Life as a grower....(growers only)

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Bob- Sorry, that probably wasn't phrased too well. :smile:

I just meant that there's a common assumption nowadays that any penis which has any sort of "flop" to it is "flaccid". It's such a gray area that unless it's your own penis (or one you know very well) it's hard to tell what you're looking at, and I'm starting to believe that over 80% of the pictures or videos where a guy knew there was a camera aimed at him are probably closer to erect than anything else. My philosophy now- if it's noticeably above average size for a flaccid... it's probably not one.

Crunch

That is very true. Most of the "huge flaccid" cocks people think they have seen are really semi or fully erect. They more than likely either erect or curve downward.

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I am also a grower. I'd say the funniest place for me is the gym showers.

Sometimes, I'm hanging rather large... i.e. if I'm going right from the spa to the showers.

Other times when I'm in a hurry and I've been doing long distance running or basketball I have to rush into the shower with my 2-3 incher. I suffer from sports dick (i.e. my cock gets smaller when exercising, not larger). I see the other guys in the shower trying to inadvertantly play with themselves to keep some sort of a larger side semi going, and I just think to myself and laugh that they are probably thinking I have a small cock based on what I'm sporting at those times. :tongue:

First is a very soft pics, second one is a hard pic:

http://www.lpsg.org/members/alphamale/albums/alphamale's+gallery+pictures/460358-body211.html

http://www.lpsg.org/members/alphamale/albums/alphamale's+gallery+pictures/363182-precum11.html
 

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i know the feeling, sometimes i feel like i have a baby dick when its cold out..but im 6x6 with big low hanging balls when its warm
 

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I'm a classic grower. I usually don't care. I find that girls really like the "surprise" as it triples in size.

The only time I feel any awkwardness is changing in the locker room after a workout. Working out always makes it shrink down more. I sometimes try and think dirty thoughts on the way into the locker room, just to "revive" it a little ;-)
 
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I pretty much double in size going from soft to hard. Personally, I think it's ideal - no worries about having to hide a bulge or anything in normal routine, but gets the job done when you need it. And it's an average flaccid size (in my case) so I don't worry about the gym showers.

Haha, you notice how much bigger it gets when you really have to pee?

hahaha this. Sometimes when I really gotta raise ocean levels I pull it out and it's as much as two inches longer. Guess I needed every extra bit of storage down there I could get.
 

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It can be embarrassing being a grower. I am around 3.5" soft. But after a hard workout, i am like a mushroom in the bushes. It is nice to show something in the locker room when showering. I have surprised several women with how much it grows. I go from 3.5 to around 7.5. I have seen dissappointment go to happiness with how it grows. It has irs positives.
 

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It can be embarrassing being a grower. I am around 3.5" soft. But after a hard workout, i am like a mushroom in the bushes. It is nice to show something in the locker room when showering. I have surprised several women with how much it grows. I go from 3.5 to around 7.5. I have seen dissappointment go to happiness with how it grows. It has irs positives.


yea its kind of forces you to have an inner confidence
 

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wow a lot of you users dont care that you might be misrepresented.

Now this is gonna sound strange but I used to be a shower by all means. my penis would be completely limp about an inch and a half smaller than my erection. Now as I am getting older and had some erectile difficulties I have turned into more of a grower and it bugs me! Maybe it's because I used to be a consistent shower.

But let me tell you this. Theres nothing like the confidence of having a big dick hanging in you're pants at all times. Because as many of u know when people know you have a big dick they might say something drawing attention to it. And it feels good to know you could whip it out at anytime to prove someone wrong. I'm not recommending doing that as I see it as kind of trashy. But the confidence and looks and the way you're treated is amazing when u have a noticeable soft dick in ur shorts.

Also my last note is I feel like now that I'm more of a grower its due to not being as healthy and ready to go sexually. My erections have suffered. I get less of them and theyre not always as full or hard as they used to be.

