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damn, im only 20.

Well, in that case you have less than 12 months to go!!! Or you can move to Canada where you could have been buying beer two years ago...!

Actually, it's not fair to put an age on it. If a younger man has the balls to talk to me, I'll definitely look at him. :rolleyes: (And in California, there's no legal age limit on DRINKING, just on BUYING!)
 

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Younger guys are like tigers.. wild, enticing, gorgeous, but not worth the trouble of keeping

Oh, I would never keep one....







...two or three would be better! :biggrin1:



PS: Hullo, Submit452.
PS: Hello, CJ1992... I hope that wasn't the year you were born! Maybe some milfs aren't, but I'm definitely getting plenty... :wink:
 

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Honestly, I have never dated a guy younger than me. I tend to find older men sexier and relate to them more, in music, books, movies. In fact, I married my husband when I was 23 and he was 36. There is a finesse and deeper understanding of women that comes with age, Some younger guys do have it, and I wouldn't exclude dating someone because they were younger, but I don't believe it's common.

Burns1de is actually the only guy younger than me that I have lusted after and would actually meet up with because of the intellectual connection and the way he interacts with me as a woman off of the threads.

While I don't think I could ever be a cougar, I admire the woman who are willing to help with a young man's education. When I was younger, where I was sexually is completely different, and talking with male friends I believe it is the same with them.
 

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I read hotmilf's posts & I wish I was 26 . I read wldhoney's posts & I wish I was 46 . Damn , being 36 I end up with squat :redface::biggrin1:
 

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I'm 19 and just a few weeks ago I was hit on by two very hot looking 40 somethings while at the bar to get a few drinks (fake ID). They wanted to buy me a drink, but I was there with a buddy flying wingman with two women our age who were pretty hot so I had to turn their offer down. It really was sad too, because had I just been there with friends things could have got interesting, but now I'll never know.
 

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Hehehe I'm only 20 so you can't look at much younger than that! Personally I think guys my age are just real idiots... much prefer older ones. My partner is 53 and he teaches me so much. I love him to death! I don't think I will ever go to my age again lol.
 

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I know what you mean, CuriousGirl.

It's all about what one is EXPECTING from younger men. Stability, seriousness, boy-girl commitment? Quite rare unless society forces them into it -- most young men are not ready for that kind of responsibility. (According to neuroscientists, the "responsibility" section of the male brain doesn't finish forming until a man is 24 or 25.)

Fun, energy, raw emotion and bravado? Yes. And intelligent ones can also be interesting to talk to. (Intelligence is not age-dependent.)

sneakyd: dang it! I meant to answer you in another thread, and now I seem to have lost where it is. Sorry! (BTW, have I actually met you?) I having nothing against men in their 30's. 30 y/o's are great because life has knocked them around a little and they've learned some valuable lessons... but they still know how to have fun. However, many men in their 30's are "breeding" and have families and/or familial responsibilities, so I don't often interact with them. But one of my local suitors, who may or may not become "lucky", is 35 going on 36. So no, ain't NUTHIN' wrong with 30 y/os.

Submit452: Smack! (That could be a kiss or a light slap on your butt) Come here and behave yourself!

And BTW, I don't discriminate against older men either -- my steady bf is 42 and I see a LOT of sexy 50 and 60 y/os at Starbucks and the Gym. I also lust after a 74 y/o -- donkeyboy9 on this very site -- but he's gay and can only be a platonic friend -- but what a dick and what an insatiable appetite! When I reach a "certain age" I hope I'm with someone like him!!) :rolleyes:
 

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I know what you mean, CuriousGirl.

It's all about what one is EXPECTING from younger men. Stability, seriousness, boy-girl commitment? ROTFLMAO hahaha Quite rare unless society forces them into it -- most young men are not ready for that kind of responsibility. (According to neuroscientists, the "responsibility" section of the male brain doesn't finish forming until a man is 24 or 25.) Are you kidding me? I thought for sure it didn't even start to crystallize until they reached 38. :tongue:

Fun, energy, raw emotion and bravado? Yes. And intelligent ones can also be interesting to talk to. (Intelligence is not age-dependent.) So true!

I having nothing against men in their 30's. 30 y/o's are great because life has knocked them around a little and they've learned some valuable lessons... but they still know how to have fun. However, many men in their 30's are "breeding" and have families and/or familial responsibilities, so I don't often interact with them.

I also lust after a 74 y/o -- donkeyboy9 on this very site -- but he's gay and can only be a platonic friend -- but what a dick and what an insatiable appetite! When I reach a "certain age" I hope I'm with someone like him!!) :rolleyes: Me too, he is hotter than some men half his age.
 

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I don't approve this fairly recent move by scientists to declare men aren't grown up and ready for responsibilities till they're practically in their dotage. If someone's not more or less grown up at 18 how long do they need exactly. People get married at 16 and stay together all their lives, have kids at 18 and cope with them well, some people are grown up at 18 others never will but I think it's a poor show for science to condone 30+'s kidding themselves they're still kids.
 

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I don't approve this fairly recent move by scientists to declare men aren't grown up and ready for responsibilities till they're practically in their dotage. If someone's not more or less grown up at 18 how long do they need exactly. People get married at 16 and stay together all their lives, have kids at 18 and cope with them well, some people are grown up at 18 others never will but I think it's a poor show for science to condone 30+'s kidding themselves they're still kids.

