Limp dick!

[D_Calvin_Clone]

So ive had previous partners but this was the first time me and my current girlfriend attempted sex. We were both very horny and performed oral on each othher for about an hour each. She gave me a blowjob and there was a lot of precum! I was really horny! So we decided to have sex. But by this time, i didn't feel as horny. I put on the condom but my dick went half hard on me and couldn't penetrate her!
What's wrong with me?

 

[725672]

Nothing is wrong with you. The things like what you describe just happen.

 

[D_Bubba_Butter]

What's wrong with me?

Nothing. Shit happens. Next time you'll be fine.

Next!!

 

[mick93101]

Solo is right, it happens but...the dick never lies about pussy, initially.

Straight guys are so eager to achieve sexual conquest, they'll do anything and women know it. Unfortunately, guys never listen to their dick's warning signals before leaping into what becomes a "relationship"...

Here's some possibilities:
Was this the girl friend of your former girlfriend? You know, the one you used to fantasize about when fucking your ex.

Was this the coworker who seemed extra friendly to you but now that you've become intimate, she never stops needling you about your contact info to your cash cow client?

Was this the girl who you accidentally ran into at the laundry mat, bookstore and your brother's wedding? Did she friend you on FaceBook and already know your date of birth, highschool reunion, and your mother's taste in potential daughter in-laws?

Was this the girl that was the most exciting, engaging and spontaneous personality you've gone on a date with in a long time. The one that swept you up in a frenzy of emotion and then disappeared for two weeks. Now, that she's back, she's exciting...engaging...and...spontaneous....?

Ask any middle-age guy if he ever listened to his limp dick prior to slipping his dick into mother nature's ATM machine.
Infidelity
Ambition
Obsession
Schizophrenia
Guys think they are depositing.
Woman know it only debits....or you could have been drunk.
just a thought.

 

[D_Bubba_Butter]

Solo is right, it happens but...the dick never lies about pussy, initially.

Straight guys are so eager to achieve sexual conquest, they'll do anything and women know it. Unfortunately, guys never listen to their dick's warning signals before leaping into what becomes a "relationship"...

[random guff removed - no offence]

Ask any middle-age guy if he ever listened to his limp dick prior to slipping his dick into mother nature's ATM machine.
Infidelity
Ambition
Obsession
Schizophrenia
Guys think they are depositing.
Woman know it only debits....or you could have been drunk.
just a thought.

What on earth was that all about? Perhaps you should start a thread to tell us all about it - let it all out...

Lubeitup, you're fine. It's just one of those things... Don't worry about it.

Mick - keep taking the meds.

 

[erratic]

What's wrong with me?

1) Nothing.
2) Perhaps your dick just wanted a blow job. I know when my dick settles in to a nice, long beej, it sometimes gets cranky when I try to shift gears. Besides, you don't always have to proceed on to vaginal penetration every time - you've got a long life ahead of you with plenty of options for that, and your dick will want things to get mixed up a bit.
3) Sounds like this is a one-off thing. Worry about it only if it becomes a pattern.
4) Dicks go limp for any number of reasons. Tiredness, stress, anxiety, needing to pee (which, ironically, can also cause erections), being sore, being heavily used. The list goes on. Paying attention to that stuff can't hurt.

Good luck next time. I'm sure things will be fine.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

So ive had previous partners but this was the first time me and my current girlfriend attempted sex. We were both very horny and performed oral on each othher for about an hour each. She gave me a blowjob and there was a lot of precum! I was really horny! So we decided to have sex. But by this time, i didn't feel as horny. I put on the condom but my dick went half hard on me and couldn't penetrate her!
What's wrong with me?

Nothing's wrong with you.

Porn is a lie.

Dicks go limp or cycle through different levels of hardness - for a variety of reasons - passing thoughts, sensation when the condom first goes on, at penetration, during oral, during intercourse/anal, and if you're sensitive to others' needs, when a partner seems to be experiencing discomfort or isn't ino it.

Dont go ino a negative mindspace, just do something else until you feel capable of attempting penetration again, no biggie. Or don't and just dry hump, 69, etc., until you feel comfortable. It was your first time with her and nervousness is normal.

Next week we can discuss the other porn lies - moments when the guy can't cum and men who needs lots of stimulation, connection, and *gasp* lovey feelings to desire sex/get hard.

 

[D_Calvin_Clone]

Solo is right, it happens but...the dick never lies about pussy, initially.

Straight guys are so eager to achieve sexual conquest, they'll do anything and women know it. Unfortunately, guys never listen to their dick's warning signals before leaping into what becomes a "relationship"...

Here's some possibilities:
Was this the girl friend of your former girlfriend? You know, the one you used to fantasize about when fucking your ex.

Was this the coworker who seemed extra friendly to you but now that you've become intimate, she never stops needling you about your contact info to your cash cow client?

Was this the girl who you accidentally ran into at the laundry mat, bookstore and your brother's wedding? Did she friend you on FaceBook and already know your date of birth, highschool reunion, and your mother's taste in potential daughter in-laws?

Was this the girl that was the most exciting, engaging and spontaneous personality you've gone on a date with in a long time. The one that swept you up in a frenzy of emotion and then disappeared for two weeks. Now, that she's back, she's exciting...engaging...and...spontaneous....?

Ask any middle-age guy if he ever listened to his limp dick prior to slipping his dick into mother nature's ATM machine.
Infidelity
Ambition
Obsession
Schizophrenia
Guys think they are depositing.
Woman know it only debits....or you could have been drunk.
just a thought.

:S

 

[FleshlightKing]

Awe, you'll be okai man. Just next time try another blowjob is it goes half on you and then pop that condom back on and fuck that pussy Hehe

 

[odave]

Two Words: Performance Anxiety. There is much written about this subject, and you'll find many helpful tips if you do a google search. If none of that works, try a little bit of viagra until you get past it.

 

[D_Calvin_Clone]

Two Words: Performance Anxiety. There is much written about this subject, and you'll find many helpful tips if you do a google search. If none of that works, try a little bit of viagra until you get past it.

Thanks for the advice dude!

 

[ShannonH]

According to you, you were up and hard for an hour straight. I'm assuming you were probably getting hard long before that -- probably rubbing your boner in to her while you made out.. getting a chubby when you watched her lips, saw her butt bounce up and down under her skirt. It could have been just enough that you reached your limit.
I was once hard for well over 5 hours straight and then was surprised when my dick was numb and went soft a few minutes in to sex. I'm pretty healthy, but I saw on 'The 40-year-old Virgin' that ED med people think it could be a medical emergency if you have an erection that lasts longer than 4 hours. I wasn't on any meds but that's a hell of a long time.

Also, if you were getting oral for that long, you might have just already come a little bit. Not every orgasm feels like some mind-blowing explosion, and if you were specifically holding back, you could've just come but without much intensity.

Women feel physical pain if they try to have sex when they're body's not ready, so in my experience they're never shy about saying no if they're just not feeling it right then. Men just try and take any opportunity to fuck and think it's some kind of personal failure if our bodies aren't up to it at the time, when it's incredibly normal.

 

[D_Calvin_Clone]

Thanks dude for the info! Helps alot

 

[tamati]

I almost always go limp when putting on a condom.