Limp bottoms

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  1. gayguy777

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    I was just with a guy a few months ago and he did not like it when I was hard while he was screwing me. I was just wandering how many of you gay/bi top men out there like a limp bottom?
     
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    :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

    don't really care or even think about it!
     
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    I like a guy who gets hard when I am fucking him it is hot
     
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    Some guys just can't stay hard when getting fucked. Some stay hard as a rock. It's different with each guy.
     
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    And sometimes, on the same guy, it's different every time. I have no clue how I'm going to respond.

    I've actually had the opposite of the OP happen as well. A friend of mine was freaked out that I went soft. I assured him, that no matter what was going on down there, the moaning, eyes uncontrollably rolling into my skull, quivering body, and begging not to stop, should be clear enough signals that I was obviously still enjoying myself. :rolleyes:
     
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    If a guy complained that he didn't like me being hard while he fucked me ... the only thing i could tell him is he would have to be a bottom then cause when I am being fucked I am rock hard and I can't help it.
    When Im topping I like it when they are hard...
     
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    I like a bottom to be hard while I'm fucking him. If he's soft, but obviously enjoying it, that is okay as well.

    I don't think it is a set in stone thing. Some guys are rock hard one time and soft the next time. A while back, I dated a guy who would be soft the whole time and then suddenly get hard and come. Didn't even have to touch himself. Every guy is different.
     
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    I like hard dicks so hard is better. But I know guys can't always be hard. I like to see what people look like soft, but then I like to see a hard dick.
     
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    It really does vary, some can stay hard... others can't. Enjoy it if you can.
     
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    nope; cant do it; cant stay hard if i'm being fucked. dont know why...but when those moments arise and i want a dick in my ass i'm not usually concerned about the feelings of my cock; its my butt that i'm enjoying...lol
     
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    I have never had a guy say that... that's ridiculous. Did he feel all the attention should be on him? I have been with guys that loved that I was hard... while others were surprised that I could stay hard while being fucked.
     
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    when I'm a top i like when the bttm does stay hard as the hard cock can be fun to play with while i'm fucking him, but I'm not going to be upset if he goes soft as I know that not everyone can stay hard while being fucked and in some cases that just means that they are obtaining and focusing more of their attention on their ass some bottoms can even do special tightness tricks to increase the pleasure of the top.

    when I bottom it just depends on the top and other factors weither I stay hard or not, like once I was able to stay hard and cum without touching my cock. other times the top can be doing everything to the point where my entire body will be shaking and convulsing almost like i'm having a siezure in extreme pleasure but my dick will be totally soft, just means I'm focused on the pleasure that the other senses are receiving.
     
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    Something that you don't see very often that gets me going is when the top jerks the bottom off while penetrating him or even better when the top is flexible enough to suck the bottom off while penetrating him.
     
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    If a guy isn't hard when he is getting fucked, he isn't enjoying it. Period. Or, should I say, not at every moment, but in general, yeah. I can't begin to stand to watch porno movies where some guy is getting it and "emoting" and he's totally soft. Wtf is that about?
     
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    Been there done that.
     
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    i thought this was a thread about george w bush ...........
     
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    I actually love when a bottom is limp like a wet rag... It makes them more "feminine" in some sense, at least IMHO :D
     
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    When I'm getting fucked, sometimes I go hard and sometimes I don't, but, believe me, it's not that I'm not enjoying it. :wink:
     
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    I'm always hard as a rock when I'm being fucked. Don't know why; can't explain it but I've always been that way.
     
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    It doesn't matter whether I am soft or hard when I am bottoming it doesn't really matter, if I am not enjoying it I buck the top out of me. I like it better is hard but it makes no difference cuz if the bttm isn't enjoying they should be makin that known
     
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