Having had a few straight JO buds who like hand jobs (reciprocal too) we do enjoy a good hand job. Yes, women can be taught and some do a good job but their arm tires easily. To give a good one, you have to pay attention to certain details like the guy's breathing, the stiffining of his cock, the tightening up of his balls, pressure on the frenulum, etc. These things serve as kinda of a progress report as to how well you are doing. When I am getting a good hand job, I never want it to end inspite of the happy ending to come. I loved being edged and to edge you have to pay attention to what is going on like when to speed up and when to slow down. I've had some mad screeming orgasims by hand jobs because the other guy knew what I was experiencing and wanted it to be as good as if he were doing it to himself. When you have just received an absolutely fantistic hand job and then it's your turn, there is great pressure to give as good a one as you received.