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Over the years I've posted a few times about my girls and I's crazy sex life. We have a pattern where basically we go nonstop for about a week, and then a week where she hates me. Communicating comes to a screeching halt. It's to a point where I defer real life important conversations until the "hell week" Is over. The rest of the month is probably normal.
I'm a red blooded male with super high libido, so I don't complain about the "high" week. And we've discussed the "down" week a fair bit. She knows it's an issue. But I don't think she realizes the the magnitude of it. We communicate extremely well 3/4 of the time. But recently we've been dealing with some real life issues (family health care, parenting stuff) that I don't think we can discuss until we "pass" the bad week. I find myself re-coiling and being more distant until I sense things are better.
I am assuming this is a hormone thing. What I'm wondering is, are there solutions to even things out a bit? She's mentioned it to her doc before (I was not there) and I'm under the impression the doc kind of laughed it off to "welcome to pre-menapause".
For about 6 months I kept a calendar of days and how the moods went. I think I see the pattern (just after ovulation, about a week before the P) of when things get bad.
I love her dearly and just want to be able to communicate on a sane level all the time. I'm not talking about the random good days/bad days like we all have. I'm also not wanting the 4-5x sex per day thing on the regular either. (LOL)
Curious what thoughts you ladies might have.
I'm a red blooded male with super high libido, so I don't complain about the "high" week. And we've discussed the "down" week a fair bit. She knows it's an issue. But I don't think she realizes the the magnitude of it. We communicate extremely well 3/4 of the time. But recently we've been dealing with some real life issues (family health care, parenting stuff) that I don't think we can discuss until we "pass" the bad week. I find myself re-coiling and being more distant until I sense things are better.
I am assuming this is a hormone thing. What I'm wondering is, are there solutions to even things out a bit? She's mentioned it to her doc before (I was not there) and I'm under the impression the doc kind of laughed it off to "welcome to pre-menapause".
For about 6 months I kept a calendar of days and how the moods went. I think I see the pattern (just after ovulation, about a week before the P) of when things get bad.
I love her dearly and just want to be able to communicate on a sane level all the time. I'm not talking about the random good days/bad days like we all have. I'm also not wanting the 4-5x sex per day thing on the regular either. (LOL)
Curious what thoughts you ladies might have.