supportive relationships where they feel safe. they want a man who can provide resources and social mobility, not a man with huge penis -- like porn would have you falsely believe.

The discussion will never be about my penis size, unless she brings it up, which almost never happens. Telling her I am hung or implying it in any way seems creepy.

 

[swooooooosh]

Women always know I have a big dick. They sense it. I'm calm as a person and I radiate what is now popularized as Big Dick Energy or BDE. I'm heavy in eye-contact and being direct in what I say and think, I speak with conviction and confidence, and I have no problems expressing my sexual desire (through body language, tonality of voice, how I look at her, what I say etc) for a woman I've only had 5 seconds of conversation with.

All that adds up to them expecting me to have a big dick. And then when they see it, they still get happily surprised. From there on the talk goes and their girlfriends, who are just big-dick-hunting (there's many, contrary to the belief here), will scope me out and try to make something happen.
In my experience, once they see the dick/hear about it, they wanna try.

 

[deleted1168963]

Having a smaller penis, i have always wondered what it would be like to be hung. Just curious, when you met a girl you like, do you hint you are hung, do you warn her or do you just let her find out naturally.

If a girl has an inkling of my size and she hints that she is curious I will have her wrap her fingers around my wrist (try to no woman can) then tell her that’s how big around the head is. I might be more subtle and if she hasn’t guessed I leave it at that and let her think on it

 

[Stu311]

"creepy" is such an entertaining word that has been overused and consequently lost its meaning, but to be more precise, yes, if you even hint at size, women will view that as a red flag, because it implies you just want sex.

"creepy" now is used to mean "pervert", who is only after sex. and women use the term "creepy" to imply that you're a guy who drives a carpeted van and if she goes back to your place, she'll end up on the 5 o'clock news.

women do not want sex, they want loving supportive relationships where they feel safe. they want a man who can provide resources and social mobility, not a man with huge penis -- like porn would have you falsely believe.

Thank you for your deep expertise into linguistics and female psychology. It’s rare to meet such a polymath.

 

[AtYourCervix10]

i feel sorry for you, man. If you say they "sense it" because of eye contact, that means you're spending too much time talking to them, chasing them, buying them dinner, drinks, making all that "serious eye contact." ugh. sounds exhausting and time consuming to me -- i'd rather be doing so many other things.

it's not about YOU expressing your sexual desire. Many men express their sexual desire for women and are taken to jail, lose their jobs, or are sued for it. It's about WOMEN expressing THEIR sexual desire -- which they can rarely do because they're so self obsessed checking their phones.

but maybe that's just Copenhagen where all the cock crazed girls are.

the point is, if women really cared about your size, you wouldn't have to spend so much time, "making eye contact."

further it's a statistical, biological, evolutionary fact that women care about you more as a Provider, who can provide income, support and status for them, not your size.

If you mean to say that your big dick provides you with the confidence to have a great job, great income, an ability to provide a lifestyle for women and support them, then yes, penis size matters to women. however i would argue there are more rich CEOs with tiny dicks and hot wives than there are deadbeats with huge dicks and centerfold wives.

Women always know I have a big dick. They sense it. I'm calm as a person and I radiate what is now popularized as Big Dick Energy or BDE. I'm heavy in eye-contact and being direct in what I say and think, I speak with conviction and confidence, and I have no problems expressing my sexual desire (through body language, tonality of voice, how I look at her, what I say etc) for a woman I've only had 5 seconds of conversation with.

All that adds up to them expecting me to have a big dick. And then when they see it, they still get happily surprised. From there on the talk goes and their girlfriends, who are just big-dick-hunting (there's many, contrary to the belief here), will scope me out and try to make something happen.
In my experience, once they see the dick/hear about it, they wanna try.

 

[swooooooosh]

i feel sorry for you, man. If you say they "sense it" because of eye contact, that means you're spending too much time talking to them, chasing them, buying them dinner, drinks, making all that "serious eye contact." ugh. sounds exhausting and time consuming to me -- i'd rather be doing so many other things.

it's not about YOU expressing your sexual desire. Many men express their sexual desire for women and are taken to jail, lose their jobs, or are sued for it. It's about WOMEN expressing THEIR sexual desire -- which they can rarely do because they're so self obsessed checking their phones.

but maybe that's just Copenhagen where all the cock crazed girls are.

the point is, if women really cared about your size, you wouldn't have to spend so much time, "making eye contact."

further it's a statistical, biological, evolutionary fact that women care about you more as a Provider, who can provide income, support and status for them, not your size.

If you mean to say that your big dick provides you with the confidence to have a great job, great income, an ability to provide a lifestyle for women and support them, then yes, penis size matters to women. however i would argue there are more rich CEOs with tiny dicks and hot wives than there are deadbeats with huge dicks and centerfold wives.

You have no idea how much or how little I chase women, buddy. Quit projecting your own small dick energy beliefs onto me. I never feel the time I spend with women to be time consuming. I love all women, I see it as a privilege to be chosen by one and I never have a problem getting them to do what I want. I lead, they follow, it's mutual respect. You sound frustrated that you have zero game and you thought your big dick would compensate for it - sad for you, it didn't, women still don't respect you, and you are as clueless a a 5-year old boy on how to tone down the brunch-and-gossip-activities with them and tone up the dirty-slut-from-porn-activities.
Just stop me if I'm wrong.

 

[AtYourCervix10]

you're totally right and completely wrong. i disagree with you on every point. but if you are as smart as you claim to be, you understand already what I mean.

I would also assume you're aware of your striking contradiction of "I love all women" and "get them to do what I want." You're basically admitting to manipulating women, which is hardly a gesture of "mutual respect." quite the opposite.

I'm at least honest about my desires, unlike you. I don't manipulate, i don't play games, I don't compensate. I don't bend who i am to manipulate women. I'm just me and I love that. Women can take it or leave it.

Yes, I have no game -- I don't play games. Unlike you, you clearly enjoy playing games. You know who else enjoys playing games? A "5 year old boy" (to borrow your analogy).

I'm hardly frustrated, I just recognize what women want and refuse to play that game. I do admire you though, I wish I was as disillusioned and unaware as you, it's quite admirable your lack of awareness to basic principles of human interaction. Your narcissism is quite stunning. I admire it, I wish i was as unaware as you. I give you props.

I could go on and pick your thin post apart, but if you're as smart and enlightened as you claim to be, you know I'm right.

You have no idea how much or how little I chase women, buddy. Quit projecting your own small dick energy beliefs onto me. I never feel the time I spend with women to be time consuming. I love all women, I see it as a privilege to be chosen by one and I never have a problem getting them to do what I want. I lead, they follow, it's mutual respect. You sound frustrated that you have zero game and you thought your big dick would compensate for it - sad for you, it didn't, women still don't respect you, and you are as clueless a a 5-year old boy on how to tone down the brunch-and-gossip-activities with them and tone up the dirty-slut-from-porn-activities.
Just stop me if I'm wrong.

 

[zeropointthree]

Some people are really delusional...