Line between p&p

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I once heard a sexual sadist / Dom say that one of the things he liked about being a Dom (and one of the things that makes him a sexual sadist) is that he likes the sound and expressions of a person in pain, that he found it highly arousing and “beautiful to watch”.

What do you think about pain? What role does it have in sex? Any?
Is there a line you would draw?
If you enjoy some aspect of it, what is it? Giving, receiving, both?
Do wires ever get “crossed”? (Ex: the woman next to you at the tattoo parlor is squirming and whimpering as she gets inked - does it light up areas of the brain that make you “tingle down there”? Or v/v - you’re the one getting, say, a deep tissue massage from a not-unattractive-lady that’s maybe a little too deep, causing you to writhe about a bit. Could that / would that turn you on?)

Just curious...
 
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i’m definitely not into the pain thing—neither for myself or for others.

for one thing, since i’ve caused pain on accident before, I can see what a mood-killer it is; then there are residual effects, which may lead to anxiety in the future.

nah, to me sex should be about pleasure and intimacy.
 
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