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I find the older I get the more exposer I have to porn or sexually related material the higher my libido is and the longer it lasts. If my exposer is limited the lower my libido is. Any one else experience this, straight, bi, gay, trans male and female. Hate to sound like a perv but I like a very high libido. Feels great. Very confidant assertive sexy ... When low the blahs.
 

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I find the older I get the more exposer I have to porn or sexually related material the higher my libido is and the longer it lasts. If my exposer is limited the lower my libido is. Any one else experience this, straight, bi, gay, trans male and female. Hate to sound like a perv but I like a very high libido. Feels great. Very confidant assertive sexy ... When low the blahs.
Do you mean exposure by “exposer”?
 

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There's definitely a relationship between my libido and my porn watching, but I'd say it flows in the opposite direction, in that the libido is always there and as it peaks and valleys so to does the amount of explicit material I'd watch. I suspect I'm somewhat younger than a lot of guys here, as such my libido never really dissipates; it's a matter of how much brainpower I divert towards it, which typically is a function or indication of my sexual life. A regular sex life moderates any porn input, an inconsistent one spikes my viewing initially, then it trails off to a minimum as I've grown to not want to wallow in the unrealistic expectations and resentment that can stem from it.
 
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I don’t find my libido is influenced by porn. Quite the opposite. If it is already high and I am not able to have sex, then porn can be an outlet, albeit a fairly frustrating one oftentimes with the amount of incestous crap that’s on most mainstream platforms nowadays.

And no, I don’t like being turned on constantly. There are many times when I need to have a clear head to do my job properly or I just want to do something non sexual. In those instances I am grateful I no longer am the constantly turned on fool I was in my teens.
 
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i find it kind of goes hand in hand. if im horny, i want to look at more porn, if i look at too much porn, i want sex and more porn.
 

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Porn motivates me.

When I was single, it would motivate me to pursue new sex partners. It never decreased my drive to meet real fuck buddies, like it does with some ppl. To me, it just enhanced my libido. And I'd watch it before going to meet someone from online dating, or even if I was out on a daytime pickup mission. I think the key for me is, I dont always masturbate to it. Thats where the problem can come into play, conditioning yourself to cum to images on the screen as opposed to human contact or interaction. Even just cybering with someone on Fb is better than that.

Nowadays I do webcams $$ so porn helps get me in the mood prior to my cam shows. Hell, I even watch porn scenes when I'm lifting weights at home lol
 
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I've always had what I consider to be a high sex drive having developed masturbation habits at a young age. I married my high school sweetheart after dating for six years and masturbated all throughout our dating even as I was getting handjobs and blowjobs from her. Like most married couples, sex was regular during the first few years of marriage - both of us were ready at the drop of a hat. After two kids and jobs, sex began to fall off - still good but not nearly as frequent. We've now both been retired for 12 years and sex is 3-4 times per month and often it is just me getting a handjob or blowjob.

At any rate, I more-or-less satisfy myself 4-5 times weekly and use porn as a stimulus. Quite honestly, I never knew about prostate play, pegging, creampie eating, and some of my other now favorite "activities" prior to watching porn. Porn has opened a world to me that I may not have discovered on my own. I enjoy watching porn, particularly that described as "amateur" porn because it is generally easier for me to relate to the people in those vids.
 
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