I have a problem with the whole thing by "scientists" saying that men and women are sooooo completely different from each other! :mad: This is such a hot button issue with me that I really prefer not to even discuss it, since as a true equality feminist, I seem to be in a very tiny minority (even among feminists...) As for when people mature, well, it varies among individuals for various reasons. I matured (emotionally) rather late in life, unfortunately. I was still living with my parents when I turned 30. What made that particularly bad was that I absolutely hated the area where my parents live! But to say that men are not "grown up" at whatever age, but that women are, is just ridiculous. Totally depends on the person.
 

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There was an article in some newspaper, I forget which, which said that 35 was now the age at which people are considered to be truly grown up, while science is backing crap like this people are going to carry on acting badly and not taking responsibility for their own actions because 'hey I'm still a kid'.

While most of us don't really feel grown up inside we do partake of adult things, pay our bills, live our life, do all the adult things we're supposed to without using excuses provided by science to make a cock up and hope someone else will pay the tab.
 

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Hey, SP -- I know exactly where you're coming from. Males are perfectly capable of rising to the occasion (and I'm not talking about the "obvious" sense!)

However, I believe that societal expectation has a lot to do with it.

Things are different than they used to be a hundred years ago -- (a) compulsory education, and (b) almost double the life expectancy.

This added a number of "care free years" to the lifestyle of young, middle-class males in Westernized countries.

So it doesn't really matter what Scientists are or aren't saying -- our society has different expectations of males (different than they used to be):

-- In America, education usually isn't completed until the 20's. Trade certification = 19 - 20; Associate's degree = 20 - 21; Bachelor's = 22 - 23; Master's 24 - 25. People with post-graduate education (such as medical professions) aren't done until they're nearly 30.

-- Divorce rates are much lower among people who marry AFTER completing an education.

People living at poverty levels -- or in societies where education is not given or valued "for the masses" -- live a completely different life. Necessity forces them to grow up faster.

In other words, men can grow up faster or slower depending on expectation and educational needs.

And THAT is my completely unscientific explanation of the fact that men, bless them, are only as grown up as they NEED to be... :wink:
 

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Your theory makes good sense hotmilf, but I can't understand why anyone would want to be in a perpetual state of teenagerdom, being an adult is so much more fun despite the few obvious drawbacks.
 

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LOL...

I don't know -- I sometimes wish I had the carefree mindset that I had before having kids. And I would LOVE a few less bills to pay....

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Hey, SP -- I know exactly where you're coming from. Males are perfectly capable of rising to the occasion (and I'm not talking about the "obvious" sense!)
However, I believe that societal expectation has a lot to do with it.

Things are different than they used to be a hundred years ago -- (a) compulsory education, and (b) almost double the life expectancy.

This added a number of "care free years" to the lifestyle of young, middle-class males in Westernized countries.

So it doesn't really matter what Scientists are or aren't saying -- our society has different expectations of males (different than they used to be):

-- In America, education usually isn't completed until the 20's. Trade certification = 19 - 20; Associate's degree = 20 - 21; Bachelor's = 22 - 23; Master's 24 - 25. People with post-graduate education (such as medical professions) aren't done until they're nearly 30.

-- Divorce rates are much lower among people who marry AFTER completing an education. That makes sense

People living at poverty levels -- or in societies where education is not given or valued "for the masses" -- live a completely different life. Necessity forces them to grow up faster. This is true! Very few people get married at 16 or younger these days.

In other words, men can grow up faster or slower depending on expectation and educational needs.

And THAT is my completely unscientific explanation of the fact that men, bless them, are only as grown up as they NEED to be... :wink:
I have noticed that many of the men that migrated here from Eastern Europe in the last 15 years seem to be all about settling down with a wife and kids in their 20's. Whereas many American men think they are too young to marry at 30. :tongue:

I don't approve this fairly recent move by scientists to declare men aren't grown up and ready for responsibilities till they're practically in their dotage. If someone's not more or less grown up at 18 how long do they need exactly. People get married at 16 and stay together all their lives, have kids at 18 and cope with them well, some people are grown up at 18 others never will but I think it's a poor show for science to condone 30+'s kidding themselves they're still kids.
Who the heck is getting married at 16 these days? :eek::confused: I get your point but in the US that is no longer common. I obviously can't speak for the rest of the world; but in the US we seem to have created an oddly immature generation. Both the males and females are often very intelligent; can function in the workplace, but because of their 'helicopter moms' they are at a loss for how to do many things for themselves.
Making an actual decision w/o first calling mom is out of the question.

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You have my vote! :smile:
 

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There was an article in some newspaper, I forget which, which said that 35 was now the age at which people are considered to be truly grown up, while science is backing crap like this people are going to carry on acting badly and not taking responsibility for their own actions because 'hey I'm still a kid'.

While most of us don't really feel grown up inside we do partake of adult things, pay our bills, live our life, do all the adult things we're supposed to without using excuses provided by science to make a cock up and hope someone else will pay the tab.

35 is the new 18. :biggrin1:

Does this mean I'm actually 27 now? :smile:
 

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I don't believe that people should get married at 16 nj, I mean that at 16, 18 or so people should be able to face adult life instead of still thinking life's a bowl of cherries where their parents should take all their responsibilities on for them. During your late teens you may not be exactly the finished product, but I don't think 18, 19 year olds should consider themselves kids and I certainly find the 30 year olds who still consider themselves kids a little sad in their inability to face that by anyone's standards they're adults.