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Ok ladies I'm reaching out for opinions. Let me give a little background information. My girlfriend is not flashy. Wears no makeup and really doesn't need to. Naturally pretty first thing in the morning. She hardly owns any jewelry. She is just not into fancy things or expensive things. She owns more sports bras and sweat pants than nice pocketbooks. That's not to say that when we go out for a nice night she is sporting Nike apparel and a baseball cap (although I wouldn't mind). She plays the part when needed and does it beautifully. Dresses professionally for work and I guess has a shoe obsession Bc she owns a zillion pairs. Anyway, these things are just a few of the many reasons I love her so much. Complete opposite from my ex wife who had to have $2000 handbags and giant diamond earrings.
So my question is this. Am I risking hurting her feelings by buying her some stuff? Making her feel like I'm not attracted to her and what she wears? She owns no "sexy" lingerie. I say sexy in parenthesis Bc I find her sports bra sexy. Just not her thing I suppose. However, it would be a turn on for me to see her in something different. I could never see her at Victoria secret buying a risqué outfit, so part of me thinks it's not good idea.
Buy it for her?
Ask her if she wants some?
Gift vertificate?
Kind of at a loss. Having no closure or solution to this problem wouldn't cost me an ounce of sleep btw. Just reaching out for opinions.
So my question is this. Am I risking hurting her feelings by buying her some stuff? Making her feel like I'm not attracted to her and what she wears? She owns no "sexy" lingerie. I say sexy in parenthesis Bc I find her sports bra sexy. Just not her thing I suppose. However, it would be a turn on for me to see her in something different. I could never see her at Victoria secret buying a risqué outfit, so part of me thinks it's not good idea.
Buy it for her?
Ask her if she wants some?
Gift vertificate?
Kind of at a loss. Having no closure or solution to this problem wouldn't cost me an ounce of sleep btw. Just reaching out for opinions.