Life's unfair!!!

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Would you realise if a woman or guy was coming on to you, it's surprising how many men don't realise a woman is encouraging him.

I think I would if she did some of the things I hear others tell. Yet, on the other hand, this stuff I hear could be pure baloney...
 

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Me. In my opinion...



I wish somebody could tell me WHAT I have to offer.

I just get very discouraged. I hear all these other guys telling about women coming on to them. Whether on the job, in school, or whatever.
I have NEVER had a woman (or a man either) come on to me in my life...
A big dick! Don't be down on yourself mate. If someone says you have a lot to offer then take it as a compliment and truth:wink:
 

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You're often very negative in your self image viking, and people on here will tell you you have a lot to offer, I could tell you what I think you have to offer but you're not going to believe it are you? People pick up on your negativity.
 

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Just a thing: you can always get thinner, go to a gym, and study.
No matter how stupid you are, you can study and acquire more culture, thus becoming more interesting.

No matter how fat (or thin), you can alway go to a gym and get a better shape.

And, no matter how rude, you can alway strive to become more gentle, charming etc.

Point is: you may not become a Greek God, but you can always surpass youself.

Yes, life may be unfair, but to rant only is the path of the lazy.

couldn't have said it better myself!:smile:
 

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You're often very negative in your self image viking, and people on here will tell you you have a lot to offer, I could tell you what I think you have to offer but you're not going to believe it are you? People pick up on your negativity.

Actually, I would be more inclined to believe you than most people on here.
You normally are brutally honest, and I appreciate that. If you say I have something to offer, I take that as a very high compliment. Seriously, I do...
 

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I am brutally honest Viking, although I hope I'm not brutal :) I've said before if I met you in a bar and you asked for my phone number I'd give it you, I just wouldn't give it you if you said 'I have nothing to offer, I'm not good looking and I don't have a big dick'.
 

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You're often very negative in your self image viking, and people on here will tell you you have a lot to offer, I could tell you what I think you have to offer but you're not going to believe it are you? People pick up on your negativity.
yes. He is very smart and Handsome and a great guy:smile:
 

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I am brutally honest Viking, although I hope I'm not brutal :) I've said before if I met you in a bar and you asked for my phone number I'd give it you, I just wouldn't give it you if you said 'I have nothing to offer, I'm not good looking and I don't have a big dick'.

Looks is objective. I think I may, at best, be of average looks. Your opinion, and that of others will vary. What I have to offer is also objective. Your, and others mileage will vary on that parameter. However, penis size really isn't objective. Preferences will vary, but rulers don't lie. I am indeed average at best in penis size. That is going by the current commonly accepted average.
Which I'm not entirely sure is really correct...
 
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Sometimes it just doesn't matter. You can fall for someone and they won't see it, or even think it's funny when you do. You can have all the luck everywhere else - have all the rest of the trappings of success, and just lose someone you love because of timing... or fear of being wrong.

When you find that and miss that chance - so insanely rare to even believe it when you find that tender heart and soul you think matches yours - it's very easy to beleive that the hope for finding such a thing again is pointless. How many times can lightning strike..

"'ere a man hath power to say 'behold!', and the jaws of darkness swallow it up.. so quick bright things come to confusion.."

Having the rest doesn't get or guarantee you anything.

.. and it hurts. nonetheless.
 
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As it is nowadays you have to have the perfect body and the biggest cock to be on top of the world OR do people still look for the person who has got a nice heart and share a life with in contentmemt?

Don't be such a pussy.

Stop wasting Mr. Hat's time with pansy little foo-foo problems...and gimme back my cocoa!
 

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Yes I know what you mean!
But the funniest thing is that I am the positive person that you could ever meet, and still shit happens :confused:
Oh, bullocks!

Let me introduce you to my friend Davey, I think you two would get along famously!:biggrin1:
 

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A guy who isn't 'perfect' can overcome that by being a good listener and talker, full of fun and happy with who he is, however a great looking guy without a personality is just so much meat.


I'm with PaulF here (even though I am the opposite sex...)

It's great being the nice one, good listener, talker, funny one, entertainer..... but we know which one get's bonked at the end of the night!!! The hot one! :rolleyes:


Lito is right, there are things one can change about yourself, and dieting and exercising is a positive one. But I would hardly call the OP 'a rant'. It's more of an observation, and one that is true for many who aren't considered here as having 'the perfect looks'.
 

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Whining on isn't attractive, don't you think the "Hot" one has issues, don't they feel more used because people only want to be with them because it looks good infront of others, sure they get laid, but at what costs? How many one night stands wouldn't leave you with worries about your self esteem?

Doesn't the hot one need to work harder at staying hot or lose any kind of self worth they have because it is tied up in their appearance by others for them....?

Don't big-dicked guys just want to feel close to someone and not have to be this all powerful sexual athelete they might be assumed to be.....

Get over yourself and act your age and not your shoe size!

People will respond to you much better if you do