Little dick - big ego

[B_All4show]

But you've probably all seen this in anything dealing with Cuckold fetishism. A big part of the fetish is the inadequecy of the husband in question.

Very interesting observations.

...but why just husbands? - ouch.

 

[B_All4show]

Women are perceived as having a poor grasp of size, I often think small guys tell us it's big in the simple hope that because we've been told it's big we'll perceive it as big. Men all have an idea what average size is supposed to be whether they see it as the traditional average of 6 inches or the alleged real average of 5 and a half, so most know where they fit on the scale.

My sister-in-law told me, her former boy friend said he last girls (hard to follow I know) said he had a perfect penis. I love that line because it is hard to dispute. Another girl told him so, so it was true. She said he was mainly average. Sounds much better - perfect.

 

[B_ScaredLittleBoy]

There was a guy in another thread (in this section, long time ago) saying he had sex with this size queen...and she was on the phone to her friends WHILE he was having sex with her telling them how shit he was in bed

I don't know about the veracity of his claims. But there is that thread in this section. Somewhere. I forget the author or title.

As for cuckolding...I think that's the name for husbands being cheated on. Archaic. When it's boyfriend-girlfriend I think its just called 'I wanna see my girlfriend take a big one'. I don't really understand it since I am quite old fashioned and see a girl I'm in a relationship as belonging only to me. I wouldn't willfuly or happily let her fuck anyone else, regardless of the stature of his sausage :tongue:

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

Sorry, should have clarified.. Agreed to the blow job

 

[B_Veronica_Divine]

There was a guy in another thread (in this section, long time ago) saying he had sex with this size queen...and she was on the phone to her friends WHILE he was having sex with her telling them how shit he was in bed

I don't know about the veracity of his claims. But there is that thread in this section. Somewhere. I forget the author or title.

As for cuckolding...I think that's the name for husbands being cheated on. Archaic. When it's boyfriend-girlfriend I think its just called 'I wanna see my girlfriend take a big one'. I don't really understand it since I am quite old fashioned and see a girl I'm in a relationship as belonging only to me. I wouldn't willfuly or happily let her fuck anyone else, regardless of the stature of his sausage :tongue:

Yes that's true about the definition of cuckolding, I don't think it has a name from a premarital standpoint other than "swinging" or "Cheating" but I coudln't be positive.

I also once read a letter to an advice colmunist in which the guy professed hsi love for women acting bored when he had sex with them. He didn't bring size into it, but said if she was on the phone, watching t.v., or best of all, yawning dramatically, it got his rocks off like clockwork. Obviously I'm not speaking from personal experience there, though.

 

[Principessa]

It's called SPH - Small Penis Humiliation - often abreviated to SPH , is a paraphilia which leads to sexual arousal when a male's penis size is ridiculed as being small and/or inadequate. In some cases it is compared to larger men's genitals, or revealed to third parties. It is generally used as a label for erotica, pornography, or sexual fantasy depicting such scenarios. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Small_penis_humiliation

I hope I'm not restating what anyone else had said, but it's also quite possible that this guy neither hoped to trick you nor thought he was actually big.

He might have been in that third category of guy I've gotten to know in my life as a size empress. He wanted you to laugh at his dick. I don't rightly know the psychology of it, but it seems some small men begin to sexualize their own perceptions of inadequecy and inability to please a woman.

They seek us out, often misleading us with boasts of size, and then act all shocked when they get told they're small. They'll beg us to restate the facts over and over again, begging to be compared to babies, children, lipsticks, or anything tiny. They want to hear about your lack of interest and your dissapointment. Nothing gets them harder or gratifies them more.

Been there, done that ain't never doing that again.
Read posts #22-#42 if you are curious about my personal experience with SPH with an LPSG member.

Aside from the fact I cannot wrap my brain around being aroused by an insult to your physical person. I have submissive tendencies and truly enjoy being dominated in bed by a man with a big cock. For me to be dominant long enough to make him feel good, it makes me miserable. :redface:

 

[tripod]

I have submissive tendencies and truly enjoy being dominated in bed by a man with a big cock.

I think you need to bend over, arch that back and open up wide my dear... :087:

 

[B_Veronica_Divine]

Preach it, sister, nothing more dissapointing then a letter from a SPH guy.

 

[Principessa]

Originally Posted by njqt466

I have submissive tendencies and truly enjoy being dominated in bed by a man with a big cock.
I think you need to bend over, arch that back and open up wide my dear... :087:

njqt466 happily bends over and spreads wide
:087: :flirt: :05: ​

 

[B_Veronica_Divine]

*Jaw drops, watching the oncoming train wreck*

 

[B_capslock]

regarding the original post, I think sir talk-alot bragged about his faux-sausage to get into Lee_M's pants. While other women it may have turned off, he probasbly does the shotgun method of picking up girls.. talks to everyone, talks about his fictitious-dickus, and manages to get some unsuspecting victim in his clutches. remember: a confident man looks as attractive to a woman as a nicely displayed C-cup beckoning to be mashed looks attractive to a man. So a guy blatently nd arrogantlly bullshitting to a woman about his Gangus-Cock comes of as "confidence".

So in the end, this twig-dicked dude did WHATEVER it took to get into someone's pants. And Lee you fell for it! With promises of a birth-girth, redwood-length, veined pillar of manhood, your pussy left snail trails on your panties all through the night thinking this confident playa was gonna deliver the goods. When guys start to talk about their size, most girls just walk away.. but you didn't. I mean who knows how many girls he's just plowed through with those lines. twig-dick man just flipping thrpugh girls with his cheap talk and empty promises.. girl and fter girl walk out but YOU stuck around.. Believing his stories.... You got played, sista!

 

[LemacST]

Women are perceived as having a poor grasp of size, I often think small guys tell us it's big in the simple hope that because we've been told it's big we'll perceive it as big. Men all have an idea what average size is supposed to be whether they see it as the traditional average of 6 inches or the alleged real average of 5 and a half, so most know where they fit on the scale.

I agree with this!

At 6.5x5.25, I just tell girls I'm "average, I guess?", but ONLY if they ask. I say it with confidence and indifference and sometimes follow it up with "..eitherway, I still have this big tongue" and stick out my large, gene simmons tongue :wink:. That usually gets them blushing and smiling :biggrin1:

 

[whatireallywant]

I generally don't ask, strangely enough. I figure many would lie anyway.

One of the more hung guys I've been with (girth wise) thought he was small! I think he'd just been watching too much porn. :biggrin1: (now, he had a personality I didn't like, once I got to know him better, and I had physical problems with him that were unrelated to his size - and I know that because later on I was with a guy of similar girth, and no problems at all there.)

I'm not into being dominant or submissive. I don't like the whole "power" thing in sex. If someone else is into that it's no problem (unless it actually becomes abusive), but it's not my thing. I like big guys because I appear to be "made" (physically) for them. And yes, I do like intense sex but I don't really think that's the same thing as being submissive.

And I don't like humiliating anyone. I've been through enough self esteem issues with bullying and being disliked - I don't want to inflict anything remotely like that on anyone else, even if they appear to want that.

 

[B_icem]

hmmmm so the guy lied about his size and you still blew him.....sounds to me like he won

why should guys even stop lying about their size if they can still reap the benefits ? lol @ sluts

 

[D_golden parachute]

hmmmm so the guy lied about his size and you still blew him.....sounds to me like he won

why should guys even stop lying about their size if they can still reap the benefits ? lol @ sluts

My thoughts exactly haha

 

[Lex Crawford]

My grandad didn't fight in the war so men could lie about the size of their penis.

I'm Lex Crawford, deal with it!