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Me and my straight mate are close he knows I'm gay but recently I've started dancing him more and more is that wrong and what do I do
Well said @Brodie888There is nothing wrong with being sexually attracted to anyone. But you know those feelings aren't being reciprocated so to pursue those feelings will most likely damage your friendship.
Most people have the need for intimacy. When those needs aren't being met, it's common for people to try to force what they have available to try and fill the void (emotionally and physically lol).
So basically you need to find a gay person to fulfill your gay needs and have your straight friend to just be your friend.
Me and my straight mate are close he knows I'm gay but recently I've started dancing him more and more is that wrong and what do I do
There is nothing wrong with being sexually attracted to anyone. But you know those feelings aren't being reciprocated so to pursue those feelings will most likely damage your friendship.
Most people have the need for intimacy. When those needs aren't being met, it's common for people to try to force what they have available to try and fill the void (emotionally and physically lol).
So basically you need to find a gay person to fulfill your gay needs and have your straight friend to just be your friend.
There is nothing wrong with being sexually attracted to anyone. But you know those feelings aren't being reciprocated so to pursue those feelings will most likely damage your friendship.
When there's unrequited attraction and desire, there is no genuine friendship since there's a disparity in the intent of why both people want the friendship; along with there being a power imbalance due to mismatched desire.
True friendship is a relationship of equals and is mutually beneficial to both people.
I have friends for over 10 years who I know are sexually attracted to me but I have absolutely no sexual interest. We are friends because of other interests and enjoy going out, holidays, etc.
Fake friends. You're a narcissist.
I stoop to concurAnd here I thought we could have a civilized conversation and then you stoop into ad hominem.
Oh well....
Me and my straight mate are close he knows I'm gay but recently I've started dancing him more and more is that wrong and what do I do