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  1. lambcom

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    This may be a dumb question from a str8 guy, but here goes. In most videos of gay sex, the "bottom's" cock is essentially limp. I would think that if I had a big hard dick up my ass massaging my prostate that I would be hard as a rock. What gives? Enquiring minds need to know!
     
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    It varies from guy to guy, but in my experience just because he's flaccid doesn't mean he isn't enjoying it! :biggrin1:

    Why not try a hard dick massage and let us know what happens? :tongue:
     
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    When I am being fucked, I like to sniff poppers, as they help to relax the sphincter. However, poppers cause the arteries to dilate, which makes the blood rush but it lowers the blood pressure, which makes an erection difficult to sustain. Most gay porn doesn't show anyone sniffing poppers, or actual putting on a condom.

    Even though I may not be hard the whole time, I am definitely enjoying it. Also, when you are hard, you are tempted to wank, which may cause you to cum too soon. So you wait until the top gets to the vinegar strokes, and then you can quickly join him.
     
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    Some of them probably are gay for pay... and may not be onto anything but the paycheck. LOL Remember porn stars are actors.

    Every time I have had a cock up my ass I have been hard as a rock!
     
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    I pound guys face down so I don't know if they are limp or not.

    They're usually yelling pretty loud though.:wink:
     
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    ...also, lets not forget the basic matter of size. If you try to put a hot dog in a bun without splitting the bun up first you are going to get a mess. In most of the vids where guys are limp, most of the time they have not been "warmed up" either. Meaning they have not been aroused enough or prepared enough to enjoy the size.
     
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    with me it depends on a few different factors such as...

    the last time i jerked off
    hornyness factor
    how into the guy I am
    if I'm drunk or not

    and just because I'm not hard sometimes when I'm getting fucked, doesn't mean that I'm not into it, it just means that my mind is focusing more on the anal sensations rather than keeping my dick hard...
     
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    Actually he's flaccid because he's getting the feeling from else where.

    And it also depends on the guy. Some guys not too many will stay hard, but a majority are limp.

    Now here's another for you. The guy is getting fucked, limped dick and he cums like crazy!

    So it goes to show you that having hard dick isn't a sexual indicator!


     
  9. AM_092

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    Yeah, it depends on the bottom really! Plus, the circumstances. If I'm really turned on by the guy and we're having really good sex then I'm usually hard. But if I wasn't in the mood and just getting fucked so the top could get off, then I'm usually not hard. I'm also not hard if I'm in an uncomfortable position. Even if I'm not hard, I still enjoy getting fucked. The feeling's awesome.
     
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    Many guys will go limp when they are being fucked. Some are hard sometimes and limp other times. The rest always stay hard. It isn't unusual either way.
     
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    I remember seeing a gay porn where the bottom not only was hard but he also came while being fucked.
     
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    I was frequently limp when bottoming (although I LOVED every second), until I met my boyfriend. Now I stay rock hard, and our sex is really arousing and intimate, so maybe for me it was a psychological thing, cus now I stay hard the whole time. Im not sure if there really is a straight up physiological answer....
     
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    So it doesn't matter either way for you.

     
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    Now that is HOT!
     
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    I only have an erection while bottoming, if I stroke my cock, otherwise I stay soft. I still love the penetration and can have anal orgasms.

    If I'm taking something really big (like a fist) I usually can't get fully erect even when I'm stroking. I still get off though!
     
  16. AM_092

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    Yeah, I'll be having a good time either way :) I usually cum after getting fucked.
     
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    I always have the hardest erection when getting fucked!

    Just poke my ass with a warm cock and I'll get hard... not from anticipation, I just love the cock.
     
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    I had a guy who fucked me all the time, with a big, curved dick. Every time he fucked me, I would just cum like a river as that curve had him hitting my prostate over and over. Most times, unless I am jacking while being dicked, my cock is flaccid...till he cums, then I get mine too...pleasing the top is the most important thing..
     
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    As a total bottom, I never worry about me getting off (whether it be giving head or getting fucked) since I put all of my energy into pleasing who I'm with.
     
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    I was with my ex again today for a one off and much the same when we were dating, some of the times i fucked him he was hard, some of them he was soft. all depends at the time. I do know that every time he enjoyed it however
     
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