lie about bf's size?

[yongdo]

Or a woman may not talk about it because they feel that their mate already gets too much female attention without their mate's penis size and bedroom talents being common knowledge.

This is so true.

 

[angelene]

Yep me and the girls talk all day about our man's penis and who's ever man has the biggest penis one us beat her up cause we jealous

No that really doesn't happen I mean I never talked about my man's penis and none of my girlfriends talk about there man's penis I think it depends on the woman's maturity level if she respects that man whether he's small or big she's not going to say anything.

 

[unzipped]

I also know when gals describe in detail our manly assets girth, length and all.... some of the other gals want some of that good hot stuff...

 

[dolfette]

Now to be honest, I don't know much about how women look at the world and relate to each other so I could be wrong in my analysis.

you said something i can agree with!

 

[THEDUDEofDestiny]

"im so embarassed my boyfriend is only kinda hung"

 

[AliceWantsUncut]

Because being with a small guy is like being with a fat woman. Your status is lowered by association.

I assume this is why women don't talk about their boyfriend's size, unless he's large.

:rotfl:



This whole thread is example after example of how delusional guys can be different men and woman are. :wink:


In my experience, women do not talk about this topic very often at all. For one thing, it is rude or considered too private to ask another girl. And the closer you are to this best friend, the more respect you would have for her (therefore is just wouldn't be said).

There are certainly some personality types out there who are more open with this stuff, so you may run into a group of chatty gals with a few too many drinks and they run their mouths. But (and I'm just being honest) it's rarely to talk you up. :redface:



Let's say most members at this site and other sites are used to talking about this sort of thing. Porn may very much a part of their daily lives, or they could be in a completely open and highly sexual relationship. Whatever the case, it's common to them to discuss sex, dick size, or how someone's cum tasted last night.

But the simple fact is...... (and I'm sorry to break it to you)...your average girl on the street does NOT give a fuck at all. She isn't thinking about it. She is not obsessing about it. And she would never care to ask about it.

 

[B_FatMushroomHead]

Just because you chicks have your own forum on this site does not mean you are suddenly allowed to disagree with men!

Sammiches! GIT!

 

[the_reverend]

The OP's post implied a scenario wherein a woman was asked about the size of their partners penis and responded with a lie, because if a woman felt the need to lie about it she wouldn't be the one bringing the subject up. The OP was not asking whether a man's girlfriend has ever talked about the size of their partner's penis with anyone in any situation.

None of these responses answer whether a woman felt the need to lie about the size of their partner's penis when asked about it.

my post was less in response to the OP, and more to the assertion that no girls talk about it ever. nor do i think all girls talk about it all the time...but there are happy gradients in between. hell, if the exes i mentioned in my response don't talk about the subject all that often, it makes me feel even better because then there must have been something noteworthy enough to discuss.

and while i wasn't there for the conversations in question, i imagine they were asked or at least prompted on some of those occasions...and i very much hope they weren't lying. (now i got worry!)

 

[petite]

my post was less in response to the OP, and more to the assertion that no girls talk about it ever. nor do i think all girls talk about it all the time...but there are happy gradients in between. hell, if the exes i mentioned in my response don't talk about the subject all that often, it makes me feel even better because then there must have been something noteworthy enough to discuss.

and while i wasn't there for the conversations in question, i imagine they were asked or at least prompted on some of those occasions...and i very much hope they weren't lying. (now i got worry!)

The likelihood that someone actually asked rather than a woman just brrought the subject up on her own is unlikely, unless she's clearly expressed to her friends that she doesn't mind if her friends date you, and she's convincing that she means it. There was one ex I encouraged other women to date, so I've been there, but that's not so flattering. There's no other situation in which one woman would feel comfortable asking one of her friends about your size. It's much more likely that the women who brought the subject up did so on their own without being asked.

If a women felt the motivation to bring it up in front of her friends, it woudl either be because she's very inexperienced, a little immature, or because it seemed to be either larger or smaller than expected, which could be very flattering to you! Depending on what kind of woman she is, she'll talk a lot or a little about you. Congrats, you're worth bragging about!

 

[D_BobN_Weave]

I had an ex-gf who said i was big when i we were together, we weren't together for very long, and when we broke up, she said she lied and that I was small. Now my ex and I had a mutual friend, and she was my best chick friend at the time. She one day told me about what she was saying about me and asked me which one was it. So after debating it for a while, I finally gave in and showed my friend, in which she called my ex and was "why did you say he is small when he obviously isn't??" and she asked "how do you know?" and she answered "cause i have him in my hand!"

It was one of the best days in my life

 

[mclivin86]

This is something my gf's and I always talked about. I never lied about a guy's size. Most of my gfs know my current bf is the smallest I have ever been with.

