like watching gay porn but dont like men

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  1. juicy6.5

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    So does it make any sense that I like watching really manly muscular men jacking off online but have no attraction what so ever in person...?
     
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    you'll never know unless u test the waters and see.
     
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    I have no interest in testing the waters to see. I am saying that I'm straight, but like to watch a very limited part of gay porn...is anybody else like that, I guess is what i'm asking
     
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    Man, I think you are a little afraid of admitting you sorta find dudes attractive so you are just looking for validation. I get it: I had been feeling just like that for a while until about 6 months ago, when I realized that I'm actually into both women AND men.

    Sexuality is a very complicated thing, though, so MAYBE that is not your case as well. What I'm trying to say is, just enjoy! We only get to live once and it's a very short life, so if it feels good, it's ok; stop worrying about labels so much.
     
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    it started off that way for me too.... now im more open to doing stuff with guys in real life... but im still straight :) just a little bi curious!
     
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    i agree with these two guys especially kaike.. get over the labels, the prejudice and put ur dukes down. it's not that big a deal, it's only cock man. if you enjoy it, enjoy it. find yourself a guy who'd be open to let u try it, make sure he's tested and clean and go for it. u can always find yourself just a jerk off buddy and seriously, ive had plenty of straight friends who have been into that.. comparing dicks is eventually in question.. that only makes it fun though.. if u dont wanna suck dick, u dont have to.. if u dont want him to suck ur dick, he doesn't have to.. its really simple.. u just need to work through ur hang ups because it sounds like u probably have a lot of em.

    my suggestion? try at least just watchin an entire gay porn straight through.. how's that? baby steps.
     
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    its normal. dont let people say ur seceretly bi. Could be a masculinity thing...
     
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    I love gay porn, but frankly, doing anything other than maybe mutual wanking in real life disgusts me. Nothing wrong with anything more, but I doubt I'd go beyond stroking another guy off.
     
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    What he said. It's perfectly normal to be aroused by the opposite sex in FANTASY ONLY. I love FF porn but women don't do anything for me in real life. And yes, I've tried it.
     
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    The main thing here is explorations of feelings. Some people can easily watch same sex porn because it has erotic art value. They find the appearance of the actors or models arousing, but, are not aroused by the sexual acts themselves. Individuals wired in this manner focus on the bodies of the participants and not on what they are doing.

    There are many straight men who love to watch female gay porn for this reason. There are conversely straight females who really love male gay porn again for this same reason. They focus on the erotic values of the bodies themselves. Some females again turn on to same sex bodies as do males without concentrating on the sex acts.

    Though I identify as gay, I have had a rather extensive straight background. Early in my sexually formative years I myself fit this description. I would select porn of females with very large breasts and I also liked above average body hair. In men at that time I preferred them extremely muscular and of mammoth endowments. The bodies themselves were the fantasy.

    These days I rarely do photographic porn in any manner, but I do still to this day have some enjoyment for the erotic art value of both male and female bodies.
     
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    @fuzzyken, that's really interesting that you mention that. i consider myself as a bisexual, and i like guys more.. definitely. when it comes to girls, i don't really find their bodies appealing, i just really like pussy and how it feels. when it comes to guys however, i find their bodies incredibly appealing and i find that sex acts between males are realllllly hot.

    idk if this is even that relevant, lol, just my two cents. *drop* hahaha. ;]
     
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    I like what Ken had to say here. When I watch gay porn...its more about seeing the eroticism and the movement of the male body whilest having sex.

    Its quite amazing to watch and appreciate the top...to see the very intricate workings of the muscles and muscle group in motion. Seeing a big throbbing dick and likening it to my own dick is a HUGE turn on.

    As for the bottom, I find it quite facinating seeing another man being submissive (sexually) to another. Seeing the expressions on his face, his body language, and his breathing are highly erotic, because you know he is experiencing intense pleasure.

    Getting to see multiple cum shots in one scene is just plain hot. Even when watching straight porn, the money shot is usually sends me over the edge when masturbating.
     
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    I think it's normal to be turned on by things you see in porn but wouldn't actually enjoy IRL. I experience this myself!



    no, i don't care to share. i don't share everything here.
     
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    I have been thinking of the distinction between identification and objectification when watching porn. When I'm jacking and watching, I almost never think "that bottom is so hot, I want to fuck him" and never think "that woman is so hot, I want to fuck her." Nor is there any "that stud is so hot, I want him to fuck me" (or suck him, or whatever.) It's much more that I identify with the man doing the fucking and get swept along in a current of lust. Since I get off very frequently to straight porn but have almost zero interest in experiencing heterosex, it's easy to translate that to your situation.
     
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    Don't get hung on labels - you're you - and whatever you do find erotic is normal for YOU.

    Theres all shades of grey in between black and white here man. Go with whatever works for you and don't bother with people who want to tag you.
     
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    I'm the same. I started off watching straight porn, but found myself looking at the guys cocks more and more. Then I started watching and masturbating to gay porn, and this year I've gone the whole hog and enjoyed sex with men. I still prefer women and do things with women that I don't do with men, but I'm enjoying myself and am very comfortable with my sexuality, and that's what matters.
     
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    100% agree
     
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    me too i dont wanna have sex with a guy but i like gay porn i guess you like what you like
     
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    FWIW, I'm totally gay, but I love watching a lot of straight porn. Go figure! Just enjoy what you enjoy!
     
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