Like men but gay sex just turns me off. What can I do?

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Have you considered looking into getting together with a Female to Male trans gender or transsexual? It might get you the masculine companionship that you're craving without the particular aspects of gay sex that are turning you off.

I've only met a couple of gay men in relationships with FTMs, but I have met across them.
 

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Agreed! I may be a pit, tit and crotch slut, but the thought of rimming just bums me out. That said, my ass is still virgin territory and being rimmed or fingered is a quick turnoff.

So you wouldnt rim my fit arse if I offered it up to you then Savage dude? And are you saying that im not allowed to put my pretty lips and cute tongue up against your fit bumhole? :frown1::eek:
 

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So you wouldnt rim my fit arse if I offered it up to you then Savage dude? And are you saying that im not allowed to put my pretty lips and cute tongue up against your fit bumhole? :frown1::eek:

Hey bud, there's a first time for everything. It's just that I'd rather we take each other to oral estacy with tit, pit, crotch and cock worship.
 

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Hey. I've never had any sexual relationship with a man but it's getting more tempting. If I'm honest I'd love to experience a man kissing me and being in a sexual situation but... the thought of licking a man's bum hole turns me right off. I mean we all know what comes out of there and putting my tongue in there, yuck I don't think I could do it. Obviously anal sex is quite dodgy with STD's and stuff so all that is really putting me off trying even though I fancy a lot of guys. I guess some people would say 'You don't have to do all that - just have oral sex' or something but come on I think most guys who would go to bed with you would expect a bit more than that. Any advice?

What makes you think you’re the only person in the world with your views? You have the ideal opportunity with this site alone to find others that your share ideals and, if desired, link up with them. Why deny yourself the happiness you deserve? Go for it.
 

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Hey bud, there's a first time for everything. It's just that I'd rather we take each other to oral estacy with tit, pit, crotch and cock worship.

Dude! I fuckin love a bit of cock worship! Im breezing along to your temple right now! I wanna see the second cuming!! :biggrin1:
 

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Since when is knowing and respecting one's limits a bad thing?

For the record, I know several men who are oral-only. For much of my 20s, I was, too.

Yep me too. I have know a lot of guys that were oral only. But they also had a lot of other issues too. :wink:
 

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Hey Man,

Let me tell you this. I Love men and being with them. The look, the feel, the taste. And as far as I am concerned, if shit enters the picture, party is over.

A considerate partner would make sure that he is clean as the driven snow so you could rest easy. But I really don't get all the hype about ass and things anal. I Love Sucking the biggest cock I can find and burying it in my face. "I No Choke so", I hate to have it taken away to stick up my ass.

Needless to say, You can make what's appealing to you "All that" and leave out what doesn't work.

Go for it dude.:biggrin1:
 

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I guess some people would say 'You don't have to do all that - just have oral sex' or something but come on I think most guys who would go to bed with you would expect a bit more than that. Any advice?

Believe me, guys' interests in bed are very diverse. The trick is simply finding guys who are interested in what you're interested in.
 

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I've had a lot of gay male acquaintances who have revealed to me that it's more common than people realize for some gay men to not like engaging in anal sex or anal oral play for the reasons you mentioned.

They preferred oral, kissing, cockplay, fetish play and other stuff instead.
 

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All good advice. Look on Craigslist for some mutual j/o sessions, be safe, and see what happens. Look up frottage on Wikipedia, its really hot. Trust no-one when it comes to STDs, including oral and anal herpes. Set clear boundaries for every situation, and stay sober and drug free until you are sure what's going on. It's a tough world, but it's easy to have fun out there. Share that lovely cock!

P.S. I never rimmed a guy until I was married to him for three years, so give yourself some space around that!