So to answer you're question I do get self conscious being a grower. Maybe its because of my previous reputation, but regardless it causes me anxiety.
 

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It took me a while but I got over it. at 6'4 being a grower really sucks sometimes. because even when you grow you still look small compared but then I had sex at 16 and the girl thought my dick was the perfect size. It was an unsolicited compliment. (I don't ask about size not wanting to feel more insecure) But then after her, every girl after that chimed in how the loved my dick size so I got over the self esteem issues on that end. When it comes to the locker room sometimes seeing a big guy muscular guy with a small dick is just as appealing I mean look at the statue of David. lol
 

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Damn. Until this point i thought everybody was a grower...

It is fun surprising women though after they see the measly flaccid thing blossom into a large-and-in-charge shaft.
 

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Damn. Until this point i thought everybody was a grower...

It is fun surprising women though after they see the measly flaccid thing blossom into a large-and-in-charge shaft.

No sir. Some people show a majority of their size and its like that all the time. for example if youre erection is 8 inches you might be 7 inches flacid. yes it still grows but not nearly the same percentage as a grower. they're are men who could be 8 inches hard and only 4 inches soft.
 

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I know exactly how you feel, While my erection isn't 9 inches it is a respectable 7 inches but while flaccid it is very small. Not only do I feel self concious about a woman seeing my flaccid penis, but also in locker rooms. First pic flaccid short thin shaft with a tiny head covered by foreskin, next pic erect 7 inches foreskin retracted showing mushroom head.

dude, you really look like you have penile warts. have you checked that thing out?
 

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I understand how you feel. Im a grower and when im flaccid, I get self-conscience. Hell, Im self conscience when erect. Even though i've been told my dick size is great (6X5.5) it still looks small to me. I think my concept of size is off. Things that are huge to others look kind of small to me.
 

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I hate being a grower! I just feel like I'm misrepresenting myself.

If a girl happens to see me naked while limp, I really doubt she would think my 3 to 3.5 inch limp would grow to 7.

And even worse when I work out it shrinks even more! good grief. It just doesn't really make sense. People are satisfied with the fact that some people are growers while others are showers. I think they're must be some health aspect causing this. Like poor blood flow, lower testosterone, hi estrogen or something for the growers.

A shower just looks like he must be healthier.
 
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Ha i feel the same way, i remember this one time i was by this girls house who i liked and I used the bathroom and i left the door cracked and she walked in and saw me and later was like ha ha yoiur small, lmaoI couldnt help but laugh, cause when I grow its 9in, but some months down the line I slept with her best friend and her friend told he I was packing, and then she wanted to see, lol
 

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love to see comparison pics like the lighter next to the softie, then hard, but put the lighter back in the pic so we can see the before and after! :)
so what about the guys who hang large all the time and just get a little bit harder? but not really bigger, anyone want to chime in on this?
I think most gay men can tell which ones will grow or not. (penis experts)
I like the comments on how str8s like getting compliments from girls who get surprised or that happy look on their faces when they finally see the big one.
 

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im wondering if other growers feel insecure at times, because throughout the day my dick is small and if im nervous its even smaller-but if im extremely horny with a girl i get about 9 inches and a little over 6 around. i know its large BUT throughout most of the day its just shriveled and unimpressive. so its inconsistent in size. anyways this affects my confidence because im worried that people will see it in its shriveled state and assume im small when obviously this is not the case.

PS-my penis isnt even as big when i masturbate as opposed to when im having sex. to sum it up, if im feeling good, so is my penis, but if im anxious or nervous so is my penis. its so frustrating sometimes.

anyone else relate to this feeling?

I am also an extreme grower. 1.5"-2" flaccid and 9"X6.5" fully erect. I love being a grower because I can hide my size if I am not excited to have sex; it is a good thing that people think I have a small one cuz if they have impression that I have a well-hung dick, they won't let me go and keep asking me about my penis size, which I think is annoying. Proud to be an owner of extreme grower.