Like to have anal but not gay?

[CRAIGROBBO]

Okay guys. this is a weird one.

What would you call a person who likes to receive anal sex(a man) but is not even remotely attracted to men, as in even the though of a man is a turn off but said person like Penis in many ways, To suck, to have sex with etc.

So basically you don't find any part of a man attractive physically but the penis?

Gay or not Gay?

 

[BillM]

You state He likes to receive anal sex (a MAN) not a Dildo, so I would call him a CLOSET GAY!!

 

[Leakingpre247]

Nothing crazy about a guy liking to have prostate stimulated. I have been fucked and my ass felt good. It was a selfish act for me in wanting to be pleased other than my prostate massager or dildo and not about the guy or his dick doing the fucking. But when the desire is there for dicks...wanting to hold, touch, suck, or if the guy is wanting to kiss another guy or things that are becoming rather sensual... things change to the gay side. Then again, many would say that because I was fucked, that makes me gay. Whatever. This debate was probably going on in ancient Greece and we still don't all agree. Labels can get us into much conflct and discussion.

Does this guy get a hard on just when looking at dicks? Prob more gay than straight. I don't know of a straight dude who gets hard looking at another guys junk. This is sparking a thought to create a thread of my own.

 

[328982]

Okay guys. this is a weird one.

What would you call a person who likes to receive anal sex(a man) but is not even remotely attracted to men, as in even the though of a man is a turn off but said person like Penis in many ways, To suck, to have sex with etc.

So basically you don't find any part of a man attractive physically but the penis?

Gay or not Gay?

Really don't know. I'm sort of the opposite, not wild about cock in general and definitely not into anal, but I'm attracted to men and can get emotionally attached. I call myself gay but who knows. This site gets me confused and down sometimes, it's a bit demoralising.

 

[BIGBULL29]

Really don't know. I'm sort of the opposite, not wild about cock in general and definitely not into anal, but I'm attracted to men and can get emotionally attached. I call myself gay but who knows. This site gets me confused and down sometimes, it's a bit demoralising.

Yes, I agree 100%. You make very fine points which highlight the complexity of human sexuality.

I think a few cocks are sexy (get off on comparing), but I generally don't think of cock in terms of sucking one or getting fucked. In fact, sometimes gay is just really boring for me/ As I've said countless times on here, I usually watch lesbian porn.

I am emotionally attracted to men way more than women. I get attached to men more easily. Still hard for me to come to terms with.
But yet I like chunky lesbian porn. Sometimes I watch gay porn for the intimacy.

So, I am not 100% straight at all but am not like the OP at all.

 

[BIGBULL29]

@ Hunghorse30

Yes, I agree 100%. You make very fine points which highlight the complexity of human sexuality.

I think a few cocks are sexy (get off on comparing), but I generally don't think of cock in terms of sucking one or getting fucked. In fact, sometimes gay is just really boring for me/ As I've said countless times on here, I usually watch lesbian porn.

I am emotionally attracted to men way more than women. I get attached to men more easily. Still hard for me to come to terms with.

But yet I like chunky lesbian porn. Sometimes I watch gay porn for the intimacy, though.

So, I am not 100% straight at all but am not like the OP at all.

 

[alphamale175]

Nothing crazy about a guy liking to have prostate stimulated. I have been fucked and my ass felt good. It was a selfish act for me in wanting to be pleased other than my prostate massager or dildo and not about the guy or his dick doing the fucking. But when the desire is there for dicks...wanting to hold, touch, suck, or if the guy is wanting to kiss another guy or things that are becoming rather sensual... things change to the gay side. Then again, many would say that because I was fucked, that makes me gay. Whatever. This debate was probably going on in ancient Greece and we still don't all agree. Labels can get us into much conflct and discussion.

Does this guy get a hard on just when looking at dicks? Prob more gay than straight. I don't know of a straight dude who gets hard looking at another guys junk. This is sparking a thought to create a thread of my own.

I’ve never fucked a guy or did anything with a guy but I love watching gay porn and I get throbbing rock hard while watching men do they thing with good looking cut dicks

 

[alphamale175]

Ps I’m in to anal love to have a realistic dong in ass but I feel weird after I get off and end up throwing it away and later buying another one, I feel the same after watching gay porn but can’t stop watching it. I even said I’m going to stop watching it for New Years and 16 days in I’m still watching it

 

[notN2pussy]

I would call that person a guy who knows what feels good for him and simply enjoys it

 

[BIGBULL29]

I would call that person a guy who knows what feels good for him and simply enjoys it

Yes, but we always have to stupid labels get in the way

 

[notN2pussy]

Indeed

 

[BIGBULL29]

The homophobia on this site at times is unbearable.

 

[notN2pussy]

I can't argue there. Thankfully some great folks also

 

[BIGBULL29]

I can't argue there. Thankfully some great folks also

And you are one of the gems.

 

[notN2pussy]

Ditto buddy

 

[ronin001]

Depends on how the anal sex is being administered.

Self application - Kinky but not Gay
Administered by a woman by use of a dildo or a strap on - Kinky but not necessarily gay
Administered by a guy and that guys wang - Most probably and definitely Gay

 

[Leakingpre247]

And you are one of the gems.

What he said.

 

[CRAIGROBBO]

Defiantly and 100% no "closet gay", and 100% not attracted to in any way shape or form to males, completely turned off by Gay porn instant floppy there.

I guess the "label" doesn't matter per say just wondered on your views.

 

[deleted871301]

That's an interesting question.

I'm fascinated by pussy. I've eaten pussy and I loved it!

I love watching straight porn where a big thick cock tenderises a nice plump pussy. Even better if the video shows a dude eating a plump and juicy pussy!

I love everything about pussy BUT I do not want a relationship with what is attached to the pussy.

That surely does not make me Bi or Straight as I am not physically or emotionally attracted to a woman but I am attracted to pussy.

 

[KennF]

Labels are for describing, not defining.

A guy who likes to have his prostate stimulated isn't any more than a guy who likes to have his prostate stimulated. He may or may not be sexually attracted to a cock, other than being attracted to the position it would stimulate his prostate.

Without more information, all I can say is that he may objectify a penis, the same as he would any other fetish. Some people get off on balloons, or, feathers, or, having their nipples clamped, or, throat stretched, or, sides tickles, that doesn't change their sexual orientation.

So, the guy who loves to suck cock because of how it makes himself feel, is in relationship with himself, not the cock. It would, for him, be no different if he sucked a dildo, cucumber, or, man's cock.