 

[blar]

Yep me and the girls talk all day about our man's penis and who's ever man has the biggest penis one us beat her up cause we jealous

No that really doesn't happen I mean I never talked about my man's penis and none of my girlfriends talk about there man's penis I think it depends on the woman's maturity level if she respects that man whether he's small or big she's not going to say anything.

which is why i usually don't believe any story some women say about sharing info/ pics of their boyfriends dick with their firends. why would someone give their friends naked pics of their partner?

 

[the_reverend]

The likelihood that someone actually asked rather than a woman just brrought the subject up on her own is unlikely, unless she's clearly expressed to her friends that she doesn't mind if her friends date you, and she's convincing that she means it. There was one ex I encouraged other women to date, so I've been there, but that's not so flattering. There's no other situation in which one woman would feel comfortable asking one of her friends about your size. It's much more likely that the women who brought the subject up did so on their own without being asked.

If a women felt the motivation to bring it up in front of her friends, it woudl either be because she's very inexperienced, a little immature, or because it seemed to be either larger or smaller than expected, which could be very flattering to you! Depending on what kind of woman she is, she'll talk a lot or a little about you. Congrats, you're worth bragging about!

i know on at least a few of the occasions, it WAS the other friends asking (though it was in the greater context of "how is he in bed?", i believe). in some cases, the other girls were mutual friends (and usually, they had been my friends first, lol!). actually, i don't know if that makes it better or worse. though trust me, them having any concerns about friends wanting to date me wasn't an issue. girls knowing my penis size has never helped me get a date, lol!

i just don't see why it's so much likelier for a girl to mention it unprovoked on her own than for a group of friends, who are comfortable discussing sex and guys around each other, to ask or bring the subject up first. perhaps your experience has been different (maybe theatre girls are just weird like that, lol!), but like i said before, i don't think there are many absolutes that can be declared with human behavior.

 

[petite]

Oh, good grief, "theatre girls"? You mean the people who crave lots and lots of attention? Yeah, they're going to talk about sex a lot because of how much attention it attracts and how much it emphasizes their sexuality. Theatre men are the same way. It's the sort of people the theatre attracts.

i know on at least a few of the occasions, it WAS the other friends asking (though it was in the greater context of "how is he in bed?", i believe).

"How is he in bed?" is much more likely than "How large is his penis?" from a woman, because the first question allows the respondent to elaborate as much or as little as she wants, but the second question is direct and very intimate.

i just don't see why it's so much likelier for a girl to mention it unprovoked on her own than for a group of friends

That's just how women are, as you can see from this thread. Younger women do talk more about the intimate details of their sex livse, as do single women or women just dating casually. Married women or women with serious boyfriends and older women talk about it the least. Kinky or open women will talk more about it than conservative women. It's complicated.

An open kinky older woman who's married may tell all, but a very young conservative woman who is just dating may not say a word to anyone about anything. We're all vastly different, but in general, this is what women are like.

 

[the_reverend]

Oh, good grief, "theatre girls"? You mean the people who crave lots and lots of attention? Yeah, they're going to talk about sex a lot because of how much attention it attracts and how much it emphasizes their sexuality. Theatre men are the same way. It's the sort of people the theatre attracts.

nah, we're all shy anti social introverts...wait, i'm thinking of the writers. being an actor AND a writer makes me very confused sometimes...sigh...

 

[EllieP]

I can honestly say it's not something I discuss with even my closest friends, although some of them know. And they didn't hear it from me, I promise. Once we did a thing at a nude beach with some friends, and let's just say it did not end well. Catty and just rude comments were made. One couple we no longer speak with, and we had a long period of very cool relations with the other two. We finally had a big cry and kumbaya gathering and made it all good. But every so often when we're out having our fun with just the girls one of them will mention it in jest and I'll joke along. It's not that it bothers me, but it's just not something I'll bring up.

 

[Skull Mason]

I think maybe the older generation here doesn't speak of it much (more classy perhaps :wink, but I know with girls my age and younger the subject almost always comes up at some point or another.

 

[the_reverend]

I think maybe the older generation here doesn't speak of it much (more classy perhaps :wink, but I know with girls my age and younger the subject almost always comes up at some point or another.

yeah, i think this is probably the case...because even the girls i just hang out with talk about it from time to time, so i know it can't just be that i date particularly forthright women. lol!

 

[petite]

yeah, i think this is probably the case...because even the girls i just hang out with talk about it from time to time, so i know it can't just be that i date particularly forthright women. lol!

Now are you talking about what they talk about with you? Because I've discussed sex more with men than I have with women. You can't assume that what a woman you're dating has told you she would also say to her friends.

 

[D_Harry_Pitz]

If I were to discuss anything, it would be whether a guy was hot in bed or a loser. IMHO, technique wins every time.

True, but that doesn't mean size is not important. All the women I've been with confirm this. (But maybe it's because they go for my size in the first place, I don't know...)

On topic: apparently they do talk about size AND they ask. I have the name of being big in certain circles, so my former gf has been asked a few times if she could confirm this...